有在花镇退款成功的吗？怎样确定你的男朋友是适合的结婚对象？

youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？「ruhemingquenidenv/nanyoushiheshidejiehunduixiang?」tashizhihushanghenshouhuanyingdenanti，chaochu1700wanrenfangwen 。

erzhihuwendadegaozanhuidajibenshangbaolanlequanbuconghuaxuewuzhifangmian，rentifangmian，jingshencengmiangegefangmianweihaihunyinshenghuoxingfukuailedeyaosu。

shide，wozanchengyoumouxiewupin(liruqian、xing、ai)zaihunyinshenghuolibianburongyikanqilaihenzhongyao，keshimeiyoudehuajiukanqilaiyouqiguanjian。zheirutongmutongyuanli，hunyinshenghuodebuxingfukuailezaiyuzuiboruodiandenatiao。

eryanzushineimejuedede。

deque，meiyouzhishangzheizhong(liruqian、xing、ai)quanshibuyiwanhundeyuangu，danyidingbingbushi【heshiwanhun】deyuangu。

jizhunideyijuhua，duibierendedianpingmeijufabingbukeyishiwomenshenghuodexingfukuaileheshihe。

yiwoduihunyinguanxidekexueyanjiu(yueduwenzhang30bendongxifanghunyinguanxideshubenjiqikechengneirong、zhangwoguowomeiyigelejiedehunyinshenghuomubiao，zaijiashangzijiwuniandeqinmiwujianairenguanlianhuoqudechenggonghuobuchenggongdegongzuojingyan、jiqiwojiedaozixundeliangxinganli。)

wanhunyiqianwomenyulingyifangyouchuduixiangyiqiduguoshijianquzhangwolingyifangdeshenghuo，qiansangeyuehuiyouyudanjian、dingerxidedaixieshiwomenmengbidedanao，zai“yueyun”huanjiejiandaolingyifangshijizhide。

ruhemingqueairenshifoushihedejiehunduixiang?

第一、生活時间。

zheiyishijianzhangduanyaoyousangeyuezhishangxianghushenghuodeshijian。

youqishinanpengyou，yibanjiandiyimiandachengxieyibiaozhun，xunsujindaoxiangqinjiehun。henyoukenengzaikelianghuafenxidediqulirubiaozhunshangmianhehujiaohuanjiazhi，lirumenbudanghubudui，nancainvmao，keshiyoukenengyouyuyigexiaoxiaoxingshenghuobuhexiebianhuiluoxialaijinhoubuxingfukuailedeboruodian。henyoukenengyouxierenshuo，nikankanzheiyoubushifanhuidianpinglingyifangshang?liuyi，woxiebenwenguanjianbingbushirangnidianpinglingyifangde，zhishiweizijishijianqurenshiziji，jinzaodirenshizijishifouheshilingyifang。

lirujiunaxingshenghuobuhexiezheijianshiqing，shenmeshibuhexie?nantitongchangbingbushichuxianzailingyifangdeshenshang，bingbushilingyifangkaolvbushangzishen，nishenrulejiezishenxinlideyaoqiu，niyejiuhuifajueshizishenbuyilingyifang，huoshishizishenchongdongtaiqiang(huoshihendi)，erzheixiefangmianyouyijianshideshenghuohenzhongyao，yinci jingliguojiuzhidao，woduizishenyouduolejieleyiceng。

keshizhangwoduoyicengyihouchuxiandemaodun，shifoudajiajiujuedelingyifangbutaiheshiwanhunni?

zheijiushidiergemolianzishendediqule。

第二、真心实意沟通。

dajiarenshengdaoluzhongpengdaoquanburenjijiaowangnantimobunenggougenjuzhenxinshiyigoutonglaichuli。jiarumeichuli，neiyidingshidajialejieheyingyongzhenxinshiyigoutongdefangshimeibawo。ziranjuedaduoshuren，liangoutongdoumeibawo，bieshuozhenxinchengyigoutong。

yanzudexiaohuobanmen，dajiaxianxiangyixiangzishenpengdaomaodunshizenmezuode?

