花镇退款成功的有吗？男女吸引力的差异

huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma?xuduo penyoubingmeiyounonggaoqingchu，youhuolijiujingshishenme，shishenmedongxidaozhiyixingpengyouzhongjiandexiyinzhu?

piekaibiaocengdeyuangu，xiabianwojinijiemixiyinzhuyixingpengyoudeshizhishisha。

congyuangushidaigangkaishi，renmenjiutiaoxuanheyixiejiaogaoshiyongjiazhihuoshiyongjiazhifeichangderentongmeng，erhushidishiyongjiazhideren，，youyugenyoushiyongjiazhiderenzaiyiqinenggoushiwomenhuodegengqiang。zheibushishehuidaodenanti，zhishiyichuanjiyinjueceleninengneimezuo。weilegenghaodicunhuo，rendebenzhiyushengjulaidijigaoshiyongjiazhiderendaliangdeguanxin。

huanjuhuashuo，youhuolidebenzhishishiyongjiazhi。

shiaiyeshi，dajiahuitiaoxuanshiyongjiazhijiaoweigaohuoshiyongjiazhifeichanghuoderenzuoweizhixiqinshu。jiaruyigenanrengenyigetaiainankandenvxingjielehun，neimenidezisunhoudaidecunhuohuishiyigefeichangdadenanti，tazisunhoudaideyichuanjiyinhenyoukenenghuiyinxiexiajiang，zhujiantaotai。tongyang，jiaruyigenvrenjiarugenyigeruanruo、yumeidenanrenshangchuangle，neitadecunhuojiushigewentile。

jinguangaoshiyongjiazhijiunengxiyinzhu，danzheibingbushishuojinyougaoshiyongjiazhijiunengtongmeng，jiarugaoshiyongjiazhiderenbukeyiduidishiyongjiazhiderenchushishiyongjiazhi，yechanshengbushangtongmeng，youyutongmengdebenzhishitigaoshiyongjiazhi，shiweilegenghaodihuxiangchushishiyongjiazhi。erdajiaxiyinzhudemudibianshiweilegenghaoditongmeng。

yinci xiyinzhulidegongshishi：xiyinzhu+chushishiyongjiazhi=tongmeng

有二点要留意：

xiyinzhushiqiantitiaojian，jiarunishiyongjiazhitaidi，nanshengyagenburongyirangnizhuanzhuli，butaikenengtongmeng。

huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma?xiyinzhuzaiqian，chushishiyongjiazhihoumian，jiaruhaimeiyouxiyinzhujiuchushishiyongjiazhi，bingbuhuichanshengtongmeng。

shijizhong，dajiajigaoshiyongjiazhiderendaliangguanxin，lirudapaimingxing、fushanghenvmote。dantamennengrangwomenchushideshiyongjiazhibijiaoyouxian，yinci henduorenduizhimingrenshijinxianxiyinzhu，bingmeiyoutongmeng。

haimeiyouxiyinzhujiujijichushishiyongjiazhi，lingyifangbingbuhuixiangyaogennitongmeng，neiyangzuozongshirangzishendeshiyongjiazhijiangdi。zheiyidianfeichangjiandan，danjuedaduoshunvxinghuanshimeixiyinzhujiuquyuenansheng，jieguobeijujue。

ganqingdianyuandianludianyuankaiguan

renmendeganqingrutongyixiliededianyuandianludianyuankaiguan，nanshenghuibeinvxingdeyixieyaosuxiyinzhu，jiarutafajuenijubeiyixieyaosuxiyinzhudaota，tadeyouhuolidianyuankaiguanbianhuiyishunjiankaiqi，neitajiubeinixiyinzhule。

rutongnanshengjiandaoyigehuolashencai、chuanzhedabanxingganmiren、xiangmaoroumeidenvxing，tadeyouhuolidianyuankaiguanhuizaiyimiaozhongkaiqi。

youhuolidianyuankaiguandedingyibiaoming，xiyinzhubingbingbushilijingrendedanaosisuode，dajiabingbuhuixiangzuosuanshuneibangenjusisuojueceshibushinibeilingyifangxiyinzhu，zhishizaiyishunjianjiubeilingyifangxiyinzhule，rutongdengpaozaikaiqidianyuankaiguandeqingkuangxiajiulikehuiliang。

nanshengpengdaopiaoliangmeinvdeqingkuangxia，niyagenburongyixiang“tadejifutingbaide、shuangyanjidadi，jiushiwoxihuandeleixing。”zhishizaihaibuqizuoyongrendedanaosisuoqian，tajiubeitaxiyinzhule，zheirutongyigedianyuandianludianyuankaiguanneiban，zaiyishunjianbeidakaile。

jiarunilejienanshengdeyouhuolidianyuankaiguanzaineili，nixiyinnanrenbianhuijianyideduo。

cunhuoshiyongjiazhihefanzhishiyongjiazhi

那究竟什么是价值呢?

