情感咨询不肯退款投诉有用吗？学好经济学撩逗小男神

 qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma？shehuijingjixueshangyouyigeyongyijisuanxuqiudinglvdezhimingjiading——bianjixiaoyongxiajiang。tashishuozaiyidingshijiannei，zaibiedechanpindexiaofeizongshuweichibuhuigaibiandebiaozhunxia，dangyigerenchixuxiaofeimouleiwujianshi，bansuizhesuoxiaofeidegaiwujiandezongshutisheng，qizongxiaoying(xiaoyingjiushizhichanpinkaolvrenchongdonghuoyaoqiudegongzuonengli)xiangduitisheng，danwujiandebianjixiaoyong(jixiaofeiyiqiyegaiwujianqisuochanshengdexiaoyingdezengjialv)doushiyouxiajiangfazhanqushi。

 jugeshili，dangxueshengmendedao diyitiaoaimashisijindeqingkuangxiahenyoukenenghuiganjuehenkaixin，keshibansuizhexueshengmenhuodedeaimashisijinyulaiyuduo，tajixueshengmenchanshengdechengjiuganhuijijuxiajiang，didamouyilingjiediandeqingkuangxia，yitiaozhensiweijinchanshengdechengjiugan(bianjixiaoyong)huijiangzhifushu。

 yinci nikankan，wulunzuichuneigedongxiyouduoxuduoxiyinren，zaiyidingshijiannei，bansuizhebuduanbuduandedao ，takaolvchongdongdegongzuonengli(bianjixiaoyong)yidinghuijijuxiajiang。

yiyang，zaihunyinguanxili，bianjixiaoyongxiajiangyepubianxianxiang。

 liru，diyicihexiaogaolengnanshenyiqiguoqixijie，diyicijiedaoxiaogaolengnanshensongdehua，xiaobaobaomenhenyoukenenghuishifengaoxing，keshijiaruliandaodiergeqixijie、disangeqixijie，xiaobaobaomenjiedaodehuanshihua，henyoukenengjiuburongyineimagaoxingle，qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma？naizhihuiganjuexiaogaolengnanshenshizaifuyanleshizishen。zheijiushidianxingxingdebianjixiaoyongxiajiang。

shangwenneiyangdeshilizaihunyinguanxizhongjingchangkeyikandao，tamenyouyigexianghudeshenglixinlixuebiaoshu——weibodinglv。

韦伯定律

 faguoshengwuxuejiae.h.weibogenjuduijingzhongqubiejuededeyanjiufaxianleyitiaoxushuxinlizhuangtailianghebiaoliangzhongjianpailieyuzuhedejibendinglv，jijuededechabieyuxiansuiyuanxiancijixingliangdezhuanbianerzhuanbian，bingqiezhuyaobiaoxianweiyidingdezhouqixing。

 yonggonghualaibiaoshuzheiyijichulilunbianshi，dajiaduitongyanghuoshixiangdengcijixingdeyijianfankuiyibanhuibansuizhecijixingpincidetishengerxiajiang(yubianjixiaoyongxiajiangtongyang)。

chucizhiwai，weibodinglvyeyou2gefajue：

 1.dajiaduitiaojianciji(liruqianwendehua)dequbiejuede，buyilaiyuyigetiaojiancijidejueduishu，zhishizaiyutiaojiancijiyuqianyigetiaojiancijidebizhao，zaiyucanzhao。

 jianyieryanbianshi，din(nchaoguo1)ciqixijiexiaogaolengnanshensongmeiguihuadeshiyongjiazhibuzaiyumeiguihuazishenchanshengdeshiyongjiazhi，erzaiyuyun-1cidebizhao，yejiushiduiyujijianglailindeqixijie，xueshengmenduijiedaodelipindeshiyongjiazhiderenzhibingbuzaiyulipinzishen，zhishizaiyugenshangniandelipinbizhao。

