有在花镇退款成功的吗？情感中的“操控”和“低位”

 ruhefangzhi“qinggancaokong”youzhezhudaoquan?zheiyiqidajiajiang：zenyangfangzhi“qinggancaokong”。youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？zenmehuishizheiyilunwenxuanti?jianxindahuoerduizheiyixinwenbaodaoyouyidingdelejie：

2nianqian，25suidedengmou(nan)yuzaiyedianjiejiaode18suidesumou(nv)kuaisufazhanqushibianchenglianren。

 jinguanbujiulejie，keshisumouquechangchangxiangdengmouzhuitaolipin，liru：8000yuandeyanchanghuipiao，kadiyashoubiao，guccibaodengshechipinbaobao…...

dengmou，douyiyikaolvle，dansumoudecunjinchi，taguidingyangshuomeiriweizijizhuanzhang666yuanlai“zhengshi”aita。

zaizheiliduan“guanlian”li，jinguanweimingshangsumoushidengmoude“nvyou”，dantayizhibulibucai，changchangjigeyuedouzhaobuzheren。

bingqiedengmouyidanfancuo，sumoubianhuiduiqidama。

2niandeshijianjiaowangchulai，dengmouzaoyiyuelaiyueyouxinchongchongle。

 jinnianwuyue，jianjuzhiqianpengmianzaoyiguoqule3geyue，dengmouxiangjiannvyouzuihouyimian，quetingdaotazaoyiyongyoubiedenanyou，sumoudexinnanpengyounaizhihaibalianggerenzaijiudiancantingdeqinmiwujianxiangpianfasongjiledengmou。

节选自新闻报道

5yue21ri，zaizheigeteshuderizili，dengmoutiaoxuangaoyiduanluozishendexingming，liuyouleyiju：

“zhongwoyisheng，yinniqiadangdelumian。”

 dengmoudezaoshouqueshilingrenyihan，zairongheyiqiande“beijingdaxuebaolian”，jiqixinwenshijianzhonggezhonggeyangyu“qinggancaokong”youguandeanzi。

 dajiafajue，wulunnvxinghuanshinanren，shijishangdoushihuibiancheng“qinggancaokong”deshouhairen。yaoshitaxingqingmingan，yaoshitaaideyiwufangumeishenmedaodedixian，yaoshitachuzai“ganqingdiwei”guanxinglidijian......

rendaozuizhongdezuizhong，bianhuiyizheibanjiliedefangfawanquanleduan。

“qinggancaokong”shijishanglidajiabinghenjin。

 xiangyixiangzheixielibulehuaxinnan/baijinnvdenanhaihenvhai;xiangyixiangzheixiezaiqingganlizhangqixingbeishiya，yulaiyufangzongzijidenanhaihenvhai;xiangyixiangzheixieguanxinglikuanrongnanpengyou/nvyouchuguideren。

henduorenyagenguannianbushangzishenyijingbei“qinggancaokong”;

“nimeiyuwofashengxingguanxibianshibuaiwo”

“nimeibangwomaishechipin/lipinbianshibuaiwo”

"nimeixxxbianshixxx”juxingshi“gaofaqu”，ziran，xukanshijideexingshijianheshuiping。

zheilei，feichangrongyiyipiangaiquan，xiangnichuandiyizhong“luojixing”，yikaolvtadeyunian。

ruguoyouzheileizhuangkuang，erqiejinijuede“bushigan”，niyejiugaizhuyile!

jiusuanmeiyoubei“caozong”querengranyouyu“diwei”eryayigantongchu;

 changchanghusiluanxiang，haipahuijuelingyifang，danxinlingyifangyouyunide“dikang”erpaodiao，danxinhelingyifang“chaojia”zaochengmaodun......

 liru：nihaijidehelingyifangdequanbu“jieri”，tashengchennijingxinzhunbeilipin，dannideshengritafuyansaize，naizhimeiyoulipin，“qixijie”niquelibiaoshushuo：“nimaishenmewodoushihuihenkaixin”，danlingyifangbudanlijiduinishuo“burongyisong”，hai“shiya”ni“beidianjiahuyou”

 youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？zheileiqingkuangxianixuyaodangxinle，tabuyidingshiyouxin“caozong”ni，zhibuguo：“dacongxinlihushini，buyuanjinizaifeiyidianxin”

daozheileishuiping，bu“caozong”yehe“caozong”meichale。

 gengkongbudeshi，xuduo “shihaizhe”naizhidouguannianbushangzishenyijing“qinggancaokong”，tamenjinjinzisizililengdandiyaoxiangzuodaozishendemudibale，shenzhiyou，haihuijixubazheilei“caozong”gerenxingweilejiewei“ai”......

 liru：“baolian”lidemoumou，juedezishendeyiqie“chufa”doushiyouyu“ai”，ertayeyouyu“henai”er“youqibiequ”。

 qianbujiu《yinmidejiaoluo》li，zhuchaoyangmamazhenduizhuchaoyangde“caozong”yeshizai“bihechunniunai”shi，fanyingdehanchanglinli......

zheiyizhong，caisuanshizuikongbude。

keliangrenbingbushiyouyuyaoxiangxingfukuaile，caitiaoxuanzaiyiqidema?

ganqingbenjiuyinggaishitianmeiwennuandecaiduiya!

zenmehuibianweineiyang?ruhejiubianweineiyangleni?

yinci zheiyipian，dajialaitantao——

zenyangfangzhi“qinggancaokong”，haiganqingyiwennuantianmei?

yinci，dajiafangtanlejin100ming，youlijingdenanhaihenvhai。