花镇咨询：怕分开后感情变淡？

 huazhenzixun，zaiguoyizhoujiuxuyaofangshujiale，jiarunigen“ta”gangkaishimengyaqi，youdanyouzhangjiahouguoqulezheicunmeiyouzheijia，qinggandexiaohuohuabeichuimie，neimazheiqizongyijiemuyidingyaonulixuexi，kanyixiaruhezuocaikeyizaiduanzanxinggezizhongjiubieshengxinhun。

 jinridajiahuilingwaicong2gecengmianxuanze，youyuyoudenvhaisuiyueanhao，lingrenfangxin;youdenvhaihuolalakailang，zonghuiyouhaodianzi，jinanshengzaochenggaojidejingshenshizhigongmingdian。

erzhongdeshijicaozuofangfashibuyiyangde。

xianshuosuiyueanhaokuan，liruwodexueshengquaner，tashizainianmoquxiezuoqiyezuoshideqingkuangxia，lejielegaolengnanshendongxi de。

 neiyitianqiahaonianmobaozhang，meigebumendoubijiaomang，yinci laizuoshidexuduorendoujihouhoude，dongxi zuoweizerenrenyoudianermubuxiajie。

 weiyouquanershifenxixin，zaiquntizhonghaihuijixubangzheweihubaoyangxiapaizhangduidejilv，zhidaoquanerdeqingkuangxia，fajuewendangquefayixiedayin，quanerquanguochengdouyouqixixin、xiaorongzhejiluxiasuobixudewupin，shenqingbanlisuihouhuijiazaipaizhangdui，zheiyiguanjiandianhenweidongxi lahaogandu。

 jiaowanshidoulaidaoxiuxishijianle，dongxi jieyoujinrizhaomafanle，zhihoubianjielianluoweiyoujialequanergerenshoujiweixin。neitianwanshangjiujiquanerfaxiaoxile，jinguanshuodeshi“dabaitianrangninjiudengle，zhenguoyibuqu”neiyangdekeqihua，danshihoubianliangrenjiugangkaishicongweixinpengyouquandaorichangshenghuoxihaoyueliaoyuehai，buduanlehaojitian。

 dongxi shibeijingshinanhaizi，jianghuayouqiyoumo，quanershinanfangguniang，wenhexianya，liangrendoushuolaidaobeijingshigezhonggeyangwandedifangheguonianxisule，dongxi jiqingyaoqing，shubuzhiquanerdenantiqujueyumangleyiniandetashenqingbanlilelianxiu，labagangkaishijiuxuyaotizaoqingjiahuijiapeifumu。

 quanerbuqingchuruhechuli，huanpiaoba，dongchepiaoneimegongbuyingqiu，zaishuoleweilegenghaodiyigejianguoyimianderen，yeyoudianerguoquleba;danshidongxi queshihenjiqing，quanershijishangyexindongle，tongyiba，youqueshishijianbuhenqiao。

 neimazhenduizheiyiyaoqing，dajiabibushangjinzaomingquetichuzishenderichengbiaozhengtiguihua，keshini，haiyaozuoyixieshier，laitianbuhuijuedequehan，rangguanlianyuelaiyue“jiubieshengxinhun”。

還是以泉儿为例子：

●diyibu，jiarulingyifangbiaomingxinhan，bubiyunanhaizizhengbian。

haijidee，ninengbiaoshu，bingbushizhengbian。

 youdenvhaiyouqipabeibierenwuhui，pengdaochanshengfenqipilimahalashuoyidadui，congluojishunxushangdaoxintaiyudiaoshang，zaidaofangshijibenyuanlishanghenbunengdoudesuoyoulejiele，suihoucaiqubanshi。

zheirangnanhaiziganjuenvhaibujindoudaxieshidoudangyihuishi，yehuilingrenganjuegoutongjiaoliufeili。

yinci quanerzhibixukelianxixishuoyiju：“henxiangqu，jinjinkexi……ai。”

●dierbuni，chengweizhuangzuofushu，shiweilegenghaodihuodezhongjishengli。

jiexiaqudongxi henchayidijiangguoju：“wo，dajiaqiyezhenshanliang，neimezaoyifangnizoua，wodouwoxiangjiannini。”

 quanerdangranfeichangrongyibeizheijuhuajixianzhizhu，ganjuebujianmianshifouzishenzhendeduibuqidongxi 。shijishangzhuangzuofushunenggouneimeshuo：“wawawa，woshibushijinixinhanlea?”

 liuyie，zheibushigeceshi，tangruolingyifangshuo，shide，nizennengbalabalade，neimazheinandeninengbuyongle，youyutashizaiqingganbangjiani。meiquedingguanliandouneiyang，quedingguanlianhouyidingyounvhaishoude，gankuaidiudiaolajigu。

keshinidouneimeaiqiule，nanhaizidabufenhuijigejietixia，biaomingmishi，keshiyehenshaoshuoxieshenme。

●disanbu，rangnanshenghuodemahoupaodehuoshengtihui。

 liangrenjieriqijianbujianshangbian，keshiworangquanerhaijideshuacunzaigan，birushuoanshiweixinfapengyouquanshairichangshenghuohezishena，yongzishendexiangpianzuobiaoqingbaodoutuazheixie。

 benlaifangjialeqiandongxi xiangyuequanerqubeijingyiheyuanshangxue，worangquanersousuotamenjiaxiangxiangjinbeijingyiheyuanjingsedediqu，suihouzhaoxiangjinanshengshuo：“dongxi ，shijishangwoyezaibeijingyiheyuanni。”

nanhaizimiaohuileyige“queshi，nibushihuijiama?”

huazhenzixun，quanerzaibuhuangbumangdipaisheleyiduanshengtaigongyuanduanshipin，yuanxianjiujigejingseleisi，qitadoubuyiyang。

 faleyihou，quanerhuopokeaidishuo：“hahaha，beipianbu，tashifangmaode，keshishuodeduia，dongjidebeijingyiheyuanhenpiaoliang，zhiqianwochangquwomenjiazhoubianzheiyishengtaigongyuan，neishijiuganjuexiangbeijingyiheyuan，pairangni，suanzuozhixinglenideyaoqingheqianglietuijianba。”

dongxi tinglejidongdebuhao。

●disibu，weilingyifangzuochuxiaotuoxie。

youyuquanerjiaoweixiuse，yinci conglaibuxiangyaogenrenshipin，woxunwenquanerweihe，shipindaibiaozheshenme?

 quanerbiaoshushuo，yilaihuidanyouzishenbuhaokan，weihailezailingyifangxinzhongzhongdepinpaixingxiang;erlaihuiganjuejiarushipinjiukanqilaizishenbuxiangyang。

 dangwomenhuozhitadegujihou，wogongxiangjiquaneryiju《haishanggangqinshi》dezhilimingyan——bingbushijiushiwojiandaodeyaowotingxialailebufa，zhishiwokanbujiande。

 quanerdeguifanli“shipin”huibeituishanghengaodejibie，yexiandinglezishenhebierendejinxing，tasuolijudeyuangu，haoxiangshitashuodelianggen，keshigengduofangmiandekenengshitabulejiedezishenduizishendejuxianxing。

 liru：danyoubuzuhaoyebushenai，juedezishenduideqigandi，ganjuezishenmeiquedingguanxijiushipinxiangdangyubujiandian，zheidouheyiwangtaderichangshenghuoexingshijianshengchanjiagongderenzhinenglibiaozhunxiangguan。