2.tongyicijixingdequbieliangyaozuodaoyidingzhanbi，caikeyizaochengqubiejuede。

 jugejiaoweidianxingxingdeshili，youablianggehufupinnenggouzhaowangshangdaigou，ahufupinzhongguozhuanmaidian700，wangshangdaigou600，jiachashi100;bhufupinzhongguozhuanmaidianmai3100，wangshangdaigou3000，jiachayeshi100。suiranjiachatongyang，keshishishishang，tiaoxuanwangshangdaigouaderenhuibitiaoxuanwangshangdaigoubderenduohenduo。

高服务质量的完成

 fuwuzhiliangshijishangbianshixiangxiang(qidai)yushiji(juti)dechabie，jinyoudangjutigaoguoqidaideqingkuangxia，dajiacaikeyibaochijiaogaodefuwuzhiliang。

 yinci weichigaofuwuzhiliangyoulianggetujing，yishigengxingaizao(jianshaohuogenggai)qidai，ershigengxingaizao(tigao)shiji。erzheilianggetujingdounenggouyongbianjixiaoyongxiajiangheweibodinglvdeniyingyonglaiwancheng。

1.创建低参考，用“非常少”替代“一直”

 weibodinglvshangshuo，qubiejuedebuyilaiyuyigetiaojiancijidejueduishu，zhishizaiyutiaojiancijiyucanzhaodebizhao。yinci yaorangtiaojiancijizaochengjiqiangdefankuidiaojie，jiuxuyaodinghaohaocanzhao。zaihunyinguanxidejiaowangli，zhenduixiaogaolengnanshenlaijiang，kaoliangdecanzhaobianshixueshengmenyiqianrangxiaogaolengnanshenleijideyinxiang。

 jugeshili，woshiyigeduiganjingzhengjieduguidinghengaoderen，yinci henkanbushunyanxiaogaolengnanshendezhinantudiechenshan，yincijingchangqinliqinwei，suihouyouyitian，wowangjizheiyijianshierle，xiaogaolengnanshenlijijiuyoudianerbugaoxing。keshiwoconglaibuzhufan，youyitianzaoshang，xinxuelaichaojixiaogaolengnanshenganleyidunzaofan，jinguannanyixiayan，keshixiaogaolengnanshenquechidechuxianyichangkaixin。

 zheijiushidianxingxingdecanzhaonanti，dangwomendiyicijixiaogaolengnanshendiechenshandeqingkuangxia，tashishifengaoxing、feichangjingxide，keshibansuizhediechenshanzheiyijianshierjianjiandibianweipingshideqingkuangxia，zongxiaoyingjinguanxiangduitisheng，keshimeiyicizuozheiyijianshierdexiaoyingquezaichixujianshao。zhufannageshiliqueqiahaoxiangfan，xiaogaolengnanshenzhenduiwozhufanzheiyijianshiershimeiyouqidaide，tayinxiangliwozhihuichi，yinci zheiyishilili，xiaogaolengnanshendecanzhaoshihendide(sishewuruxiangdangyumeiyou)，yincizheiyitiaojianciji(zuozaodian)bianhuizaochenghenqiangdefankuidiaojie(chuxianyichangkaixin)。

 hunyinguanxilidegaofuwuzhiliangbixujinliangduodehoumianyizhong(diergeshili)hejinliangshaodeqianmianyizhong(diyigeshili)。yinci womenyaojinliangdejianshaoxiaogaolengnanshendeqidaizhi，yong“feichangshaozuo”tidai“yizhizuo”，yiliangcishiyiwaijingxi，yizhizuobianhuibianweijianguaibuguaidelisuoyingdang，eryuefalisuoyingdangdewupin，qibianjixiaoyongxiajiangyuekuai。

 zhengyouyulisuoyingdangdeshibujuyouxintaidadajiafen，nongbuhaohaihuijixukoufen，dajiajiuxuyaomoshayiqielisuoyingdangquxiangdekaishi。

 dajiayouerzhongfangshinengyong，yishiyingzaozishenlve“richangshenghuobukeyizili”derenwuguanxi。zaitashuciweidajiachushizuofan、shoushifangjiandengrichangshenghuoxiezhuhou，budingshizhixingbangtayiqizuo，kaolvtabeidajiamanmantigaode“fuqin”xiwanggan。

