有被花镇骗过的吗？一边抱怨一边坚持？

youbeihuazhenpianguodema？jinritan：jiarunibeiyigerenzhanxianchuqudexianxiangmengbi，nijiangshizhongmeifajiandaotayinzangdexinli

niyoumeiyoujianguoneileijiniganjueshanjierenyidaoshaderen?poshinicongwenrouditishi“nitaishanliangle”，yizhidaolannifubushangqiangdibaocukou“nishaa”、“naozijinshuileba”。

nvxingajiuzheiyang：tayouyulaoxianshenghunhouchuguierliyi，fangwucheliangguiqianrenlaogonghedisanzhe，ahexiaohaiyeyoujiapoyiqiliqu，youyujiaposhuozishenzhirenazheiyierxifu。lihunzhihou，akaoyifenshouyibutaigaodegongzuozhongguorizi，pingchangyehuijijiapoyixielinghuaqian，erjiapozhuanrangbianhuibaqianweizijidaerzi，zhideyitideshi，qianrenlaogongyeshucixiangajiekuan，awuyiliwaidoujiele。keshi，zheizhongdoubingbushiaganxinqingyuande。yinci，achangchangxiangxiaohuobanmentongsujiapoheqianrenlaogong，xiaohuobanmenquantabajiaposonghuilai，yebiejiekuanjiqianrenlaogong，ayizhiyaoshuoxiangjindehua“zhongjiudajiajinglibanianhunyinshenghuoheqinggan”、“jiapoyijianshifeichanghao，disanzheyoufangshiyouxinyaner，haowuyiwenburongyiduijiapohao”，zongzhitabianshiwufajujueqianrenlaogonghejiapo。

 penyounengshuoshenmeni?“aiyo，nizheirentaibangle，taishanjierenyi、xiangdetaiduo。”nimolanzuipi、haoyanbiaojin、shuoxianhuashuojue，tarengranbeibeiqiqishierbujian，zaicijianchibuxiexuduorenbulijie、zishenbugaoxingdegerenxingwei。zuihoudahuoerzhiyouganjuezishenzheiyipenyoubianshiyigesixinyan。

shisharangayidingyaobazijifangzhizheibanchujingni?zhendeshidahuoerjuedede“renbieshanjierenyiguoduo”?jinriwoxiangxixinshuoshuoneiyangdenvrendaodishizenyangmengbilexuduoren，zuizhongbazijiyemengbile。

neiyangdegerenxingwei，yidingbudanshichuziyushanjierenyi，zhishiyouyidingdetuqueyoubuyuanyirenke，huoliantazishendoumeiyishidaozishendezongtimubiao。erzhejiaoda dechabiebianshi，zhishichuziyushanjierenyidehua，huiganxinqingyuan;erchuziyuhoumianyizhongdehua，jiuchixumaiyuan。

那麼，A究竟想要哪些?

 gerenxinlixuezhuanjiaadelejuede，yigerenchuxianyixienantigerenxingweideqingkuangxia，womenbunengzhikangerenxingwei，toutongyitou，jiaotongyijiao，eryaojiandaogerenxingweishenhoudezongtimubiao。

怎么理解呢?

feichangjiandan。niweishenmequtushuguan?qutushuguanjinjinyigegerenxingwei，zheileigerenxingweishenhoudezongtimubiaoshijishangshichaoyueziji，chaoguopuputongtong，dedao zihaogan。

zailiru，yigehaizi，xiyan、yebuguisu、shuozanghua、duilaoshibubigongbijing，ruguowomenzhidingzhutadegerenxingwei，liru，jinritadezuijiaoshi，babamamajiuchizetabulimao，mingritaxiyandayouxi，babamamajiuzhizetawusuozuowei，zheidounanyijiejuenanti。ruguowomenzhangwodaozheizhonggerenxingweishenhoudezongtimubiaoshibaituozishenrouruofalidezibeixinli，neima，zheizhonggerenxingweidechuxianyebuqiguaile。zhibuguoshi，taweilegenghaodidadaozongtimubiaoyingyonglebuzhengquedefangshi，zuihoubudanbukeyizijitigaozixin，haihuijixushitayulaiyuzaoshouxuduorendejidui、yanlidaji、fouren，gengweibuzixin。

fanhuishangbianshilizhongdenvzhujiaoa，ruguowomenzhidingzhutafannaodenanti，dajiayehuitoutongyitoudiquanta“biejiekuan，biezhaoliaojiapole”，danshishishang，zheiyagenshixiao，youyutayouwushu“wubizheiban”deyuanyindengni。jiarunengliangsanjujiushuodongta，neitazishenzaoyeshuodongzishenle。

