花镇情感咨询曝光，你的爱情之路肯定不顺

 zheijitianchupengleyigeshifenyouqudeqiuzhuzhe。huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，tashuozishengennanpengyoudeqingganchuxianleshifenbijiaoyanzhongdenanti，ganjuenanyoubingbushandaiziji，hezishenzaiyiqiyebuzuzhenxinshiyi，henkenengshichuguile。

 zailiaodeshijiexingshijiandeqingkuangxia，zheiyiqiuzhuzheshuo：“wobenlaizhuyaobiaoxianchuleshifenxiaonvshengdeneileijuede，danshitachedibuyaochiwozheiyitao，yijianshidexintaigenwoyuqidezhenshitianrangzhibie。benlaiwojuedebierenneiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanyoudoushihuishifentiandehuaizhenvshengqinwennaxiede，ketayidianfanyingyemeiyou，naizhiyoushihaigenwofahuo。”

woyehaoqixindebiwenleta，shiyisheineibianjiandaoneiyangdeshierde?

他说：

“dianshilianxujulia!yangzihelixiandenagechuduixiangdedianshilianxujubujiuzheiyangdeme?”

jinguanshuozaoxingyishulaiyuanyurichangshenghuo，dandianshilianxujuyebukeyishiqingganshenghuodecankaoyangbenba。

 shijishang，zaizheilishenhouyanzangzhede，shirujinxuduo nvshengdeshenshangdoushihuifanyingchuqudeyidian：duiairenheqingganshenghuodeguoduoyuzhi。

 rutongzheiyiqiuzhuzheyiyang，xuduo nvshengdourangzishenshenxiandaoyizhongshifenchuyubeidongdechujingzhizhonglaidao。huazhenqingganzixunpuguang，bingqie，xuduo nvshengwangwangxiangrangzishendenanyoubianweishuobailede“lengkuzongcai”、“xiaolanggou”、“naigou”，yedoushiyouyuzishendeyuzhizaicongzheidangzhongzuoguai。

 liru，shangbianzheiyiqiuzhuzhe，youshihuiyouyibananyourefahuo，suihouzaitiqianzhunbeiyigeyiwaijingxi。youyuzaitadeyuzhizhong，nanyoulaoxianshengqi，zaijieshoudaoyiwaijingxi，bianhuixiangneileinanyoulibaopengmaxdenanzhuyiyang，zaiyiwaijingxigongbudeyishunjiangenzishenrewen，naizhihuixiangxiangchumanfangzhuandongpaishedejiemian。

 keshi，dajiacongyiqiezhengchangderichangshenghuofangmianqupouxi，nanshengzaifahuodeqingkuangxia，shiyigebeilixingcaozongdeqingkuang，ernanshengdelixingqingkuangyoufeichangbuyiyang。youyupingchangyibanshizhulbdechuangxinsiweinengli，rbleideganxingsiweiyizhibeiyizhi，yinci ，dangyouyuqingxuqifurangzishenderblixingqingxubaofadeqingkuangxia，binvshengdelixingbaofagengjiamingxian。

 tixiandaoshijifangmianshangbianshi：nanshenghenkenenghuichedihulvenitiqianzhunbeideyiwaijingxi，naizhi，huilinshichedipingbidiaogennideyiqiegoutongjiaoliu，yejiusuanbushangnaxie“shejifanganhaoderewenjingdianpianduan”le。

ciwai，yeyouxuduo guoduoyuzhidenvshenghuichuxianneiyangdexinlihuodongmiaoxie：

yaoshiwoshuoleyijushenmehua，tahaowuyiwenjiuxuyaoruheruhe;

yaoshiwoyiku，tahaowuyiwenbianhuiruheruhe;

要是我....

danzheizhongyuzhizuizhongbianweishijide，henyoukenenglian10%yemeiyou。

为什么呢?

 feichangjiandan。youyunvshengzishenneixindeyuzhidouzhibuguozishendexiangxiang，zheizhongxiangxiangshiyijunvshengpingchanggennanshengjiaowangshi，congnanshengdexingqing、aihao、weirenchushifangfazheixiecengmianxiaohuaxishoudexinxineirongzuochufenbiande。

huanjuhuashuo，zheiyicuojue，shijishangshichedibaituoleshijifangmiande“shenducuimian”，wanchenggailvdangranjiuliaoshengyuwule。

 bingqie，guoduoyuzhidenvshenghaiyouyigeshihounantishi：yidanzishendehuanxiangbeishijijibaile，bianhuilikenanyoutieshang“lengdan”、“fanwole”、“chuguile”zheixiebiaoshi，suihouganjuezishenshiquantiandizuikelingdenvsheng，zishenshishouhairen。

neima，yaoxianggenggaineiyangdeqingkuang，nvshengmendaodibixuzuoxieshenme?

01.正确认识错觉。

 zhenduiyizhizaiguoduoyuzhizishenlianaiguanxidenvshengmeneryan，zuizhongyaodeyidian，yeshiwubideyidian，bianshilejiezijidehuanxiang。

nishizaigenyigeyingshengshengderenchuduixiang，erbushizaigenninaozhongxiangxiangchuqudemouyirenwuguanxichuduixiang。

 jinguanshuo，congnigennanpengyoupingchangjiaowangdeyixieshierhexingweimoshishang，zuochuduitadefenbianbushibuneng，keshi，zheiyifenbianyidingyaoyouyigedu。

zaitanlianaihehunyinguanxizhong，meiyoushenmejiaojueduide，yemeishenmeqingkuangshiyichengbubiande。

 jiaruyizhiyongyixiezhuguanxinghuadewupinquzuoyuzhi，zuizhongwulunshijidaodiyunideyuzhishibushiyizhi，niyejiuzaoyibeizishendexiangxiangjikuale。

duoguanxinyushixia，duoguanxinyuliangrenzishen，bierangxiangxianghexindajiadeguanlian。

02.学会放下你的内心想法。

haiyouyigezonghuichuxiandeqingkuang，bianshinvshengmenshubushengshudeneixinxiangfa。

 liru，nanshenghenyoukenengyoushihouhuichuxianyizhongbuyouzizhuhuoshiqianyishidegerenxingwei，danyixieguoduoyuzhidenvshengbianhuigangkaishijinxingyichangxinlidaju。

 yuanbenjinjingenqiyebangzhufacailiaodetongshijiangguoshengganxie，nvshengneixinjiuzaoyigangkaishixiangnanpengyoushifouchuguile?woshibushiyudaozhananle?wonengburongyigentatanleneimeshizhangqidetanlianai，tayizhiquanshijialihongqijiaocheyilibudao，jiawaicaiqipiaopiao?

zaimiaobianlindaiyuyihou，jiugangkaishidianjizheruhenaopiqi，zenmechaojia，zenmetifenshoule。

shijishang，zheizhongquanshichedimeiyoubixude。

 jiangli，xuduo lianrennaofenshoudeyuanyin，shijishangbingbushipengdaolenaxieshizhishangbunengdiaohedefenqi，ganghaoshibeizheizhongneixinxiangfashengchuqudecaijihezishenxiangxiangjibaide。