 ershiquelifenpailianggerenmeirirenwu，zhidingmeiguoertianjiaohuandanfujiawuhuo、huozhewozhufannishuawandengyaoqiu，jiaoda shuipingxiezuohua，ziranxiezuobuyiweizhejiuxuyaojunfenma。liruwoqingsaoyijianwuzi，lingyifangqingsaosanjian，neiyangdajiamangwanhouqubangzhu，lingyifangyehuichuxianchaoguoxiwangdexiaojingxigan。youyumeirirenwufangshihainengtixinglingyifangzaochengdulijianyan“meirirenwuwanchenglvjishijixiaoguo”depingdingxinlizhuangtai，ruguonitiqianwanchengmeirirenwu，biannenglijiweilingyifangxintaidadajiafen。

 xiangbicizhijiandehudongjiaoliuyekeyicaiyongfenpaifangshi，nibangwochuitou，wobangnituina;chulailvyounichengdanzhidingmubiao，wochengdanhuoyueqifen;erjiarulingyifangdangrijiaoweilei，dajiajijiweitadanfumeirirenwu，hainengshouhuomanmandeganxiezhiqing。

2.提升刺激性量，引起区别感受

 weibodinglvhebianjixiaoyongxiajiangdewanchengdouzhuzhongshitongyiwujianhuoshixiangdengcijixing，huanjuhuashuowomenkeyigenjugenggaitiaojiancijihuoshizaiyuantiaojiancijidejibenshangtishengcijixinglianglaibaituo“bianjixiaoyongxiajiangdeyuyan”(zheierdebianjixiaoyongxiajiangbingbushizhiyankedeshehuijingjixuejiedingxiadejiading)。

 jugeshili，xiaogaolengnanshenjiarukongtaorenxihuan，taorenxihuanshitiaojianciji，neimaxiaobaobaojiuxuyaoranggaolengnanshenganjue：“yinweinitaorenxihuan，danshiwoyebuzhidaoninengtaorenxihuandaozheiyishuiping。”

 birushuoxiaogaolengnanshenduinideyuanshiyinxiangshi“biaomianjiaoweitaorenxihuan”，neimaxiayicipengmian，niyejiunenggoutuxianxiangshengjiyuyanshangde“taorenxihuan”，weichilveshangshengjijizhudongdeshengdiao，jianghuajianduodai“ni、na、da”deyuqici。yihouzaituxianshentishangdetaorenxihuandu，baohanyoushihoudepaopaotiaotiao，zaijieshangjinyongxiaozhishizhijinkou，naizhishijilingyifangtiaoyizhiyouerwudao。

 neiyanggenjushijuexiaoguo、tingjuexitong、naizhishifanyingshuipinghesiweimoshi，youqianrushen、quanfangweiershencengdeshuchu“taorenxihuandu”zheiyicijixingliang，biannenggouyijiyijitigaocijixing，meiyicidoudailailingyifanggaoguoqidaizhidequbieganshou。jitisheng fuwuzhiliang，lingwaifangzhishenxianxiajiangquantao。erdaliangyouguantishengcijixingliangdefangshi，lirutisheng taorenxihuandu、shaonvgandeng，xueshengmenkuaidianmeihuoxuexiaoyuedushouceba。

 tishengcijixingliangshidianxingxingdegengxingaizaoshiji，danghunyinguanxichuxiandaijuandeqingkuangxia，tishengcijixingliangjiuyuelaiyuehenbixule，bianshi“nilejiewojuyoucijixingli”，“keshiniyongyuanbuzhidaowonengzuodaozheiyishuiping!”，zheileizengjialiangcijixinghuiweidaijuandehunyinguanxiyinruxindemeili，lingwaichanshenggaofuwuzhiliang。

