花镇投诉电话多少?高情商复联沟通术一开口就赢了

huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?weihehuishuohuaderenshenpangyizhihuixuduo penyou，keyihuodehenduorendexiai?

youyudajiachukaiyongshijuexiaoguoqujiandaoyiwai，yeyaoyunyongtingjuexitongqufenbianlingyifangshiruheyigeren。

huijianghua，huigoutongjiaoliuderen，douhuishiwomenjuedejiaowangyiqihenzideshufu，erbumingbaigoutongjiaoliuderen，douhuishiwomenganjuejiaowangzaiyiqifeichangganga，naizhihenyanjuan。

goutongjiaoliu，70%shixintai，30%shineirong。

weihedabufenrendouyaoxiangzhaoyigeyouxiuderenzaiyiqi?

youyuheyigebushanyancideren、yigeburongyigoutongjiaoliuderenzaiyiqi，huijuedejiaowangfeichanglei，yu“tanlianaishitianmeide”qiyeyuanjingbeichierxing。

youxierenshuo“tanlianailibiancunyouzhesuan、tian、ku、la”，erfenshouhouwanhuibianshizaiqizhongdeku。yaoshimeiyouqiadangdekaizhan，neimazongshikushangjiaku。

不意味着复合型

xuduo qinglvzhijiandetichufenshou，shizaimengliedezhengzhihuoshiwanshuadangzhongkaizhande，ruomeiyoucaiyongqiadangdefangfaquwanliu，bianhuibeilaheishanchu，chuzaifenshouqingkuang。

dangpengdaobeilaheishanchudeqingkuangxia，nenggouxianlengbaoliyiduanshijian，zaiyongshihedeyuanyinjiahuiqu，zheierguanjianshuodeshifuchouzhelianmeng4houdegoutongjiaoliunanti，yebuyiyixiangshuozenyangjiashangle。

xuduowanliuderen，zaizaicihuodelianxidianhuayihou，jiujuedelingyifangneixinmianzaoyiruanchulaile，youhuoshijuedelingyifangyexiangchupengzishenle，suihouyoupobujidaideqidaifanhuiyuanxianjiaowangqingkuang。

jiaruniqueshineiyangquganle，jianxinwuxuduozhangshijian，dajiayouhuizaicifanhuifenshoudeqingkuang，zaixiangxiayicijiashanglingyifangdelianxidianhua，bianhuijiannanxuduo 。

fuchouzhelianmeng4jinjinwanliuquanguochengzhongdezaiqizhongyigehuanjie，yigexindejindu，shijishangjiudengtongyuyuehuideqingkuangxia，diyicijianmianyihouxianghuliuyoulianxidianhuayiyang。

zhiyoushuodajiazhongjianduoleyigelianluodegongluqiaoliang，bingbuyiweizhedajiazaoyibianchengqinglvle，zheigeshihounixuyaozuodeshiyunyongzheiyigongluqiaolianglaiyibubuxiyinzhulingyifang。

三大不正确沟通交流法

1.shushuozishentongchu，xiangzaochenglingyifanglianmin

xiangxintahuanshishuoaiwode。

woxiangshitalejietichufenshoudezheiduanshijian，woguodeyouduomedecan。

tayidinghenbuxiaxinwoguodeneimacan。

tazhiqianzuikanbushangwoluolei。

tayidinghuixintongwo，suihouhuidaowoshenpang

rujinyeyouzheileiniantoudeaifen，yaoqumianbisiguole。

nanrenyaozhaodeshixifu，bingbingbushichaolingertong。guoduoyunyongnanshengdezerenxin，zongshishitaganjuenihenjiaoqing。

nigentashushuofenshouzhihoujiniduomedecan，richangshenghuoguodebushunxin，nandaoshuoshiyaoxiangcongcebiangentachuansongnikenengshiyigehuilianleitaderenma?

youyuyidantabuzainipangbian，niyejiubukeyihaohaodizhaoguhaoziji，gengbieshuozhihoutayoujiannandeqingkuangxianinengzhaoliaotale。

