花镇情感咨询给退款么？好女人为什么会单身?

 womencongxiaobeixuexiaohuojiatingguanshulezheiyangdesiwei：nvrenyinggaiyaoduinanrenhao;huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？woyaojitaliuxiahaoyinxiang;wobunengrangnanrenshengqi;beinanrenjujueshiyigeyanzhongdeshiqing;nanrenyoutiaojianxuanzeni;ruguoyouxiubuxihuanwo，shiwozhangdebupiaoliang，meiyouqian;

dangniyoushangmianzheixiesiweixianzhihou，nilianaibiandeshifenkunnan，shenzhibuzhidaozenmegennanrenjiaoliule，nichengleyigezhuonvren。

为什么?

yinweishangmiandeguandiandoushicuode!

 gaibianzuizhongyaodeshiyongzhengquedesiweifangshiduidainanren，zhenzhengyouyongdeshituponidesiweixianzhi。yinweinigennanrenxiangchudefangshi、yanxingjuzhi、siweifangshi、jiaoliufangshiquandouyounineixindexinniansuojueding。

shouxianzhaodaolianaizhongchangyudaodewenti：

思维制约1-我不够漂亮、也不是有钱人

 nvrenzailianaishangmiandeshibaizonghuiweizijizhaoyixiejiekou：“wozhangdebuhaokan，yebugouyouqian，huazhenqingganzixunjituikuanme？suoyiwobunengzhaodaoyouxiudenanpengyou。”

dangyigerenxiangxinyijianshiqingbukenengdeshihou，jiuhuizijishezhileyigezhangai，xianzhichenggongdekenengxing。

 tamenrenshibudaoxiyinnanrenshiyigezonghedeyinsu，zhangdepiaoliang、jingchangnenglihaozhishixiyinnanrendeyinsuzhongdeyibufen，erqiebushijuedingxingyinsu。dabanhuazhuang，shejiaonengli，zixindanding，jianshiyueli，xinggetaidu，duinanrendelejiedengqitayinsugengzhongyao，erzheixiecaishizhideniqusikaohetishengde。

 wodeguandianshi，zhiyaonizhangdebutaicha，shaoweihuadianshijiandabanyixia，nijiukeyicongyuedabufennvrenzhongjietuochulai。lingwai，nizhiyaoyounenglinengrangzijiguoshanglianghaodeshenghuojiukeyile，tishengshenghuozhiliangbingbuxuyaonihenyouqian。

 yizhangxiang、shengao、shouru、nianlingdengzishentiaojianbuzuweijiekou，shijishangshinizibeidebiaoxian。chengshudenvrenbingbuhuiyinweizijidequedianerzibei，ershitishengzijiqitayoushi。jieshouzijidebuzu，jieshouzijidezishentiaojian，yexunizhangxiang、shengao、shouru、nianlingdengtiaojianbingbuhao。danshiqingshiduoyuanhuade，nikeyibiqitanvrengenghaodiliyongzijideyoushi，tongyangkeyixiyindaonixihuandenanren，erbushiguangxiangzheyongwaibiaorangnanrenxihuanni。

思维制约2-我们要对男人好，这样我们才有机会

womencongxiaobeijiaoyu，nvrenbixuyaoduinanrenhao，guanxinta，weitafuchudeng，buduandinulicaihuichenggong。

womenyekandaoyigenvde，meitianweiyigenanrenfuchuhenduo，jingchangjinanrenguanxin，nanrengandongle，zuihouzaiyiqile。

dandangnizheiyangzuodeshihou，nanrenqueduinishuo：“woduinimeiyouneizhongganjue，womenhaishizuopengyouba。”

ranhounihuixiangshibushiniduitahaibugouhao，suoyitacaizheijujueleni。

danshishishi，zheixiedoushimeibiyaode，nanrenshifoujieshouzheigenvrenbushiyinweitaduitayouduohao，ershiyoumeiyoubeitaxiyin。

