有在花镇退款成功的吗？男友拒绝沟通该怎么办？

youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？maomaoyugennanpengyoushizaipenyouxiangxijieshaoxialejiede，nanhaizibimaomaoyuda2sui，shouyifenghou，jishiruci，yikaishimaomaoyuduitabingmeiyoushiduoshaohaogandu。

zhihouzainanhaizimeirianshizhuanchejiesongshangbanyigeyuehou，maomaoyuganjuezheinanhaizihuanshimantiexinde，liangrenjiuxuanbuzaiyiqile。

liangrenjiaowanghenkaixin，meiduojiujiutongjushenghuole，nanpengyouchangchangshuomaomaoyujiletaxingfudeganjue。tongjushenghuoqineinanpengyouhaizhangxinleyici，zhikuaquanshimaomaoyudegongxian。

tongjushenghuolekuaiyiniandeshijian，jiazhongyejiugangkaishibihunle，danshizheigeshihou，nanpengyouzaidujinsheng，beidiaozhishandongsheng，bixuqinzichengdanyigegongchengxiangmu，zuishaobixuyiniandeshijian。

maomaoyudanxinbuduan，zuihoujuecegennanpengyouyiqiqu，ernanpengyouyejilitazhaofenyouxiandegongzuozhong，huoshishizaijiazuoxiezishenhenganxingqudeshier。

xinxiangmugangkaishiyunxingyihou，nanpengyouyuelaiyuegengmangle，zhiqianzhuanchejiesongmaomaoyushangban，rujinbianchengsheqiu，gengbuyaoshuopeimaomaoyule。

erkanjiannanpengyouyulaiyuchuse，maomaoyuyeyulaiyudanyounanpengyouhuibeibiedenvhaixiyinzhu，gengxiangshikelejienanpengyouzainaer，zaiganshenme。

maomaoyugangkaishimaiyuannanpengyougongzuozhongtaimang，meikongpeizishen，huiyingxinxiwanle，tongdianhuabujiezheizhongbixumaiyuan，chaojiayeyulaiyuduo。

nanpengyouzishengongzuoyalitaida，youyixietaobixingrenge，liangrendegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuedi，naizhihainaoguojihuitichufenshou。

yikaishinanpengyouyehuihongmaomaoyu，naizhihuiyouyumaomaoyutitichufenshou，jijipeita，songtazhenguidelipinquyueta，keshipinciduoleyihou，nanpengyouyeganjuejiaowanghenlei，daliangdeqingkuangxiatiaoxuanlengbaolihuoshiduobilaichuli。

liangrenzaiyiqiyulaiyumeihualiao，yeyulaiyuyayigan，maomaoyuganjueyouqibiequ，zishenweilegenghaodilingyifangfangqileyuanxiandegongzuozhong，yuanxianrichangshenghuodedachengshi，ruherujinjiubianchenglezheiyimoyangni?

shijishangxiangmaomaoyudezhuangkuangbingbingbushigean，xuduo zixundexiaobaobaodoushiyouyudaoguoneiyangdezhuangkuang，nanpengyouduobilengbaolibukengoutongjiaoliu，qinggannongduzhiyulaiyujiangdi，zishenyouyixiezuo，husiluanxiang，qingganyulaiyunanjianchixiaqu。

jinrijiugendahuoergongxianghaoduogeyingduiaiduobi，ailengbaolidenanpengyou，gairuheyouxiaogoutong，tiwendajiaqinggan。

zuixianwomenyaononggaoqingchu，weihezishendenanpengyouxiaiduobi，lengbaoli，taoyangenzishengoutongjiaoliu。

zheidaduoshugennidegoutongfangshixiangguan，liruxuduo nvshengxihuanneiyangzuo：xiangfangshefadezhaoyigeshihedejihui，daduoshushilingyifangxintaihaibucuodeqingkuangxia，suihouqiangdiaolingyifangcunyoudeyixienantihuoshishibuzhengque，changshiranglingyifangjienazheileibuzhengque，bingxiwanglingyifangkeyijiuzheng。

neiyangzuodejieguoshishenmeni?quanbuquanguochengzhong，nanpengyouyouxintaifeichanghao，bianchenglenaoxin，fanmen，naizhishichuoxin。

yaolejiezuoweichengren，youqishinanpengyouhaitingchusedezhuangkuangxia，yaobushishuolingyifangzishenlejiedaozishenyoushenmewenti，younayigeshiwomenshuoshuojiunenggaideni?

huanweisikaoyixiayixia，ninengxiangyaogenzheiyangderengoutongjiaoliuma，haowuyiwenyeshiburongyide。nanhaiziyiyangzheiban，youhenduolianaizhongxiaiduobilengbaolidenanshengshuo：pingshijiaowangzhong，haipadebianshinvpengyouhuranshuo：“womenyiqitanyitan”。

donglelingyifangweishenmexihuanduobi，dajiabianhuiyishidaoshigoutongfangshichuxianlenanti，neizaipengdaoleisidenantideqingkuangxia，dajiayingdangruhegoutongjiaoliuni?

