花镇投诉电话多少?男人为什么心甘情愿地满足她？

huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?xuehaobiaoshuyaoqiu，cainenggourangtarengengqiangdeaiwomen，neixuehaobiaoshuyaobaozhengde3jianshi：

1.nizhenshideyaoqiushisha?2.zenyangrangzishenyoudanliangshuochurukou?3.ruhefeichanghaodequbiaoshu?(dianyixiashenlansezitiyangshizidongtiaozhuanwenzhangneirong)

pobudeyirenke，feichangshaonvhaisuoyoubaozhengzhishang6dian，ernengzhenshibaozhengde，henyoukenengbianshiyouderenyanlideshuobailede“xinjibiao”le。tamenguodehuanleziyang，shehuifazhanshangdenanshihaoxiangyedoujiaoweixihaotamen。

 “xinjibiao”shifouqueshibiaodajiaguqiebutan，dannenggouhaowuyiwendeshitamengaoqingshang。gaoqingshangdenvxinglejiezishenzhenshiyaoxiangdeshisha，yeyouqishanyubiaoshuyaoqiu，tamenbiaoshuyaoqiudefangfa，dagainenggouguinaweijiexiaquyaojiangde3gebiaodashoufa。

zhei3gefangfashiwohaizaizixunquanguochengzhongjingchangheqiuzhuzhetidaode，ziran，bingbingbushiyaorangtamenbianchengshenmeren，zhishiqidaitamenyouzhezheileigongzuonengli，nenggouzaihunyinguanxizhongshidangdibiaoshuzishenyaoqiu，ranglingyifanglaigengqiangshandaizijidegongzuonengli。

jinrijiucongwochupengdeshilihepubiandeyixieqingjing，laihedahuoergongxiangzenyangnenggougenghaodibiaoshuzishendeyaoqiu，huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?ranglingyifanglejiezenyangcaikeyigengqiangdeaizheni，manzuni。

用探寻替代操纵

ruguonishibeibierenshuochengyigeqianghandekongzhiyuqiangderen，ninengshiyixiayongtanxuntidaicaozong。

xiaominyuwomaiyuanshuozhangfushuotahenqianghan，laoshixiangcaozongta。

woyewentashizenmehezhangfugoutongjiaoliude，tashuo：

“liruchiguofanwoyehetashuodaoshitapeizhewoqusanbu，tabianshuobuyuanqu，woyeshuoniyejiupeizhewoquma，tarenfufuquanshihuiqusanbude，wolaogongbianshuowolaobita，worenweiyemeiyouya。”

那时候我也问小敏：

“jiniwenguonizhangfushifouchiguofanhenyoukenengyounaxieshierbu?”

小敏和我讲：

“zheiyiyemeiyouxiangneimeduoe。”

yinci woyejiaoxiaominshiyixiayongtanxunlaitidaicaozonglaibiaoshuyaoqiu。

zhihouxiaominjiuhenkaixindeyuwogongxiangyigeneiyanggoutongjiaoliudeshili。

youyicitashineiyanghetazhangfushuode：

“zhangfu，nidengxiachiguofanhuiyouyigezhongtoudekongxianshijianma?”

丈夫说：

“meishierwojintianmeishenmeshier。”

随后小敏便说：

“neiwonengbunengzhanyouniyigexiaoshideshijian，nibangwozaiwangluoshangtiaodiandongjichuandeyifukuzi，youyuwoquanshichuanjinimende。niruguoganjuebubiandehuajishile，zijixuan。”

小敏丈夫便说：

“dangrankeyizongzhiyemeishier。”

neicicigoutongjiaoliuzenmehuiqudechenggongni?

youyuxiaominzaitanxunzhangfushifouyoushijian，biaoshuyebushiyigemingling，rangzhangfujuedeshiyoutiaoxuande。shuotiaoyifukuzishijilingyifangkandejidebianshiyigeewaishiyongjiazhi。

erzheizaiqizhongyouciwaiyigefangfa，shuangmowei。

shuangmoweidefangfabianshilingyifangtongyihaikeyi，butongyihaikeyi。

ruguonibiaoshuyaoqiudeqingkuangxia，keyiyongshuangmowei，rangnanrenshiyoutiaoxuande。

ertanxuntidaicaozong，zaijiashangewaishiyongjiazhijiqishuangmowei，zheiyixiangxidequanguocheng，shitaganshoudaodeshizhongshi，tashiyoujuedingquande，erqienishilejietade，cike，shijishangtazaoyimeiyoubanfahuijuenini。

youyujiarunicaozongta，bianshi“zhangfu，niyeliliuyigexiaoshibangwo，bangwobadongjideyifukuzixuanyixia。”zheigeshiyaoqiu，yebianshinidecaozong。

