有被花镇骗过的吗？和男神的初次约会要这么玩儿

lijingyige“youzhang”dexinchunjiajie，afujuedezishenzaibuxiewupinjiuxuyaozhangmaole。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？zaijialibujinyaolijingqidagubadayidezhucengpanchahediaocha，haidejingdezhulaodajiemeizimendeqingganwentikongxi，zuizhonggaodebaizaonianbishijihaijianrangworenweicanren。

rane，jinguanbeigezhonggeyangyoudemeidejiuchanbuqinglehaojitian，afuyinweiwofajueleyigexiaoxiannvdexianghunanti：burongyiyouhui。shide，nibumingbaicuo，xuduo nvshengzhendeshiburongyiyouhui。wulunshiwanquanbuqingchuzenmehegaolengnanshenxianliao，huanshihuliaohaishuodebagaolengnanshenhetuile，quanshiburongyiyouhuigaodegui。

so，neimewentilaile。dajiaxiaoxiannvyuanbenjiuxuyaoyouyazhidefengcai，zaibuxuzishenkanqilai“fanhuachi”deqingkuangxia，zenyangcainengtisheng diyiciyouhuidepinzhini?

闲聊并不是“瞎撩”

meiyiciyouhuidoushiyixianliaogangkaishide，jinguanyuyanzaigoutongjiaoliuzhongzhizhanbushang10%debili，keshi，chukaizhengshidajiabingbushiyabayiwai，yuyanzaifeichangdashuipingshangshikaiqijushidediyitiaoxuan。zhongjiu，chulezongtidezishiyiwai，yuyancaisuanshichuangjianyouliangdiyiyinxiangdelijifangfa。

有关兴趣爱好

xuduo xiaoxiannvmenyizhibeiyikaishiruhekaichangdikunhuo，palingyifangganjuezishenbuzufengqu、buzuquwei、buzu....zheixie。stop!zheizhongdanyouquanshishengxingduoyide，xianqueliyidian，jirangaolengnanshenzaoyiyuanyigennichuquyouhuipengmianle，tahaowuyiwenshiduoshaoyeshixiangzhangwonihuoshiyoujinyibufazhandeyisi。so，dandazhanxianzhenzhengdeyimianjiuokle。

jiaruqueshiyaoxiangzhaoyigehuatitaolunlailiao，neimejiuyonggerenaihaozuoweitupokouba。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？zheiyihuatitaolunkendingshiquanshijiezuituodangqieburongyilingrennankandele。jiusuanshiyiqiandajialiaowanzheiyihuatitaolunyemeiguanxi，yaoshiyong“thenwhat(suihouzenmeyangle)”neiyangdeliaotianhuati，jiunengxushangyouguanxingquaihaodehuatitaolun，erqiehaihuijixuranggaolengnanshenganjuenishizhenxinshiyiduitayouhaogande。

有关尴聊

ruguoniganjuehenyoukenengjijianggaliaohuoshijindaoganliaohuanjiedeqingkuangxia，ganwan、qianwanbuyaobubixueyixieshipinshangfang“tuweierqinghua”lailiaonanshen。zheileiwupin，zaimouyinshangkanyixiajiuwanhou，hekuzaizheigeshihounachulai“quru”zishenni?

jiaruganjuejijiangmeihualiaodeqingkuangxia，nenggouyijugaolengnanshendexingquaihaoyushenghuoqingkuang，jianyituiduanyixia，suihouxunsuzaizishende“naodongdakai”lizhaoxunyigehenyoukenenghuizaochengxiangjiaohuatitaolunderenhuoshi。tangruo，nenggoujiqigaolengnanshenyouyiyanghuoleisidelijing，neimajiuzuohaolele。bujinfangzhileganliao，hainengrangliangrenzaochengdaliangdexiangtongdian。

有关难题

gaolengnanshenzheileiweishengwujinguanshuaidegeyoubutong，huoshimendexiqiguguai，danyouyidianshitongyangde：jiejuekunnangongzuonengli。gaolengnanshenwangwanghuibeizuoweigaolengnanshen，jiuqujueyutadeshenshangyouchongzujinichimideliangdian，chucizhiwai，nanrenmenyehuichangchangyong“jiejuekunnan”neiyangdefangfaxiangxiaoxiannvzhanxianzishendegongzuonenglihefengcai。

so，zainiyugaolengnanshendiyiciyouhuideqingkuangxia，nenggoushidudeshengchanzhizaohuoshizixunyidian“xiaowenti”，bingyaoyuegaolengnanshenchushijianyihuojiejuefangan。neiyangbudanranggaolengnanshenganjuezishendefengcaihuodelechengxian，haihuijixuranglingyifangganjuenishiyichengxiangdaiqiezhenzhengde。

餐后主题活动才算是关键

youdexiaogongjuganjue，youhuihoudezhutihuodongma，zhibuguobianshi“yingpian、kge、yedangchang”zheilaosanyangbale。no、no、no，xiaoxiannvmenjinji，jinyouburongyiyouhuidenvshengcaihuiyizhaoneiyangdezhaoshudapai。canhouzhutihuodongzuoweijigaolengnanshenliuyouhaoyinxiangdezuizhongjiyuhetoudengdashi，budanyaozhanxianzishen，haidehui“shuncong”。

喜好优先选择规律

zuixian，jiranshuodao“shuncong”，neiyaobujiu“shunconggaolengnanshendexihao”，yaobujiu“shuncongzishendexihao”。jinguanzheijuhuayoudianerbubiyao，dandequeshihenzhongyaodeyigeguize。

liangzhezhijianzaicanhouhunhunee，suibianyingjichuzhihappytime，bibushangjiezheiyijiyu，ranggaolengnanshenduizishenyougengjiashenrudezhangwo。zheiyangyilai，budanzaigennishichangjingzhengdexiemeilinengjiyaqunxiong，haihuijixuzaigaolengnanshenxinliliuyougengjiashenrudeyinxiang。xiangfanyeshi。tashiyizhonggaochaodegoutongfangshi，nideleguan、tongzhenhefengcai，doushihuilijizhanxianzaigaolengnanshenyanqian。

“新世界”规律

changyandao：“diyicizhenduimeiyigereneryanquanshihuibeilaojide。”ziranbushineigediyici!baoxiangwaile!afushuode“diyici”，zhideshizuoyixiexianghujianyemeiyoujingliguodeshier。

why?youyudangdajia2geyaoquzuo“zhiqianyemeiyouzuoledeshier”zheiyijueceyizhigenjudeqingkuangxia，bicixinlizhuangtaishangjiuzaoyiyouyigeyuguhexinlijianshele。yaoshizheiyijian“meizuoledeshier”shunlichengzhangdekaizhanle，xianghubianhuicongneixinshenshendidejilaolingyifang：“neiyitian，woliangganleyijianxxxxdeshier，queshihaoqimiao!”

zheijiushiweihexuduo ouzhouguojiadeyouhui“zhaoshugou”，changchanghuitiaowucanshiyouhui，canhouzhutihuodongjiutiaoxuanbengjitiaodeyuangule。