有被花镇骗过的吗？如何让男人觉得你懂我？

zainaobieniuhuoshizaoyufenshoushi，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？nvshengzuidanxintingjiandebianshinanshengzheijuhua：shijishangniyidiandoubumingbaiwo。

xuduo qiuzhuzhedougenwoshuo：

jiaoshi，wojiujingyaozenmeyangcaikeyidongwonanpengyou，lejietani?

nanshengde【nibudongwo】daibiaoshenmeyisi?

nanshengshuode【nibudongwo】shenhoudehanyishishenmeni?

lijingwohenduodejingdiananli，wofaxianlenanshengshuo【nibudongwo】deqingkuangxia，shenhoudeyanwaizhiyishijishangshi——

nimeiyoubangwogaopinzhideshouhou。

什么是高品质的守候呢?

bianshizairongxudeshijianli，zainenggouzhuangjideshineikongjianli，jitamenwanquandeqianxinheshouhou。

zheibaokuoleningwangdeyanjing，lingtingdeerduolimian，suishisuidinenggouchushixiezhudeliangshou，gengguanjiande，shiyikeaitadexin，zheizhongzaizheiduanshijianlishiwanquancunyoude。

shuoshihuabianshi，hetazaiyiqideqingkuangxiayidingyaorenzhen!

haijideyouyiciwohepenyouyiqichiwandunfan，youbeihuazhenpianguodema？wopengyoujiuwenwojiangzenmela，kanqilaibingbushihenkaixin，shipengdaoleshenmebuchenggongdeshierma?

woneishihouganjuezhengzhengdemaizaiwotoudingyizhoudeheiyun，jianjiandidebeichuisandiaole，suihouhuilaihouwoyeduizhangfubaofale：

xiaobaobaomeirihenizaiyiqiniyemeiyoufajuewojinqibugaoxing，wopengyoujinjinyuwochulaichiwanyidunfan，jiujuechachuwoqingxubudahao，nishizenmedangwolaogongdeya，nimeiyoubangwogaopinzhideshouhou，heng!

zheileizhuangkuangshifoujiyuanqiaohe?

huoxuyouyiduanshijiannishineiyang，youyugongzuofangmianhuoshigeshigeyangdeyixieshier，nichixujirideqingxudoubingbushifeichanghao。

keshilingyifangzuoweinidelingyiban，zhiyaonibuduitashuo，tafangfobingmeiyoufaxianshenmeyichang，keshijishangnixinlishiqipannidexintaibeitafajue、beitajieshoude。

jiarucikezuoweinimenyiwaidedisanren，jiminderenzhilaidaonidexintai，erqiejidaonishidangdefuwei，niyishunjianjiuhenyoukenengduinidelingyibanzaochengbumanyi：

weihetarenjinjingenwogangchupengjiufajuelewodexintai，dannimeitianhewozaiyiqi，quefangfoyijianshibingburenzhen?

zhei，bianshi2geqinglvshengshudegangkaishi。

yinci ，xiaobaobaomenyaoxiangyuelaiyuedongnansheng，nixuyaozaihetachupengdemeiyitiandouzuixianyaorenzhenquchajuelingyifangdexintai。

shijishanghenduorenxinliyouxintai，dantabuyuanyishuochulai，ketahuanshiqidaishenbianrenkeyilejiekeyifajuede。

xuduo nanshengganjuezishenbugaoxingdeqingkuangxia，shuochulaifangfokanqilaibuzudandu，bianhuimenzaixinli。keshiyizhengpianshijiandeqiyadihuibazijibiedebushufu。

yinci dangshenpangchuxianyigerenguanzhutadeqingkuangxia，tajiufeichangrongyibeidadong，ganjuebeilejie，zheiyeshiyouderenbaijidisanzhedeyuangu。

怎样让他感觉【你懂我】?

baozhenggaopinzhideshouhou，bixucongzhei3geguanjiandianxueqi。

1)tihui、fajuelingyifangdexintai。

zheishijishangbingbuhuitainan，xiangxinzhiyaoniyuanyiyongxintingyixiatadexintai，ninengfajuetadebugaoxing。

renzhentihuibingbushineimanande，danzhongyaobianshixuduonvsheng(yixienanshengyetongyang)henanshengzaiyiqijiuleyihou，jiuyulaiyuyongguanxinglihenanshengjiaowang，shiqulerenzhen。

2)lingyifangmaiyuanshibiezhejizhejitiyi。

chukaichajuelingyifangdexintaiyiwai，zheizhongzhuangkuangxiahaikeyiranglingyifangganshoudaogaopinzhideshouhou。liru：

ruguonidenanyouxiangnimaiyuanshuo：

woyijinghaozhangshijianmeiyouquwanguoqule，jinqigongzuozhongtaimang，yizhidoumeiyoushijianchulai。zheishihouninengruhedafuni?