yibanrenpengdaoshenghuozhongchuxiandemaodunnanti，huichuxiansanzhongduice，

yi、chengdan。pasunhailingyifang，biequzishen，momodichengdan，yidanganshoudaozishendebiequhuanbudaoaideqingkuangxia，bianhuiyouyuzishendetouruwufadedaoshouyibenkui。

er、xianghuzhijianchize。bazijifahuo、naonurongjinjiatelinjiqianglibian，dudazailingyifangdeshenshang，haorangzishencaozonglingyifang。

san、jiatinglengbaoli。goujianzishendekeliangan，ranglingyifangzaochengyouxiuchigan，jinercaozonglingyifang。

zaizhishangduicelibiandajiakanbujianzaochenghuligongyingdeai，jiaruzaishenghuodenantizhong，dajiameiyouxuanzeai，neidajiayidingshitiaoxuanlehaipa。

yinci xuehaozhenxinshiyigoutongzaifuqiguanxizhizhong，naizhishuoquanburenjijiaowangzhizhongjiuyuelaiyuekendingguanjian。

shenmejiaozhenxinshiyihelidegoutong?bianshijiangkendingzhenzhengdeshishi。

shenmeshikendingzhenzhengdeshishi?bianshiwojiangjiangdehua，burongyirangmaodungengweiebian。

zenyangcainengjiangchukendingzhenzhengdeshishi?bianshiniyaoxuehaobiaoshu「100%zishenchengdandetihui」。

举个事例。

你的爱人夜不归宿。

1、neixinhennanshoudanquexiaozheshuo：「eleme?wojinizhuwanmianba。」——zheibushigaoqingshang，tashichengdan。

2、zaibuyishafashangbianmuxiaobiaoqingdiyijuhuabuyongshuo，airenshuoxieshenmeyebudafu。——tashijiatinglengbaoli

3、「nizenmehenwanhuijia?」——tashichize。

4、「nihenwanhuijia，wohenshengqi。」——tashibiaoshutihui，danbingbushizishenchengdandetihui，huirangmaodunebian，yinci zheibushishishi。

5、「youyumeiyouanshihuijiale，yaowodenglehaozhangshijian，yinci wohenshengqi。」——jiaoweitiejinshishi。

6、「nideyebuguisurangwomingbaiwoneixinyoufeichangdadeyuanhen。」——gengqiangdejiaofa。

7、「xianzaiwoqingxuhennanshou，zheibushinidecuo，woyebuzhidaozenmehuiyouneiyangdekunaohezaodongbuan，nixiangyaotingwogongxiangma?」——duizishendexintaizuo100%dechengdan，jinyouzishendetihuishikendingdeshishi。

henyoukenengjiandaozheier，ninengrumengchuxing，ganjuezishenxuehaozhenxinshiyigoutongle。erwoxianggaozhidahuoerdeshi，zhenxinshiyigoutongzheiyijianshierbixuchixubuduanxunlianhecaozongcaihenyoukenengxuehao。youyuborandanudeqingkuangxia，feichangrongyirangxintaicaozonglezishen，nihenyoukenenglianzishendouwufakongzhi。

yinci dajiazenmecaixiangyaoquweilegenghaodilingyifangxunlianzhenxinshiyigoutong?zheijiushiguanliandaozuizhongyaodedisandian，shibushiheshiwanhunguozhangqixingshenghuodeguanjiantexing。

第三、成长逻辑思维。

zheierzhidebingbushixianghuzhijianchengzhang，youyuneibanbayiwufangdaolingyifangdeshenshang，bianshiduizishendebuchengdan。

woshuodeshidajiashifoukeyishizaizheiliduanguanlianzhizhongrangzishenxuehaochengzhang，tashimolianlingyifangshibushifeichangzhidewanhundeyuangu。

youzaihuazhentuikuanchenggongdema？「bixing、bixingqing、bihuaxuewuzhibixuguanjian，youyuzheihaoduogecengmiandounenggougenju「chengzhang」qutigao。

youyudajiahuizaijiaozhangdeyiduanshijianzhizhongyongyuchangshi，maodun，zhengzhi，meiyoureqing，zhengzhidouzhengnanti。quanbudajiajiandaoairendeshenshangnantidechuxian，quanshidajiawangribaohanshaonianertongjieduandaozhidajiarujinxingqingdetouying。yinci yaoshimeiyouchengzhangluojisiweiquduidaizheizhongnanti，neimadajiaburongyihuodekaiqizheizhongnantishenhoudeluozuan。fandaotiaoxuanzuiqingqingsongsongde，genjudujuezheigerenerquduobinanti。

eryaoshimeiyou「chengzhangluojisiwei」zaiguanlianzhizhong，jiubuyuanyiqurangzishenxuexipeixun，rangzishenbianweizuihaodeziji，rangzishendezheiyiduanguanliangengxingfukuaile。buyuanyichengzhangderen，zongshigenjukunfulingyifang，ranglingyifangzhongzhichengzhang。

 hunyinguanxidezuigaojingjiebingbushiyige2fen+lingyige8fenxiangdangyu10fenjiuyuanman，zhishi2gewufendouqinfendichengzhangdaomeigeren10fen。