花镇咨询：对付忽冷忽热的男人

 “tayijianshihaodeqingkuangxiatebiehao，yuanyiweitashishuoaiwode。huazhenzixun，ketayehuiwuyuanwuguhaojitianbuyaowo，duiwodexiaoxizhiruowangwen，woyouganjue，takendingshibuaiwode”。tashiyiweinvhaizaihoutaiguanlideliuyanbanliuyan。

 youshi，nanshengdeshilengshirebijiatinglengbaolilingrenshangxin，youyutasixunancai，zhuomobutou，fangfojinrinengai，mingrijiunengshuozaijian，zheileigerenxingweilingrenshenxianchuyubeidong，yuelaiyuehusiluanxiang，minganduoyi。

 shilengshiredetian，feichangrongyilingrenshangshenti，shilengshirederen，yidinglingrennanguo。qiwenshilengshire，ninengdiaozhengyifukuzi，neixinshilengshire，nikeyigaizenmeban?nizongshibeitadejiqinglengdanchudong。

neima，weishenmenanrenhuiduinishilengshireni?

一、真心实意对你有感觉

 youyizhongshilengshirederenshizaizhenxinshiyiduiniyouganjue，nihenyoukenenghuiganjuezenmekeneng，zhenxihuanniderenweishenmehuidongdejinishangxin?dandequeshi，zheileirenguishuyu“huibixingqinglv”。

 zheileinanshengjiairendejuedebianshishuanbule，nizongganjuetaduiniyuqingguzong，youshihoureqingruhuo，youshihoulenglengbingbing，huijininongbudongtazhenshideyongyi。

 zheileirenyehenhaofenbian，jiarutachukaiduinishilengshire，zaiwuqitawailizuoyongyaosusunhai，neitajichuqingchu“huaxinnan”duiwu。

 huibixingqinglvshifenmeiyouanquangan，dangtamenaishangyigeren，bianhuibuzijuededangxinbaohuziji，jipaniduitataihao，youpaniduitabutaihao，tamenpazishenbeibierenpaoxiafangzongziji。

zheijiudaozhileyigezhuangkuang，ruguonijingchanghetalianluoshi，tahuiganjueyougongzuoyalisuiyihuiniliangzi，huozhelijibuhuiying。

ruguoninianzhetadeqingkuangxia，tahuiyaoxiangbaocunzishendeshineikongjian，duinishuo，huazhenzixun，bubinianren。

 youshihoutamenyehuiyongshilengshiredefangshilaiguanchanidefanying，zheirutongnvhaide“zuo”yiyang，danshiquanshitamenzaizhaoshenaidezhijiezhengju，changshigenjuzheileigerenxingweihuodeguishugan。

 hezheileizhongleiderenchuduixiang，jiuxuyaoyouchongzudexixin，jitamenchongzudeshineikongjian，youshihouhaiyaoyongshilengshire“buantaoluchupai”yiba，zhengqueyindaotabaituo“huanchongqu”。

二、他没那么喜欢你

 lingyizhongshitameineimexihuanni，taduinidequeyouhaogan，huoxutaganjuenimeiyouneimaquwei，keshinixinggehao，huoxutaganjuenidexiangmaobushitazuiaideneigua，keshinihenpiaoliang。

 jianyieryan，nishiyigeshihezuonvyoudetiaoxuan，tanenggouxintengniduinijiqing，danyoushihoutahuichiyi，shibushinitayaoxiangde，youyuzainiyiqian，tayizhidoushiyouyige“huanxiangnvpengyou”。

jinguanrujinzaoyihenhaola，keshitahuanshihaipamingque，tazongganjueyeyougengqiangde，gengheshide。

 meimeitazaochengzheileiniantoushi，bianhuigangkaishiduinilengmo。zheiyihuanjietaneixinhuidanxin，zishenshiyaoyandixiadesuiyueanhaohuanshixiangxiangzhongdekewangerbukeji。

 yaoyingduineiyangdenanhaizi，zuihaoshidefangfajiushitalengniyeleng，jiqitadezhengfuyu，lingwaizhangwotadexinlixuqiu，tishengziwoyouhuoli。

shitalejie，nibushitashunshoujiunenghuodedenvxing。

三、他确实不喜欢你

 cengjingdewojiandaoguoyijuhuashuo“zhenzhengainiderendouxunsu，youyuzhenzhengainiderenburongyijinideng，gengburongyirangnicaicai”。

zaishilengshirezheijianshiqingshang，jinguanhenyihan，danwohaishixiangshuo，youyuniduitawuguanjinyao。

huibixingqinglvde“wufacaokong”shidanxinbeicaokong，danzheizhongnanhaiziqueshiqueshiwufacaokong。

 youyutamendegerenxingweichedigenjuzishendeqingxuheyaoqiu，takaixinleduiniguangjieshanyuan，tabukaixinle，nishizhanshichuhunshenjieshutayebuxiangdafu，bijiaoyanzhongdelijijiangniyichutade“yutang”。

 dui，jiarunizhenghaoyudaoneiyangdenanhaizi，neinijiubianchengzaiqizhongyitiaoyu。tameiyouyuqingguzong，tashiqueshibuxihuanni，yinci buxieyiguyingyongfangshijiniaishangyigeren，genghekuang，niyaoyizhiyifushunshoubidedemoyang。

 zheileinanhaizishidajiazuizhongchangshuode“huaxinnan”，kaixindeqingkuangxiarutongjiayongzhongyangkongdiaosheidounuan，bukaixinletianwanglaozilailayekanbushang。