花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？聪明的女人都用这招征服男人

huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？ganqingyoushihoubianshiyichangnanhaihenvhaiboyi，yaoxiangchedixunfuta，niyejiudezhiqudaozheiciganqingboyizhongdezhudaoquan。

zenyangbawoganqingzhongdezhudaoquan，yueaiyueyouguishuganni?

jinritanggeyaojiangyigexindezhishiyaodian：“bujuguannian”。

bujujiduice，shizuiyilaoyongyidefangfa，talijijueceledajiazhongjianganqingdegaoaiweiguanlian。

xuduo tangmeiqidaiwoduojiangyidianganhuozhishifangfa，duojiangyixiequannengxiaoshouhuashu，jiufangfoyike‘lingdanmiaoyao’，chiwanlikejiunengjiniliaoxiaoxianzhu。

ganqingzhongdebujuguannianshijishangbianshizheike“lingdanmiaoyao”。

yaoxiangzaiyiduanganqingzhongyourenyouyu，nijiuxuyaobiandazishendebuju。

什么是格局?

jianyieryan，shizhiyigerendejianshi、xionghuai、danlvedengxinlizhuangtaiyinsudebenzhihelibuju。

看来2个短故事。

1、youyigeqitaozhe，yitiandaowanzaijieshangxingqi，duidaoshangfuzhuangguangxianliangliderenmeishenmejuede，quedujibizishenxingqideduodeqitaozhe，neizheigerenkenengyizhibianshigeqitaozhele。

2、youyigejiatingzhufu，yitiantamailaiyijianyifu，huijialeyihouxiayishidegengebilinjuxuanyao，quefajueyiyangdeyifukuzigebilinjubitashaohuale30yuanqian，yincitananyishihuaishuri。

zheiyirendegejujiuzhi30yuanle。

moudashierzhebixubudajuyishi，zhenduishiguanzishenyishengxingfude“ganqinggongzuonengli”zheipanqieryan，dajiazuixianyaoxuexipeixundebudanshifangfa，yeshihelibuju、buju。

neima，zenmelijieganqingzhongdebujuguannianni?

bujushiyouyaoqiu、shiyongjiazhi、gongzuonenglisangedianxianghujuecede。

先而言要求。

shijishangbianshiliangrenzhongjian，jiujingjiushiwogengxiangyaoni，shinigengbixuwo?

liru，niguangjiegouwushikanshangyitaohenjiageangguidezhangqun，shangjiarangnibaolejiahou，dajiazhenduijiaqianhuikaizhanyilunjiangjiajiaoshe。

cikehuichuxianerzhongzhuangkuang：

狀況一：

nifeichangxihuanzheitaozhangqun，bingqienimingriyaobaomingcanjiajuhuihuodong，yinci poqiedibixuzheilianyiqun。zheigeshihou，xianeryijianbianshinideyaoqiugengqiang，nixuyaolingyifang，neimaniyizhizaijiangjiajiaosheshibianhuichuyuxiafeng。

状况二：

nijinjinganjuezheitaozhangqunfeichanghao，danbingbingbushifeitabuneng，youyuzhoubianyeyouxuduo biedefuzhuangdiannenggoutiaoxuan。zheigeshihou，xianeryijianbianshilingyifanggengxiangyaoni，neimaniyizhizaijiangjiajiaosheshibianhuichuzaiyoushi。

rutongershinihemamayiqiqugoumaiyifu，muqinyizhihennengjiangjia。yijianyifulaozongdingdeshi300，nidexinlikenengshishuzuiduokandao250jiufeichanghaole，dantamayizhangkoubianshi200。

laozongdangranbuyuanyi，dancikenimamabianhuiyouyigezishi：zhuangzuoyaozou。

 meidengbaituodianmian，laozongzhunhuixiaomimidelanzhu，bianzhuangyifukuzibianziyanziyuzhe，aiyolaodajie，buyaozouya，bianyidianjininhaole。

zenmehuichuxianzheiyizhuangkuang?

bianshiyouyubujuguannian，youyudianxingxingdegongqiuguanliandaozhideshangweihediweidechabie。

yiyangdedadaoli，zaidajiadeganqingguanlianzhong，rujinjiujingjiushinibixuta，huanshitaxiangyaoni?

ruguoshinigengbixuta，neimadajiadeguanlianqingkuangbianshi：nishidiwei，tashishangwei。zheijiudaibiaozhetayouerzhongtiaoxuan：duinigengfangzaixinshangheduinibuzaihu。

该怎么办?

nixuyaozuodeshigenggaibujuguannian。

shijizenmezuoni?niuquguanlianbujudeguanjianbianshi6dian：

jianshaonideyaoqiu;kuodataduinideyaoqiu;tisheng nideganqingyunyinggongzuonengli。

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减少需求感

niuqudajiadegaoaiweiguanlian

恋爱期的需求感：

zailianaizhongqiadangbiaoshuxuqiugandefangfashi“youzhangyouchi”，erqiejiangdisandazijintouru：

shijianzijintouru：meishimeikezhiweipeizainanshengshenpang

xintaizijintouru：pinlemingguanzhulingyifang、chuaimolingyifangdeniantou

huaxuewuzhizijintouru：yizhixiangjitamenmaigeshigeyangdewupin。

分手之后的需求感：

youqishizaiwanliuhuanjie，bifangfagengguanjiandeshibuju。

 xuduo tangmeizaiwanliushi，chedimeiyoubujuguannian。yexuyouxierengenjuchixujiuchanbuqing、buduanzhiqian、leishuirenrangdengfangfarangnanshengpobudeyifanhuiletadeshenpang。

biaocengshangkandajiahehaoruchule，dangaoaiweideguanlianbujurengranmeiyougenggai。niyiranchuzaidiwei，neiyangdewanliubianshishixiaode。

wanliubushiniquqiufuhexing，zhishinixuyaofanzhuanguanlian，shitalaizhuini。

 yinci ，niruoyaoqudechenggongwanliulingyifang，zuixianwubiyaojianshaozishendexuqiugan，yizishendequanxinshengjiwaimaohefengfuderichangshenghuoquzaicixiyinzhulingyifang。

ruguonizaifenshouzhihoudexinlizhuangtaichuzaiyigeleguanjijizhudong，richangshenghuoxuanliduocai，yixingdouweizhuzishenzhuandeqingkuangxia，lingyifangbianhuiqingbuzijindigangkaishicaiyizishendangshidetichufenshoujuece。

shifouzishendenanti，shifouzishendangshibuaixi，yinci cairangzishensangshiyigezheibanyoufengcaideni。

jinerxuqiuganbianhuiqianyidaonidedeshenshang，jianjiandi，bianhuiyulaiyuguanxinnidequshi，jinerlianluonidatanni，xiangyaozhidaonishibushihaishenaizheta。

zheijiushiercixiyindeqiangjingfengcaisuoshule。