 erqietaizaoduitahaofanerbuliyongxiyinnanren，zhudonglianxitahuozhesongtadongxi，takenenghuijieshou，dantahuixiangniweishenmeyaozheiyang，yinweinijuedezijipeibushang，huozhebugougechengweitadenvrencaihuizheiyang。nigenxihuantadedabufennvrenyiyang，tadeqianyishibanidangzuobeitai，dengtaxuyaoxingaideshihoucaihuixiangqini，huijuedenizhinengzuozheixieshi。ruguomeiyouxiyinta，nibuduanduitafuchu，nizhibuguoshizailangfeinideshijianhejinglieryi。

 nanrentongchangbuhuibeiduitahaodenvrenxiyin，ershibei“wumei、zixin、shenmi”denvrensuoxiyin。nibixuxuexiruhetongguonidegexinglaixiyinnanren，zuoge“haoren”genbenwujiyushi。

制约3：优秀的男人都是难追的，追一个普通的男人容易点

 henduonanrenhuiziyiweidirenwei，youxiudenanrenhenduorenzhui，suoyitaduinvrenyaoqiuhuihengao，suoyiyouxiudenanrenshinanzhuide。shenzhiyouxienvrenhuiyiweiyouxiudenanrendoushiyiyounvpengyou，xiangzhuidouzhuibudao。

 nvrenjuedeyouxiudenanrennanzhuidezhuyaoyuanyinshitamenrenshideyouxiunanrenshao，tamenjuedeshenghuozhongyudaodeyouxiunanrenyaobukeji，yinweitamenlianrenshideyongqidoumeiyou。qishirenweiyouxiunanrennanzhuiderenhenduodoushimeichangshiguohetajiaowangde。

zheiyangxiangdenvrenfanleyigeyanzhongdecuowu：tamenrenweiyouxiunanrenshixiquede，dajiadouzhengzheyao。

 shishishang，zheigeshijiebingbuqueshaodejiushiyouxiunanren，nimeitianzailushanghuozheshejiaoquan，dounengyudaoyixieyouxiunanren，tebieshizaidachengshi，youxiunanrenduodegenshuiyiyang，conglaibuhuique。

 zainanrenyanzhonggengshizheiyang，tamenjuedebizijiyouxiudenanrendaoshidoushi。wogennanrenliaotiandeshihouxiguanzheiyangshuo：“wojuedenitingchengshude，shuohuahaitingyouqu，nizhidao，shenzhendeyouxiunanrenhenduo。”shuodaozheilideshihou，tamendouhuimashangdiantourentong。

 shouxianniyaozhidao，zhuizhenzhengyouxiunanrendenvrenbingbuduo，yinweiqitanvrenyehuirenweiyouxiunanrentaigaoaotainanjiejin，dabufennvrenzaiyouxiunanrenmianqianshuohuadoujinzhang，tamenbuganquzhuijiuzhijiefangqile，tuierqiuqici。

 suirandajiadouxihuanyouxiunanren，dandabufennvrenzhuidequeshiputongnanren，nikankannishenbiandeqingkuangshibushizheiyang，yige9fenmeilinanheyige7fendenanren(10fenshimanfen，6fenshihege)，7fendezhuiqiuzheyuanyuanbi9fendeduo。

 meinvbingbushibiputongnvhainanzhui，zhishifangfabuyiyang，zhiyaonizixinyidian，duodashanrenshiyixiemeinv，zuodaobutaohaotamen，dadandigentamenjiaoliubingshengjiguanxi，jishibeijujue，jiuhuanxiayige，nijiucongjuedabufennanrenzhongjietuochulaile。

 youxiunanrenbiputongnvhaigengrongyixiangchu，zheishizheixienianwoshijianxialaidejingyan。yinweitamenbiputongdenanrengengdongrenqingshigu。youxiunanrenshejiaonenglibijiaohao，jianshiduo，huijinvrengengduodejihui，gengrongyijieshouyiduanguanxi。