花镇退款成功的有吗？如何谈恋爱的技巧和方法?

huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma?yigexitongruanjiandeshiaiquanguochengbixuxiangxitaguoshangbianwugeliucheng，bingqieshunxubukeyicuo。

第一阶段——互相吸引住期

 zuixiannigenjuzhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhiquxiyinzhulingyifang，rangnanshengduiniyouhaogan，rangnizhuanzhuli，dangtaduinichuanchuxingquaihaozhibiaozhihounizaizhuyaobiaoxianchuduitahenganxingqu，zanyangheshangxitadeyoushi，helixingniweishenmexihuanta，shitaganjueshitahuodenideguanxin，neiyangjinxinghuxiangxiyinzhuhoudajiacaigangkaishixianghuxinren。

 zhanxianshiyongjiazhishiyongjiazhidemudishidedao tadexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，zaimeiyouxingquaihaozhibiaozhiqianbubiduitabiaoshuxingquaihao，youxingquaihaozhibiaozhihougangkaishitiaoxuanzanyangta。

 xingquaihaozhibiaozhijiushizhinanshengqianyishideshifangyixieduiniyouganjuedeshujuxinhao，lirutoukanni，jijigennijianghua，xunwennimangbumangdeng，xingquaihaozhibiaozhinenggoulejieweidajiachangshuodebiaoshuhaogandu。

 jiarunijiedaonanshengdebuganxingquzhibiaozhi，shuomingnimeiyouxiyinzhudaota，pubiandebuganxingquzhibiaozhiyou：zhuanzhulimeizainideshenshang，buzhudongyuenixianliao、weixinhuifuman、meiyouxiangzhangwonidegerenxingwei、congbuyueni。

 ciwai，youdenanshenghenyoukenenghuiduinichuanchujiadexingquaihaozhibiaozhi，yejiushijiazhuangduinibodianhua，zheileinanshengyibanshiyouxiwanjia，huozhechuziyushenglixuqiu，huozhedaizhenduixingxiangyunyongni，liruhunwaiqingren。

第二阶段——约会暧昧期

 genjuyuehuihudongjiaoliuhexianliao，dajiagangkaishizhangwobicidexinxineirong，lirurichangshenghuohexingquaihaodeng，dajiayouyixiexiangtongdian，jianjiandiyongyoulianluogan，bianweilejie。zaizheiliquanguochengzhongtahuiduijiniyidingdezijintouru，lirutameiriyueni，tayueniquwan，taguanzhunideshier，tarangnisongdongxi。

 zaizheiqijian，tahenyoukenenghuiyunitiaodou，ninenghetayuyannuanwei，bubijizhebatadangnanpengyou，tahenyoukenenghuixiangshizhijinkou，danniyinggaigesanchawuhuijueta，shedingyixienanduxishu，jianmanfazhanqushidesulv。

简易合理的恋爱规则(关键)

yuehuihudongjiaoliushiduoxiaorongshaoshuohua(nvxingweichimiantian，rangnanshenghexin)

 jianduanxinghuijue(jibian nihenxihuanta，niyeyaogesanchawudehuijuetadeyaoqing，gesanchawuhuijueshizhijinkou、qinwen，rangnanshengmobutoushibushinixiaita)

 buzhudongyaoqing，jijiwanbiyuehui(jiarunidequexiangjianta，yebubilijiyueta，bubizuosonghuoshangmendelieshi，huazhentuikuanchenggongdeyouma?jianjiexingdeyaoqinggengyoushijixiaoguo，lirunigentaxianliaoshuonizhouliudouhaimeifenpei。)

 bubigentadaihenjiu，zaigaochaodieqideqingkuangxialiqu，rangtaqidaijianniyimian(shitaqipanjianniyimian，liuxieruoyinruoxianjuede，yuehuishijianbuchaoguo1xiaoshi)

yizhoushuzuiduoyuehuiyici(bubipulunidexuqiugan，bubimeiripengmian)