ziranjiebaquanbuweishengwudoushejifanganweicunhuohefanzhichixuchixu，genjuyichuanjiyinshizheshengcuntizhitiaoxuanchushihecunhuohefanzhideyichuanjiyin。dajiaderenshengdaoluzuizhongmubiaoshicunhuo，dierzongtimubiaoshifanzhi，tashidajiayushengjulaidezhongren。

jinguanrenmenyiyanbiandaohenzhinenghua，danniyiranshiyouchushishengmingdejinhuachuqude，baocunzhechushideyichuanjiyindetexing，niyishengdeqinfenquanshiweilegenghaodicunhuodegengqiang，jinideyichuanjiyindedaofanzhixialai。

shiyongjiazhifenchengcunhuoshiyongjiazhihefanzhishiyongjiazhi

cunhuoshiyongjiazhi，yibanshidedao huaxuewuzhigongzuonengli，yingxiangli、jiaojinengli。

fanzhishiyongjiazhi，yibanshibiaomian，haodeshenxinghexiangmao。

zaiyuangushidai，nvxingzaijialibixunanshengchumenbulieyangta，yinci tabixudayigenengbuliedenansheng。buliedenanshengyingduishizhijinrihegezhonggeyangfengxian，yiruanruotajiuqushile。yinci ，nvxinghuitiaoxuanbuliegongzuonengliqiangdenanshengweihutadecunhuo，erbuliegongzuonengliqiangdenanshenghuitiaoxuangenshenxingxiangmaohaodenvxingchuanzongjiedai，neiyangnenggoushitadezisunhoudaigengqiangjing。

genyuangushidaiduibi，rujinnanshengdecunhuoshiyongjiazhibingyibushibuliedegongzuonenglile。jinguanshencaikuiwudenanshenglveweiyouyoudian，danyigexiaogeziduitadecunhuodeweihaibingbusuantaida，zhongjiubuyonggenlaohudajiale，buliegongzuonenglibeishouyi、yingxiangli、renjijiaowangnenglidengsuotidai。

danbubiandeshi，nvxinggengaocunhuoshiyongjiazhidenanshengzaiyiqinenggouhuodegengqiang，nanshenggengaofanzhishiyongjiazhidenvxingzaiyiqiyouyiyongyisanboyichuanjiyin。

yinci ，nvxingfanzhishiyongjiazhibicunhuoshiyongjiazhiguanjian，nanshengdecunhuoshiyongjiazhibifanzhishiyongjiazhishiyongjiazhigengguanjian。

xiyinzhuyixingpengyoudeshiyongjiazhi

yigenanrenheyigenvrenzaishiyongjiazhidezuchengshangshiyouchabiede。

nansheng：yaoxiangshencaimiaotiaode、haokande、nianqingdenvren(yiweizhefanzhigongzuonengli)

nvxing：yaoxiangyouguanlinengli、bushouyingxiang、yaogantanxiandenansheng(yiweizheshengcunli)

nvxinggenjuzhanfangmeilixiyinnanren：shishangchaoliudefuzhuangdapei，gexinghuadezhuangrongjudong。nvxingbazijichuanzhedabandewumeidongrenjingli，tamenxianlurouqingsishuicijixingnanrendeyuwang，zheixiewanzhongfengqingdenvxingchangchangxiyinnanrenyanguang。

ernanshengzuishiyongdeyeshinvxingdexiangjibanyan、jiaoquyinyuekejian。nanshengdouxiangzhanjuzheixierutonghuabanmeilidongrendenvxing。

nanshengyibanqizhi、xinxin、gexinghua、shifangyali、wenzhong、jianzhuang、yougongjixingjinvxingjuedeheguishugan。

yinci nanxinglingdaozheshizuishounvxingreliehuanyingdenansheng。tamenbawozheziyuan，bingqieshenpangdenanshengyezhuisuita，shifangnanrenqizhi。

yinci ninengjiandao，nvxingyibanxiainianjidananshi，youyunanshengnianjigentadecunhuoshiyongjiazhiyoulijideguanlian。dannanshengyibanxiainianqingdenvren，youyunianqingdenvrenfanzhishiyongjiazhigao。

nanhaihenvhaidetongmengyiyuanchabie

youyunvshiyigeyuezhiyoupailuanqiyici，yishengshuzuiduoshenghaoduogexiaohai，yinci tabajiaopeiquankandeshifenbaogui。jiarutatiaoxuanbuduizhixiqinshu，zaitashengxiaohaideqingkuangxiahenyoukenenghuimeiyounanxinggongfengta，tahetadexiaohaihenyoukenenghuiyinersile。weilegenghaodicunhuo，tahuitiaoxuanyigenengzhangqixingzijintourugongfengtadenanxing。

jinguanrujindebiyuncuoshijishuxinghenyouxiule，anquanxingdexingshenghuobingbuhuirangtayunqi，danzheileiyichuanjiyinyijiyinyichuanchulai，tamenyiranhuigenzhiqianyiyangdanxinzishenhuaiyunqijianmeiyouqiangjingdenanshengweichita。