花镇觉得没效果可以退款吗？这三件事做的越多男人爱你越深！

huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？youyizhongnvxing，yingmeiyourongmao，shengmeiyoufengcheng，quenengqiadaofencungandibawozhunanrendexin。

zhiyouyutamentaidongzenyanghenanshengjiaowang。

shijishangzhiyaoniyuanyihuadianxiaoxinsi，yiyangnenggoujinjinbangzhunanrendexin，yibuweiqingsuokun。

一、构建礼品逻辑思维

“xuanzhengquelefangfadeganqingjingzhengxingtanpanduirengengguanjian”

shenmejiaolipinluojisiwei?

tashiyizhongxinlizhuangtai，yeshiyizhongjishuxing。

jibazijizuoweilipin，rangnanshengjiandao，zhengde、huode，erqiechixufanfu，jiaqiangzheiyiquanguocheng，jinerrangnanshengzhelemoyibanaishangleni，ganjueyongyounishiyizhongyouxing。

weiheyixienvhaihuibeinanrenzuowei“nvwang”shenshouqinglaihetengxi，yixienvhaiquechangbeinanrenzuowei“beiyongtai”huizhijilaihuzhijiqu?

huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？bianshiqianquelelipinluojisiwei。

女王是何样的?

shibunengsuibianhuodede，jishihuodele，yezongshikedanyouhuibeibierenduozou;shibixunanshengjijizhuiqiude，erbushitaqianyibaishun，qushuncongnansheng。

yinci ，buyiyangdeganqing，buyiyangderenwu，buyiyangdekandai。

nirujindeganqinghezaoshoudegongzidaiyufangfa，jiuqujueyunimeiyoujuyouxiyoude“lipinxing”。

▷举好多个事例：

nanshengsuiyirangnisonggelipin，niyejiusuibiantongyilelingyifangdegaobai。

那你就并不是礼品。

youyulipinjihujiubingbushisuibiannenghuodede。

nanshengguidingnibangtazuoyixieshier，jieguoniweitatouruyueduo，tayueganjuelisuoyingdang，naizhiguidingyulaiyuduo。

那你就并不是礼品。

youyulipinjubeixiyoudetedian。

dangnanrengangkaishiweifannidedaodedixianshi，nibudantiaoxuanlemeiyoudixianderenshou，haiqianyibaishundequkaolvtadeyaoqiu。

那你就并不是礼品。

youyunishizaiqinfenrongruta，meiyouzishendejiagouhebiaozhun。

lipinshisha?feichangjiandan，bianshimeigerendouxiangyaodewupin。

①lipinzishenjubeibeipingdingdegaoshiyongjiazhi

②lipinshixiyoude，erqieyouhenduorenqushichangjingzheng

③lipinbixuyicicideqinfenyihoucaikeyihuode

④lipindepaifaquanguochengquanshiyouzishenjuece，burongyiyouyutarenbaituobiaozhun

lipindoushiyouguoshibuhoudetedian，nimeilingjiumeile，burongyiyouyunimeiyoushijianjiugenggaipaifadequanguocheng。

yinci ，nixuyaoshitalairongruni，erbushibaituozishendebiaozhunqushunconglingyifang。

guanniancaozonggerenxingwei，qiadangguannianshizhongbigerenxingweiguanjian。

rutongxuduo tangmeigenwoshuo：qianjie，nanyoubuhuiwoxinxineironggaizenmeban?xiaiqiyedeganglaidenanhaizigaizenmeliao?younaxiefangfanenggoushitayongyuanaiwo?

zheizhongnantiwohuiyingguoyicici，fajueshizhongyehuiyingbuwan。

youyuchuduixiang，zuizhongyaodeshixinjue，fangfajinjinhualongdianjing，nideguannianbudui，xinlizhuangtaibudui，zhengjianshijiubudui。

yinci ，yaoxuehaobalipinluojisiweidedingyikedaonideneixinshenchu，suzao“nishilipin”dexinxinhejiagou，erqiechixukaizhantishengzijiquchuangjianchongzudelipinxing，nanshengcaihuiduinijiabeiaixi。

二、感情期待值管理方法

“weishenmeshuonanshengyueguanyuehundan”

youyigejingjixueyuanli，chengwei“bianjidijianxiaoyong”：

jiushizhigukezaimeiyicitishengyigeqiyeriyongpindeqingkuangxia，chanshengdeqiyexiaoyingshimanmanxiajiangde。

fangjinganqingzhongbianshi，nide“hao”huibansuizhepincidetishengranglingyifangganjueyulaiyubianyi，zuihoulingyifangyiranhuirangniyigediguzhi。

bingqiejianjiandide，tayehuijiangniduitadehaozuoweilisuoyingdang。

niyuenengkaolvtadeyaoqiu，tadeyaoqiubianhuiyulaiyuduo，bingqienanduxishuhuichixukuoda，fangzhichaochunidegongzuonenglisuoji。

huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma？jiarunizuobudao，huoshiyouyisixiaoqingxu，bianhuilijiweihainiyizhizaitaxinzhongzhongdeyouhaodu。

rutong，nimeirijilingyifangyiketang，yitianyike，keshihuranyouyitiannimeijile，neimalingyifangbudanburongyixiexieni，naizhihuijihenni;

keshi，jiarunimeirijilingyifangyibazhang，yitianyige，keshizuihouyitiannijiletayiketang，neitayidinghuiwanfenganjini。

zheiyeshiweishenmezhongtouzailaidouhuidedao feichangdezanyang，xuduo nvxingnaizhinenggoubujijiaotayiqianshigeduomedezhaderen。

bianshilaiyuanyuqidaizhibeifangdiyihoudeyiwaijingxi。

danhaolaogongyidanbeizhuodaoyicibujiandiandegerenxingwei，bianhuibeishizhongdajin“zharen”deduiwubukeyifanpan。

shehuixinlixuezhongyouyigeyouguanliangxingjiaowangdegongshijisuan：lingyifangdefuwuzhiliang=nidexianshibiaoxian-tadeqiwangzhi

yinci ，yaoxiangtishengzijizainanshengxinlidefuwuzhiliang，guanlifangfahaotadeqiwangzhihenzhongyao。

bubitaiguotisheng lingyifangdeyugu，jibubitizaobiaoluzishenzaiguanlianlidefujiatouru。

nenggouxianshiyajianshaolingyifangdeqiwangzhi，zaifanzhuan，kaolvlingyifangdexiaoxiwang，kuaisujifalingyifangdexintai。

zaixiwang—kaolv—fanzhuan—kaolvdexunhuanxitongzhong，manmantiwenganqing。

jugefeichangjiandandeshili，zaishenghuoqijuzhong，womenkeyigaozhilingyifang：

“qinaidedewohenyoukenengbukeyiyunichulaiyouhuile，youyuyelilinshixingyaojiabanjiadian”。