sanciyuehuineibushizhijinkou(jianmansulv，jinanshengquweixing)

weigaobaiqianbuqinwen(xianjifuwuchengnuozaishentiqinmiwujian，bubishitasuibianhuode)

 diyicirushuibuxingshenghuo(bubirangnanshengsuibianhuodeniderenti，bubirangnanshengrenweinishisuiyidenvxing，neiyangnanshengcaihuiaixitahuodede)

xiyinzhuqiyaozhanxianxingganmiren、quweixing

yuehuiqiyaozhanxianrenrang、zanyang

 rangnanshenggangkaishijijidiqinmiwujianshengji，zheiyishengjishiyibubude，qixianshentichupeng，ranhoushizhijinkou，suihouqinwen。zheiyiyuehuishengjiqizhandeshijianzuiduode，shiweilegenghaodisuzaodajiazaiyiqideshushidu。

 yuehuiqineishileijitaduinidetouru，zhengqueyindaolingyifanggangkaishiyidiandiantishengzijintouru，taxinganqingyuantourunixuyaoshanyujiena，jiarutaburongyininengzhengqueyindaota。danfanbuyuanyizijintourudenanshengtaduinidexingquaihaoquanshijiade，shiweishenmehuodeniderenti。jiarutabuyuanyizijintouru，nijiuxuyaolengzangta，ranhouzhanxianshiyongjiazhizhizhitazaiduduinichuanchuxingquaihaozhibiaozhi。

第三阶段——关联明确期

 lijingdierjieduandajiazhongjianyongyouyidingdeshushiduheyouhaodu，zheishihoutahenyoukenenghuiyongyuanyinpeinidaoyigesimideshineikongjiangangkaishiyouhuoni，xianghenifashengxingguanxi。youyutadouhaimeigaobaiquedingguanxi，nvxingyidingyaoguoduanhuijue。jiarunishitachenggongle，neiguanlianhuifazhanqushiweiduanqiguanxi。

 jibian taxiangnigaobaile，yimingqueqinglvguanlian，zaitaxiangtuoniyifukuziqian，nvxingyidingyaozuochudiyugerenxingwei，lirubuxutatuoguangyifu，huotuoguangyifuhoujiaotazhongzhi，jibian nixiaita。

 yibanruguonimeiyouzhenshifahuo，meiyoupinleminglakaita，meiyoujinggaochufenta，neiyangbingbuhuihuihuaidajiazhiyuanxiandeguanlian，liruniduitaxiaozheshuo“nibiezheiyang，wobie”“dajiataikuai”，zuoyixiedaibiaoxingdiyu，niyaoshijianchibuxiejiukeyile。

weiyounimingqueduitaduiniyouganjue，xinganqingyuanzijintouru，xianghenifazhanqushizhangqixingguanlian，nicainenggouhetafashengguanxi。

不正确的谈恋爱方式

buzhengquedefangshiyi：meiyoudiyijieduanhuxiangxiyinzhu

 diyijieduanbianshishuobailede“bodianhua”huo“youganjue”。juedaduoshunvxingfandebuzhengqueyibanshiraoguodiyijieduanlijiyoudierjieduangangkaishi，douhaimeixiyinzhudaotajiugangkaishishizhequkanchuannanren，quduitahao，danyibanhuibeinanrenhuijue，youyunanshenghaimeiyoubeitaxiyinzhu。

 xuduo nvxingzaiganglejienanshengdeqingkuangxiajiugangkaishijijiwenqinanti，shizheququdelianxigan，zheijiushipubianderaoguodiyijieduanlijidaodierhuanjie。dannanshengduiniyaoganjuebuhao，haiduinimeishenmexingqudeqingkuangxia，niyejiugangkaishiguanzhuta，chixuwentayiduixiangjinnigongzuozhongshiganshenmede，niduoda，nilaizinalidengnanti，zheihuirangnanshengganjuewuqu。