1、让男朋友确立你的禁区，而不是根据作闹骄纵的方法去让另一方承认错误

xuduo nvshengzaijiaowangzhongfeichangrongyifanxinkoubuyidebuzhengque：

liruhenfanganlingyifangbushijianguannian，ganjuenanyirenshou，keshi，nvhaibuzhijieshuowobutaixihuanbushijianguanniandeni，zhishizaiyingduinanpengyoubushijianguanniandeqingkuangxia，buduandemaiyuanchizelingyifang，naizhishigezhonggeyangzuonao，qidailingyifanggaoduzhongshizishen，rencuo。

yici2cihaixing，pinciduolenanpengyouneixinhuiruhexiangni?

tahuiganjuezongzhihongyihongjiuhaole，ganshenmeyaoshijianguannian，naizhihuiganjue，neimexiaodeshier，meiyicidouxiaotidazuo，manbujiangli，jiaowanghenlei，shifouzishenguande，shifouyingdanglengyilengta，rangtashoulianxingyidian?

youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？xiaobaobaomenpinchulaima，maiyuanchize，zuonaojiaozongzheizhongfangfabudanhuanbudaonanpengyoudegaoduzhongshihezaiyi，naizhihuirangtamenzaochengyanjuanhepaichi，yinci lengbaoliheduobijiuchuxianle。

yinci ，zhihouzaipengdaonanpengyouganlerangzishenshifenbushufu，bukeyichengshoudeshierdeqingkuangxia，lijiqubiaoshu，yichengxiangdaidequgoutongjiaoliu，erbushijinhousuanjiuzhang，shitagaoqingchunidebiaozhunhedaodedixian，quzunxunnidebiaozhun，ziranqiantitiaojianbingbushitaiguodemanbujianglidebiaozhun，duyidingyaozhangwohao。

lingwai，zainanpengyouzunshoujilvhou，lijidejiyuzhengliandeyijianfankui，xiexielingyifangzhenduizishendetihuidezhaoliao，tishengzheileishunxiangdezhengqueyindaogongxiao，dangranyejiugaizhengleyixielingyifangdeshenshangzishentaoyandeyixiexiaoquexian。

2、降低自身对男朋友的过多关心和要求，关心自身的提高和发展

qianbiandemaomaoyu，yingduinanpengyoudehaowuyiwen，bazhangxindeyiyutadetouruhezhaoliao，rangtalejiezishenzaizheiliduanqingganzhongdeshiyongjiazhi。

yinerzhonghouqijiubasuoyoudezhuanzhuliqianyidaoweihubaoyanghaozheiyijiashangbianle，jianjiandijiuhushilezishendetigao，youyutadeguishuganlaizinanpengyou，yinci tajiuhenanpengyouyongyouxianghudelianluo：wozhendexuyaodehaowuyiwen，caikeyifanyingdaozishendeshiyongjiazhi。

youguanzheiyidian，xuduo nvhaidoushihuifan，ganjuezishendenanpengyouhenchuse，taizaodebazijidairudaojiazhongzhong“laopo”derenwujiaose，zhongzhigerentisheng。

 danshijishang，nvhaiyaoshikedianjizheshandaiziji，haohaoaiziji，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengyouyouhuolihejiazhigan，caikeyirangnanrenchixudeganxinqingyuandejinizijintourushijian，huoli，qiancai，ganqing，shitazaochengjinpogan。

shitaganjuezishendenvyouneimechuse，woxiangmeitiankanjianta，bukeyibeibiedenanrenqiangqu，zheiyaobinimeitiangezhonggeyangzuonao，naizhichaqinyangezhaokandanyousangshilingyifangyaoyouxiaodeduodeduo。

jugefeichangrongyilejiejiazhigandeshili：

maishechipindeyewuyuan，burongyikougankoukedegennituixiaochanpin，youyutamenneixinqingxi，nimaishechipinbingbuzaiyiqian，zhibuguoshiyinweixihuannibale。

jiarujiangdeguoduo，fandaohuijianshaoneijianshangpinjiazhi，jiniganjuenagechanpinmeiyourenmai。

fangdaoqingganshangyeshiyiyangzheiban，ruguonidejiazhiganyulaiyugaodeqingkuangxia，nanpengyoudangranyehuiduiniyulaiyufangzaixinshang，yulaiyubeinixiyinzhu，zheigeshihoudajiajiubuyongquyinrenguanzhu，qiushouhou，qufangfanyuweiranhaipashiqulingyifangle。

duiyuzenyangtigaoziji，neizaiwaimianzaishiyifangmian，gengguanjiandeshizishenzaiqingganzhongpengdaofenqiheweijishidejiejuegongzuonengli，zishendetanlianaigongzuonengli，bawonannvguanxiyunyingdejichuguilv，gaoqingchuganqingguanliandedagaimaixianghezenyangjiejue。

zishenyulaiyuchuse，kandaiqingganyeyulaiyuxinlizhuangtaiyoupu，nanpengyouduinidangranyehuiyulaiyuganjuezishenyuzhengqueleren，yaohaohaozhenxihezhangwo。

kanlewenzhangneirongdeniyoumeiyoufajue，qinglvzhijiandexuduo fenqiquanshi“goutongjiaoliuhebiaoshu”denanti。

youshi，nanrenshilejienixihuanshenme，chaojiayihouyelejieniyao“beihong”，danyinweinidebiaodaxingshishitajuedenanshou，jinerjiqiletadeqingchunqipanni，tabianhuiyaoxiangtaochu、lengbaoli。

zuizhongdejieguodayueniyekeyicaidao——liangrenzhengzhichixu，zuizhongbugaoerbie，baibaidecuoguotianciliangyuan。

yinci ，dajiayaoshiyongyizhongshitashushi，shitajienadebiaodaxingshi，tadangranbianhuijijilaihongren，jijimanzunidegezhonggeyangyaoqiule~