 keshicijixingliangyaotishengdaoshiduoshaocaikeyizaochengqubiejuedeni?youguanzheiyidian，weibodexingburumingfaguokexuejiafeixinamingquetichulezhimingdefeixinaduishudinglvzuoweiduiweibodinglvdetianbu。feixinaduishudinglvjijuedeliangyubiaoliangdeduibiaozhizhengxiangguan，juedeliangdetigaoluowuyubiaoliangdetisheng，biaoliangchengdengbijishutisheng，xinlizhuangtailiangchengsuanshudengbijishutisheng。

 huanjuhuashuoxueshengmenyaotishengyuangaoyu10%decijixingliang，caihuizaochengxiaogaolengnanshenzaocheng10%dexinlizhuangtailiangzhuanbian。zheiyifangshidequedianbianshibunengbuduan，liangdetishengzhongjiushibijiaoyouxiande，yinci jiexiaqudajiaeryandisangeduice。

3.更改条件刺激，创建新感受

 bianjixiaoyongxiajiangheweibodinglvzhongdeduitongyanghuoxiangdengwaibucijixingdeyijianfankuisuipincitishengerxiajiang，quanshizhuzhongleisiwujianhuocijixing。yinci lingyigebaituoxiajiangdefangshibianshigenggaitiaojianciji。

 hunyinguanxizhongyou“jiuchuershenghen”，zheijiushidanyitiaojiancijidezhangqixingjieguo，jibianjixiaoyongchixuxiajiang，zhizhididalingjiedian，jiezhebianjixiaoyingbianchengfushu。liru，xiaogaolengnanshenzuikaishishixiaixiaobaobaodexingganmiren，danbansuizheshijianpincidetisheng，zheileixingganmirendebianjixiaoyongshizaixiajiangde，zaijibugenggaicijixingliang(yuelaiyuegengxingganmiren)，youbugenggailei(yuelaiyuetaorenxihuan/yazhi……)dezhuangkuangxia，bianjixiaoyingbianchengfushu(jiuchuershenghen)bianhuibianchengyijiandagailvdeshier。

 yinci womenbunengzhigenjuyizhongcijixingqushengchanzhizaohighdian，wulunzuichuxiaogaolengnanshenduizheileicijixingdeyijianfankuiyouduomedemingxian，danjianjiandidebansuizhebuduandedao ，zheileimingxiandeyijianfankuiyidinghuiyulaiyuruo，xianghuyehuiyulaiyubumanyi。

 jiejuefangfabianshihengzhetuozhancijixingdezhonglei。liruxiaogaolengnanshenduixiaobaobaodeyinxiangshitaorenxihuan，neixiaobaobaomennenggoucaiyongmouleiduice;liruzhongwuweixiaogaolengnanshentiaoyizhihaiziqideminzuwudaohou，yeliquebeiyongyitaomeihuodeqingqushuiyi;rangxiaogaolengnanshenyishidao“o，yuanlainichukaitaorenxihuan，hainenggouneimexingganmirenya!”。

 zaibirushuoniyizhizaigaolengnanshenyanqianyizhihenyouzhi，danlaidaoshuangfangfumujianmiandengxiangyaonichengqilaichangjingdeshike，niyekeyishoulongpiqiduanzhu“xianshudaqi”depinpaixingxiang;youhuoshinipingchangshenjingdatiao，danshishishangqueyouzheshifenbixuzixideshougongzhizuozhuanyejineng，qiaoqiaoweigaolengnanshenzhihaoyitiaoweibo。zheizhongfangshishidianxingxingdeshengchanzhizaoqidai，xiaogaolengnanshenciqianshibuqingchuniyaonengneiyangde，yinci duiyucishishimeiyouqidaide，cikefuwuzhiliangyejiangshizuidade。

 erhengzhekuozhandeshizhiqujueyu，nvxinggenjushizhebuyiyangshejifengge、shiyangezhonggeyangrenwujiaose，qingganzixunbukentuikuantousuyouyongma？shencengfajuefengcai，kaifashejiyouhuoli，jinxingchangkuaijianshengchengyigegengjiaduiwaikaifangdezishen。jiangziwochengzhangweiraoyuhunyinguanxidangzhong，tisheng fuwuzhiliangbianbianchengyigechengshiershangdejieguo。