buzhengquedefangshier：meiyoudierjieduanyuehuinuanwei

 dierjieduanbianshishuobailede“tiaodou”huo“nuanwei”。raoguodierjieduan，meiyoujianjiandiyuehuixianghuxinren，meiyouyibubudizijintouru，jiarunipobudeyigentamingquelianaiguanxi，jinguannanshengduiniyouhaogan，dandajiazhongjianquefalianluogan，lirudajiacailejiemeiduojiu，douhaimeijianjiandiyuehuihezhangwoniyejiutongyizuotadenvyoule，nvxinghuibeinanrenzuoweisongshanglaidelieshi，huodehoubianburongyiaixi。

buzhengquedefangshisan：meiyoudiyijieduanhedierjieduan，lijiquedingguanxi

 meiyouhuxiangxiyinzhuheyuehuinuanwei，xunsufashengxingguanxi。dangnanrenhaimeiyouzhangwotashiruhedeyigerenjiuxiangtagaobaiyibanshiweilegenghaodixing，nanshengyibanburongyihuijuenijinzaogentafashengxingguanxi，danguanlianhuimaixianghunwaiqing，nanshenghuiganjuetagennizaiyiqibianshikaolvxingxuyao，budakenenggennichuduixiang。bianchengxingbanlvguanxihoudabufenbutaikenengzhuanzhengdingji，youyunanshengzongshigennengquebaotaduzilidexiaohaishitadezisunhoudaidenvxingwanhun，taburongyijixiwangyuyigepaoyounengquebaozheiyidian。bingqiedangnanrenxunzhaogengmeilidenvrenhouhenkenengraokaita，haipazaihetachupeng。

吸引住另一方

 nanshengrenzhiyigenvrendefanzhishiyongjiazhi，dajiachengzheizhongwei“xiyinzhudianyuankaiguan”，nanshengjibenshangshizhonghuitiaoxuangaofanzhishiyongjiazhinvxing。

 chuangjianxiyinzhudefangshi——zhanxiannidepinpaixingxiang，shenghuoxiguan，shejiaomeitixuanhaopai(duoyixingpengyouzhuiqiuwanmei)，xingganmiren，renrang，taorenxihuan，xianshu。

 xingquaihaozhibiaozhi——qudechenggongxiyinnanrenhou，nanshenghuirangnixingquaihaozhibiaozhi，huodexingquaihaozhibiaozhiguanjianshizhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhidanmeiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchuxuqiugan。zhuyaobiaoxiandehenyouhao，queduitadecaifumeixingqu，zheihuixiyinta。

表述兴趣爱好

 nanrenxuyaohelixingnizenmehuixiaita，shitaganjuezishenbingbushiyouyuyixieqianbodeyuanguerhuodelenideliuyi，juedenishishangxitade。

 biaoshuxingquaihaodefangshi——nifajuetadeyoushibingzanyangta，cujintaweilegenghaodihuodenidexingquaihaoerqinfen。juedaduoshunanrenxihuanhuodenvxingdeliuyi，bingqiebujinshiyouyutamenshifurenerhenganxingqu，yinci niyinggaigenjutadecaifuzhiwaidebiedeyuanguerjiangzishendexingquaihaozhibiaozhijiyuta。

相互信任

xianghuxinrenshichuangjianchongzudelianluogan。

 xianghuxinrendefangshi——yibanyuehuixianliaochuangjianshushiduhelianluogan，xianghuzhijianzhangwolingyifangdegerenaihao、gerenchengzhangjingli，dangdajiazaiyiqijiaowangyoulianluoganbingjuedeshufushi，tahuishanyujinizijintouruhetouru。

 shushidushiganqingfazhanqushishitimoxingzhongshijianzuiduodehuanjie。dangdajiaxianghudouxianghuzhijianhenganxingqushi，jiugangkaishixianghuxinrenqudelianxiganle。

关联升級

tishengyibanpengyoudeguanlian，gangkaishitiaodou，tachixubunizijintouru。

guanlianshengjidefangshi——zaiyuehuihudongjiaoliuzhongweichinuanwei，shitajinizijintouru，jienatajinitouru。