wohaizaizhibofangjiantiguozheigewenti，jieguozhibofangjiandexiaobaobaomenqingyisebangwodehuiyingquanshi，neimewoheshipeizheniquwan?huoshishenmeshihouniyoushijianwoyueniquwan……

zheiquanbudehuiyingshijishangquanshizaibanglingyifangjiejuekunnan，zheidequeshixuduo nvshengyixiangqingyuandefangfa，bianshidanglingyifangpengdaonantideqingkuangxia，dianjizhefaerdiqubanglingyifangjiejuekunnan。

keshiqinaidedexiaobaobaomen，tashuodaozheijuhuahenxianzhushizaixiangnimaiyuana，taxianzhuyouxintaiya，nizenmejiuhushileni?

nandaoshuonimeiyingdangzuixianqufuweiyixiatadexintaima?

恰当的回应应该是：

qinaidede，neishizaitaiquehanle，niyidingshifensinianzhiqianquwandeshijianba?

suihounidenanyouganjuezishenbeilejiele，yaoshuo：

shide，woqueshihenhuailian，zhiqianwomeixingqidoushihuijiachechulaidoudoufeng。

zheishihounixuyaotonglixintashuodao：

ng，qinaidede，womingbailenidetihui，shifenxiangganyijianshiqueyouzuobulai，juedequeshihencaogao。

nikankan，quanbuchulai，tayiqianduinimaiyuantameiyouquwandeneileixinfanjiubeinimodeganjingzhengjie，taganjuezishenbeilejiele，niqueshishuodaotaxinwozilibianlaidao，zheinandaoshuobingbushiyizhonggaopinzhideshouhouma?

suihoujiexiaquninengzaizhengqueyindao：

neiqinaidede，wokeyizuoyidianshenmeshiqingjinijuedehaoyidianni?

他就要说：

neinijiuduopeizhewoyihuierba，yinweiwohuiganjuegaoxingyixie。

你对他说：

neitaibangleya，qinaidede，wochedilejienidetihui，youyuyinweiwohenxihuanyunidaizaiyiqi^ _ ^

jiexiaqunimenliangzhongjianbianhuiyoudanfensedepaomozaifujinkuosan，zheinandaoshuobubinilijiquduitashuo【qinaidedewoheniyiqiquguang】gengqiangma?

记牢：

dangnanshengzaimaiyuandeqingkuangxiabubijizhexiezhutaqujiejuekunnan，erzuixianyaoqufuweitadetihui，xiezhutaqufentantadexintai，duitaeryanneiyanggengnengganshoudaozheifenai。

3)danglingyifangguanzhu、kuazannishi，zuoxieranglingyifanggaoxingdedafu。

chukaidanglingyifangyoumaiyuanshi，nixuyaojidaolingyifangganqingshangdeyijianfankuiwai，danglingyifangguanzhunihuoshikuazannideqingkuangxia，niyeyingdangzuoyixieranglingyifangkaixindeshiqing。liru：

ruguonidenanyouzaiguanzhunichifanlemeiyou，xuduo nvshenghuixiayishidihui：

吃完呀~

ruguoshigaopinzhideshouhou，neimeniyingdanghui：

ganxieqinaidedeguanzhuwo，woyijingchiwanfanle，qinaidenini?

jiarunishenpangdepenyoukuazannijuede，nichuanzheiyijianyifukuzizhenhaokan，chukaishuoyijuganxie，gengnengranglingyifanggaoxingdejiaofashi：

ganxienihaowuyiwenwodemuguang，yinweiwoganjuezheiyijianyifukuzihenhaokan。

jiarutarenguanzhunidejiaqiguoderuhe，nenggougenghaodihuiyingyeshi：

a，ganxieninishifouhaijidezheihuishier，woguodeshifengaoxing。

ruguoniyijianfankuishi，tarenhuiyouyukuazanlenieryuyue，renmenzheileixiaodongwuzishizhizhongzaizhuiqiuwanmeihuanaidetihui。

yinertamenhuixiangdaodaliangyuniyouguandexingfuxiangfa，haorangzishenjuedegengqiang，yizhongrenduinidexingfuxiangfayueduo，tamenziranganjuenishinagezuidongta，zuilejieta，zuifeichangzhidetaaideshuimitaonvhaiya!

xingdongbuhuitainan，zhiquerenzhen。

renquanshizisizilide，yizhixiguanxingyongguanxingliquhetarenjiaowang，erbuyuanyihuahuolifeisixuquxiangruhequjidaotarengaopinzhideshouhou。

danshiyaoxianghelianrenzhongjiangengqiangdejiaowang，zairenzhenzheiyijianshiershangkebukeyilanduoe~