用反省替代恼怒

 ruguonifeichangrongyibeibierenshuochengyigepiqibuhao，feichangrongyinaonuqingxubuwendingderen，womenkeyishiyixiayongfanshengtidainaonu。

lingyifangzaoyifancuowule，niqidailingyifanggenggai。yibanzhuangkuangxia，meiyigerendouneiyang，jijishilejieshizishenbudui，yetaoyanbeibierenshuo，yinci ，zheigeshihouninengyongfanshengtidainaonu。

youyicixiaomindezhangfugaozhixiaomin，zishentongshiquyongcan，xiaominwenqi，meiyounvhaidaochang?tashuodao，meiyou。

erxiaominjiandaozhangfupengyoudeweixinpengyouquanfajuele，shiyounvhaizaide，xiaominganjuezishenbeipianhennanshou，taqidaizhangfunenggoujiuzheng。

cikexiaominyouxunzhaowojiangyaozenmegoutongjiaoliubijiaohao，woyetiyita，nibiaoshuyaoqiu，bunengshuo“worenweinizuobudui，nixuyaogai。”zheileifangfabianshibuzhengquede。

zuixian，nixuyaofanshengtamengpiannishenhoudeyuangu，nishibushipingchangbataderenjijiaowangcaokongdehenyanle，zaocheng talaimengpianni。ruguoyouzheileizhuangkuangdehua，nijiuxuyaoyongfanshenglaibiaoshuzishen。

你能说：

“zhangfu，worenweishiwobuhao。”

tahaowuyiwenjiuhuangle，huixunwenni：

“哪儿不太好?”

你也就可以说：

“shifouwobaniguandehenyanle，yinci nipengyoujuhuihuodongyounvhaidouhaipagenwoshuo?”

nibunengyong“nipianwo”zheigeci，jiaruniyikaijujiuzigaozida，tahaowuyiwenbianhuibianboni。yinci ，nishuoqi“haipagenwoshuo。”

nixuyaoyongyigehaodexintaizuokaichangci。

然后你能再次说：

“worenweikenengshiwenti，wotaizaihule。danjiarunijuhuihuodongyounvhaizaidehua，nigaosuwoshijishangyemeishier。wobuxiangfahuode，ziranwozhiqianhenyoukenengshengbeitaotai，danwojiuzhengyebixuyixieshijian，xingma?”

 ruguoniyongfanshengtidaidenaonu，nibiaoshulezishendeyaoqiu，niyidingyaorongxuzishenhelingyifangdoulinshihenyoukenengzuobudao，jidajiaxianghuyixieshijian，yiqiquyingduineiyangdeshier。

用改善替代更改

ruguonifeichangrongyibeibierenshuoshiyigekeke，guidinghengaoderen，neibiaoshuyaoqiudeqingkuangxiashiyixia，yonggaishantidaigenggai。

ruguonijuedezheiyijianshier，lingyifangzuodehenhaola，danniqidailingyifangzaiyixiediqunenggougaishan。

xiangduieryan，jiaruniqiangdiaoyigebuzhengque，haibibushangyonggengweide“geng”laibiaoshunideyaoqiu。

liru，jinrininanpengyouyuniyuehuile，niyaochiyidunfeichanghaodefaguodacan，danchidaoleshijifenzhong，bingqietayiqianzaoyiwandaoguojihuile，haoxiangjianjiandideyouwandaodexiguan，niqidaitagaishanzheiyidian。

你能那么说：

“qinaidede，nimeiyicitiaodefandiandouyouqibang，danworenwei，jiaruqinaidedexiayicikeyizhunshidaojiugengbang。”

jiaruniqueshihaibixulingyifanggaishanyigediqu，ninengzaihaowuyiwentadejibenshang，yonggengweide“geng”laibiaoshunideyaoqiu。

tabianhuilejie，niduitazuodeshiershilingrenmanyide，jinjinqidaitayuelaiyuegengqiang。huiyouyige“gengqiang”deyibufen，zheiyeshitarongyirenke。

youliruyounanhaiziduinihenyinqin，cailejiemeiduojiubianhuihenijuede：

“woxiayueyaorangnimaiyigeche。”

ruguonijuedeshibukeyijienade，keshilijihuijueyoupayanlidajilingyifangdejiqing，niyejiunenggoubiaoshushuo：

“worenweininengxiangjiwomaichehuoxubiaomingnihenxihuanwo，keshiworenweidajiahenyoukenengyeyaoduochupengba，ruguowomenmingquezaiyiqile，neikuaijiwosongshenmehenyoukenengwogengrongyirenkeba。”

zheiyibiaoshujihaowuyiwenlelingyifangganqingdeyibufen，yegaozhilingyifangzishenyaoxiangdeshiduochupeng，doumeiyouyanlidajilingyifangdexinxingaozhilelingyifangjianliguanlianhuanshinenggousongde，jinanhaieryigeqiadangdezhengqueyindao。