yinci ，lejieadegerenxingweishenhoudezongtimubiao，caisuanshizhongyao。

zheierwoyaoshuoyijuyouderenbuxiangtingquebunengtaobidenanti：renxingbenzisizili。

youbeihuazhenpianguodema？zheierdezisizilishizhongxingci。woyizhiyouyigeyishi：danfanxushurendebenxingdeyuhui，bixuzuoweizhongxingciduidai。weiheneimeshuoni?jiuhaosidajiayiniansijiyiniansijiyiyang，tashidaziranfaze，pingdingshijieyouliejinerbeiqiushangchunyushiwubu，zhongshiziranfazedeqiantitiaojianxianenggougenghaodicunhuocaisuanshishangshangce。

youxierengenwoshuo，renxingbenzisizili，weishenmedajiachukaishandaizijidexiaohaiyehuiaitarendexiaohai?chukaishandaizijiyehuiaishenbianderen?zheigewentifeichanghaojieshi。youyutarendexiaohaiheshenbianderen，chengchuandeshirenmendeyichuanjiyin，shouweideshishehuifazhanxiezuo，erdajiameiyigerendoushuyurenmen，doushiyouweihurenleijiyinzubibiedexiaodongwuyichuanjiyingengyouyoudianchengchuan。zheiyeshiweishenmewojiangzairendebenxingfangmian，zisizilishigezhongxingci。

renxingbenzisizili，bingbushizhisuoyouren、renheshihou、yiqieshier，quanshizhaoguhaozijiyigeren，yiziwoweizhongxin，zhongbaosinang。jiranchengzuorendebenxing，jiuxuyaocongrenmenzongtifangmiankan，erbushimouyirenmouyishikeshijidegerenxingwei。keshi，congciwaiyigejiaoduguancha，renxingbenzisizilijueceledajiabanshideqingkuangxia，yidingshiduizishenyoulide(naizhiquanyihenyoukenengmeiyoudangjin)。lirujingjichangshangzhaoliaolaozhanyou，shijishangduizishenyeshiyoulide，youyujiarusheiyebuzhaoliao，neizishenyewufadedaosuoyourendezhaoliao，keyishuotashixiangmutouzixinrengan，youguanzheiyidianwojianyikanyibenshu《zisidejiyin》，zheieryibuxiangximiaoshu。

zhangworendebenxing，bingmeiyouyaowojuedekebei，fanguolaiyaowogengmingbaizhongshirendebenxing，gengnengkanqingyixiegerenxingweideshiqing。

lejielezheiyi，dajiafanhuishili，changshipouxiyixia，adegerenxingweirangtahuodenaxie。

 shehuixinlixuejuede，rendeyishengdouhuixunzhaobenrendebiyaoxing。shuobailebiyaoxing，jianyishuobianshi“wobibukeshao，wocunzaiweihainaizhijuecebieren”。

zuoweiyigeren，aduibiyaoxingdezhuiqiuwanmeidoubuchuwai，tashiyoushencengcirendebenxingjuecede。

ruherangzishenyuelaiyueguanjianni?

chaoguotaren，rangzishenyuelaiyuebutongxunchang，dedao zihaogan，tashidabufenrenquedingzishendebiyaoxingdefangshi。erdangyigerenbeixuyaodeqingkuangxia，yehuishitaganjuezishenbutongxunchang，zishenhenzhongyao。

 dajiakanyixiaadejingyu：tadelaoxianshengpaoxialeta，rangtadebiyaoxingyishunjianqueshi。erjiapobixuta，jiletajudarentong，rangtaganjuezishen“beizaihu、beigaoduzhongshi”，yiner，tahuixiezhujiapo。yinci ，yingduijiapoduitadaozhijutiquanyisunhai，adexinlizhuangtaibixurangarengranmeifajiandingbuyidelikai。

yinci ，axiangyaodanfutongchuerbuliqudezhijieyuanyinqujueyu，jiapodecunyoukaolvleadexinlizhuangtaibixu，erbingbushixiangdahuoerxiangxiangdeneiban，ataishanjierenyi。

cikejiaruxiaohuobanmenshuoyixie“nizuodezaoyigouhaola，biezaibiequzishenle”、“niqianrenlaogongdouneibanle，niyaoxintongta，nitaiyourouguaduanle”、zheileidehua，doushihuiyushiwubu。

youyudahuoermeiyouyishidao，ashiyizhongyinglide。

woyanzhongdezijishuode“renxingbenzisizili”，meirenhuizuoduizishenyidianhaochudoumeiyoudeshi，zhibuguoshiyixieyinglidajiafeichangrongyihulve，tabuxiangqiancai、huaxuewuzhineimaliji，liru，xinlizhuangtaiyingli、ganqingyingli、ziwomanzu。