有被花镇骗过的吗？为什么他跟那个没你漂亮的人跑了？

yidabufendeguanxichuxiannantideqingkuangxia，dajiadoushihuishenshiziji，huoshi，caiyilingyifang。youbeihuazhenpianguodema？shijishang，zaizuozheiyikaoliangyiqian，hebuxianxixidixiangyixianglingyijianshiqing：zuoweinvsheng，niguangmingleiluodejizijitiaoxuanguoma?

yixienvshengdouhuijuedetiaoxuanshinanshengdeshier，congyikaishijiaowangyuefan、yuedianyingde“suiyi”，daozhihoushiwudaxiaode“dounenggou”，dajiajiushizheiyangbazijidejijijuedingquanyidiandiande“lingchichusizhisi”。

shubuzhi，hui“diaoshi”nanyoudenvsheng，doushihuiduoduoshaoshaodebayibufenjijijuedingquansisidiniezaishoushang，weihe?youyutashibuxulingyiban“suibianyingjichuzhini”deyagen。

zhangqibuzuochutiaoxuanderen，zaiyiqieyiduanguanxili，doushihuimanmandebeilingyifangjuedeshi“duiquanbushierdoubuzaihu”。jiaruyidanchanshengneiyangdeyinxiang，bianhuidaozhiyigejushi：taruhekandainidoudechengdanzhe，youyunizishenbianshigemeizhujian、suibianderen。yulaiyuduodebugaoduzhongshi，xuanbujianjiandi“chechu”dezhuyaobiaoxian。

Lost：你是会积极离去的

yeyouyixienansheng，wangwanghuifangqini，yagenyishishi：“womeiletanenggou，dantameiyoulewobuxing。”youbeihuazhenpianguodema？neiyangyibiandaodeyishiwangwanghuizaocheng，bianshiyouyunimeiyoujitamenyiqiede“lishigan”。

yiqianzaiwangshangyouyigegaoxiaoduanzi：nanshengshenyerengzaigenpenyouyinjiu，nvyoudadianhuajita：“zhangfu，nishenmeshihouhuijiaya，wodanxiao。”nanrenshuo：“duoshaoderenle，heijinjinyizhongsediao，youshenmehaopade?”nvshuo：“nei，zhangfunipacuilvsema?”yinci，nanshenghuijia。

gaoxiaoduanzijinjingaoxiaoduanzi，shiwomenfanhuirichangshenghuodeshijishangqu。weishenmeyoudeqingkuangxiananshenghuiduinisangshixingquaihao?youyutaganjueniduitasixintadile，youyutaganjuebuguanzenyangnidoubuhuilikaita。keshi，zheixieguanxichijiudelianren，shiduoshaodoushiyouyidingde“lishigan”。zhengyouyudanyoulingyifanghuiyouyitianhuiyuelaiyueqiahao，suihouliquzishen，yinci caihuixianghuzhijianbangfu、xianghuzhijianfazhan，rangneiyanghenyoukenengde“lishi”burongyichansheng。liangrenyejiudoushihuigenggaoduzhongshizheiyifenguanxi。

Communication：认清沟通交流

xuduo lianrentongchanghuichuxianyizhongxintai：dajiajiaowangzheimeduonianle，shihenyouxinyoulingxide，woshizheibandezhangwota，tahaowuyiwenyehenzhangwowo。shubuzhi，zheileiniantougangkaishichuxiandeqingkuangxia，nisuochudezheiyiduanguanxijiuzaoyiyouanquanyinhuanle。

wozhangwota，yinci tayezhangwowo，zheijinjinyigejingchanghuichuxiandewulailuojixing。renmenchukaiyouxiaodegoutongyiwai，meiyouyiqiefangfanenggoutigaoxianghudezhangwo，huoshimingquelingyifangdeniantou。nixuyaogaoqingchuyidian，nanshengyouhenduodongxishiburongyishuochulaide，tamenhuijuedezheizhongwupinmeiyoubixushuochulai，huoshi，tamenhuiyouyuguoyibuqu、fuzuiganermeifashuochulai。

feichangjiandandezuofa，bianshinenggouxianghukaisheyigeanquanxingziranhuanjing，lirulibaitianxiawuchashijian，huoshilinshuiqiandebeizierduanliao，shitalejiezheiyiziranhuanjingheqingkuangshikendinganquanxingde。chucizhiwai，chuangjianxianghudebiaozhun，guoduanburongyichuxianquxiaohuoshijifengzheixie，bianyuchuangjianneiyangyigeqingkuang：dajiaxianghujiandeshierquanshinenggouzaizheigeshijianguangmingleiluodequchueryande。

tagennishuodeyueda，dajiagoutongjiaoliudeyuechangshun，guanxidangranjiuyuemibukefen。

Future：将来更非常值得关心

yixienvshengneixinzongyouyigeguobuqudekaner：tadeqiannanyou。naizhiyixieqingkuangxia，wulunzishenyouxinhuanshibujingyi，huizaochengyizhongwoxiangbitadeqiannanyougengqiangdeniantou。anzhaoneiyangdeniantouzaiguanxilijiaowang，douhuibizishenyaobitadeqiannanyou“chuse”。kezheiganghaohuidaozhi2gewufamibudejieguo。

diyi，ninenggesanchawudishitaxiangdaoqiannanyoudehao。yuefazaihutadeqiannanyouhuiruheguanzhuta，suihoujiuxuyaobitadeqiannanyouduitagengqiang，zheizongshijininanyougesanchawudezainideshenshangjiandaotaqiannanyoudeshenying。bujinshihaodeshenying，ziranyeyoubutaihaode。yinci ，yuedanxinzheizhong，tajiuyuekuaifangqini，rutongtagentaqiannanyouneiban。

dier，niwufagentazourujianglaideshenghuo。shijianzheigedongxihenqite，wulunquanshijiefashengleshenme，tadouburongyimanxialai。keniyizhizaiweiyiqiandeshiqingchouchudanxindeqingkuangxia，nidelingyibanquezaizaicixiangqianzou。rutongyijieyiqianshuode：liangrenfazhandebutongbu，shizaocheng fenlichulaidelijifabingyuanyin。