2.shuozishenyouduoxiangta，aibuaita

ciciwoyidingyaogentashuomingwodeqingyi，rangtaganshoudaowodesinian。

talejiewoaibuaita，tabianhuiyibuxiaoxinsuodadong。

talejiewoaibuaita，tajiubuhuilikaiwole。

womingbairujinyiranyouxuduorenrengranjuededanchunxingdeyikaodadonghebiaodaaiyi，jiukeyirangyigejueqingderenzaiciduizishenzaochengqingyi。

youneiyangyigegaoxiaoduanzi：

nandiaosidaguoduofenzuojianzhi，meirichi10jiyuan，suihouliangyueshengchulaideqianjinvwangsongleyigelvdepinpaibao，nvwanghendadong，yinci daizhupinpaibaohekailanbojinidefuerdaiyongcanlaidao……

tongchangdajiahuizuoyixiezijuedehendadongdeshier，changchanghuijuedeneiyanghuilinglingyifangtongkuliutiluolei，danshishishangtongchangdadongdeshinizijibale。

dadongbuyiweizheai，gengbukeyizaicibianchengai。lingyifangjiandaodejiushininongnongdexuqiugan，yejiushitalejienihenbixuta。

dangyigerenlejienixuyaota，neihuibuhuijia，heshihuijia，jiushitaqingxuerdingle。

3.meiyouhuati，haiyizhiganliao

xiangyaozhidaotaxianzaizaiganshenme。

yinweiwolejiejishilejieyebukeyiruhe，

danbianshixianghetaliaoliaotian。

neiyangwokeyijuededaoanxin，

yekeyilejietayoumuyouxiangchuxindeyixingpengyou。

zaitanlianaideqingkuangxia，yexunifayige“zaiganshenme”，tabianhuipidianpidianderangnibaogaoyidaduixingchenganpai，danfenshouzhihou，zhenduitaeryan，richangshenghuozaoyiyunimeileguanlian。

zheigeshihou，dajiadeguanlianshifeichanggangade，youlejiejianjiandixiangmoshengbianhua，yaoshimeiyoushihedehuatitaolun，huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?niyizhilazhelingyifangganliao，bianhuiranglingyifangzaochenggongzuoyali，huichuxianxiangtaochudexiangfa，gengweiyanjuanni。

二种情商高的聊天话题

1.xianghuxingquaihao，zaochenghuatitaolun

weishenmenvrenyunvxingzhongjianyizhifeichangrongyijiuliaoqilaini?

ruguoyigenvrendabufenyongyou xianghudexingquaihaodian：yifukuzi、pinpaibao、hufupin，zheizhongwupinnengchushijitamentanlunhuati。

 weihenishuodehua，tameiyougoutongjiaoliuxialaidexingquaihao?huoshinizaoyidianjizhezheixieyouqukeyishuoxiadele，keshihuanshihengaliao?youyunimeiyouxunzhaotahenganxingqudehuatitaolun。

xiangduixingyunvxingeryan，nanshengdexingquaihaodianyouguoduobuyiyangle，yixieyouxizhong，shoujiyouxizaishitimoxing，shoujiyouxizaigerenshouzang，shoujiyouxizaiwanbiao、jiaochedengshangbian。

nenggouyijuniduitadezhangwo，huoshishitarujinweixinpengyouquanfadewupinqulejietaxingquaihaozaineili，suihouzainabianjiequtianbuzhuanyezhishi。

xiangxinziji，zheihuishitayouyizhongyunihenxinyoulingxidejuedede。

2.zhukelingjili，zuikaixinqingkuangxiazou

wanliudeqingkuangxiaxuduorendaohuodelingyifang“zaimang”“ng”“shide”denglengmodehanyouzhukelingyuyidehuiyingshi，huanshizaicidezhuigenwendi，mangshenmeya?nizenmeneimalengmoa?shibushinibuyuanyuwojianghua?

danghuodezheizhongshujuxinhaodeqingkuangxia，qiadangdezuofabianshimashangtingzhijiaotan，xiayicizhaoyigeshihedejiyuzailiao，neiyangbingbuhuishitajuedeyunigoutongjiaoliuhenjiannan。

erdangdajiazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliushihenchangshundeqingkuangxia，huoshinijuedegoutongjiaoliudehenkaixindeqingkuangxia，haikeyicaiyongtingzhicicijiaotan。

yifangmian，shiyouyubuguanduohaoliaodehuatitaolun，zongkeliaojindeqingkuangxia，neiyangzuonenggoufangzhihuatitaolunliaodemeikeliaoqingkuangxiadegaliaonankan;lingyifangmianyekeyishitazaochenghuiweiwuqiongdejuede，huixiwangxiayiciyunizaicichangtanrensheng。

zongeryanzhi，wanliubianshijifaqilingyifangdexintai，shitaduinizaicizaochengqingyidejuede，yinci dajiazuodeyiqieshier，doubukeyibeichizheiyibiaozhun。

fuchouzhelianmeng4houdegoutongjiaoliuyeyiyang，bukeyiweilegenghaodijianghuaerqujianghua，yaolejiezishenjiexiaqushuodehua，keyijuyoushenmezuoyong，lingyifangtinglehuiruhexiang，ruheshuocaikeyijifatadexintai。