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 huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?meiyigenanshengdouyaoxiangshengjiguanlian，ershengjibixunvhaierduinibujinyouhaoganduyouyouguishugan。danzaizhuiqiuwanmeidequanguochengzhong，haoganduheguishugantongchangbukeyitongbuchuxian。liru，ganglejiedeqingkuangxia，nirangtayanqianyiliang，haoganduhenyoukenenghuranjiuyongyou，danzheishihouguishuganhaibugou，jiaruniqinglvshizhijinkoubianhuibeizuoweihuaidan。dengzheniyizhizhuzishendebulizhi，hetaxixinxiangchuleyiduanshijian，zongsuanguishuganyongyou，keduinidehaoganduyoumeiyoule，zaiqushizhijinkoutadehuiyingqueshi“woyizhijiangnidangpenyou……”。

haoganduheguishuganzheibanguanjianyoucongcizhihouburongyiliangquanbaoxian，yinci dajiajiuxiantaolunyixiatamenshisha。

好感度

yaoxiangnvxingduinanshengzaochenghaogandubixusangeyaosu：

 1，nanshengzishendebiaozhun，baohanjiazhiheweishengwushiyongjiazhi，tashiduihaoganduweihaijiaoda deyaosu，pingchangchangshuode“tishengziwo”zhidebianshizheitiao。

 2，bicixiangchudejiyu(yejiushishuonvhaiershibushiyouduihuakuang)。youdejiyunenggoujijishengchanzhizao，lirudahuabianshijijizaojiulejiedejiyu;eryoudejiyuzhiyouchuyubeidongdenghou，liruzheiyinvxingyijinglianai，lingwaitayeshigehenchuantongderen，neimatajiuburongyizaigenbiedenanshengyuehui。jiaruniyaozhuizheiyinvhaijiuzhiyoudenghoutaxiufudanshen，chufeishiniguyihuihuaibierendeguanlian，danzheijiuchaoyueleshehuidaodejiexian，bushuyuzhengerbajingyuehuixuetantaodefanweile。

 3，nanrengennvrendehudongjiaoliufangfa。pingchangchangshuodetanlianaiyuehuifangfashijishangbianshijiaonigaibianxianzhuanggenzhuiqiuwanmeimubiaodehudongjiaoliufangfa。liruxuexiliaotianfangshi，caozonglianluopinlv，jiqiyingyongyixietuilajiqiao。

-归属感-

归属感有两大类：

1，zhangqixingguishugan，kaoxiangchudeshijianleijierchengdeguishugan。liruhenduonianpengyouzhongjiandeneileixinrengan。

 2，jishiguishugan，zuomoushishidailaitarendeguishugan。lirudahuakaodebianshiyizhongduanqineixinrengan，zheileixinrenganjiugourangnvhaiertingzhubufagennishuoliangsanjujiqirangniliugelianxidianhua，bukeyikaolvdaliangdeguiding。

 henduorenchangchangbajishiguishuganyuhaogandugaohun，shijishangxixinxiangyixiangjiukeyiqubie：liru，youdenanshengjinguanpinpaixingxiangfeichanghao，nvxingjianledoushihuiyouhaogan，danyinweijudongmangzhuangshengse，taqudahuabuyidingnengyaodaolianxidianhua;eryoudenanshengjinguanqimaobuyang，danyouyunengyanshanbianyouyouganranli，dahuadetongguolvhuiyouqigao。

 zhenduidabufenrenlaijiang，herenxiangchukaoquanshizhangqixingguishugan。chuangjianjishiguishuganshiyizhongjiaoweiyouqidegongzuonengli，shejiaomeitidashenyibanquanshijuyouhouyizhonggongzuonenglideren。

危害

dajiayongyigeyuehuiquanguochenglaibiaomingsanzhonghaoganduyaosuheliangdaleiguishuganzaizheiqizhongchongfenfahuideweihai。

 ganglejiedeqingkuangxia，nanxingyinweiyingjianpeizhibiaozhunfeichanghao(yaosu1)，qienvxingzhenghaoyeshiyouxiangchuyaoqiu(yaosu2)，yincinvxingduinanxingzaochenglehaogandu，cikeyouyuzhangqixingguishuganbuzu，shenzhongdenanxingjiuhaipashengji，erdadandenanxingjinguanyaoganshengji，danjiarutaburongyichuangjianjishiguishugan，shengjitongchangyehuibuchenggong。

 shenzhongdenanxingyizhizhushengjibulizhi，zaicigennvhaierxiangchu，kaoshijianleijichulezhangqixingguishugan，ketaqueyaozaoyuerzhongfengxianxing，yejiushihaogandusanyaosudehou2ge：yi，chuxianlexindejingzhengduishou，nvhaierduitadeduihuakuangheshangle(yaosu2)。er，bansuizhexiangchudeshencengci，nvhaierfajuegentabushihe(yaosu3)。

 zheierzhongfengxianxingdoushihuizaocheng haoganduxiaotui，yincizhidaozhangqixingguishuganzongsuanchuangjian，nixintouxiwangqushengjiguanlianshi，quefajuejiyuzaoyisuifengerqu。

 yinci pingchangrenchuduixiang，mouzhongyiyishikaogoushiyun(zhangqixingguishuganyongyoulingwaihaoganduhaimeiyouxiaotui)，jinyouzheixiehuichuangjianjishiguishugandenanxing，caikeyizaihaoganduchuxiandelingwaibawojihuiqudechenggongjinsheng。zheileirenbianshidahuoerpingchangchangshuodeqingchanggaoshou，tabuyidingshiwanrenmi，dantaburongyicuoguolemeiyigeduitajinglihaogandudenvhai。

Why

rujinshiwomenlaiquanfangweibiaoshuzheigewenti——weihenizhuilehenduoniandenvhai，bushangyizhoujiugentarenzaiyiqile?

zheishiyouyunihenyoukenengyouyixiasanzhongnanti：

diyi，burongyijianbienvhaierdehaogandushujuxinhao，xianzaijihuilailedoushiruowudu。

 dier，kandechunvhaierduiniyouhaoganle，danyinweizhangqixingguishuganbuzu，nimeiyouzhangwohaipashengji，yaozaidengyideng，jieguobajiyudengmeiyoule。

 disan，lejiexianzaijihuilaile，niyetingyingyong，xiashoushengjile，danfangshibuduibufahenda，chedibumingbaichuangjianjishiguishugan，nvshengbeinihetuile。

 zaitantaogegengshencengcidenanti：weiheniyizhizaizheiyibugushiqingjielishizhuileliangniandoumeichengdedaomeigui，xiabiangushiqingjielequeshiyizhoujiunengshangleidehaoyuner?

nijuedehainianqing，hainenggoumanmandelai，youyitianhuranfajue，yiqiedoutaiwanle。

心理状态

由于心理状态!

 nanshengpengdaozhenming，dabufendoushihuitixindiaodanshenzhongshengji，dantamenjingchangbingbushiyijulingyifangdehaogandushujuxinhaolaifenbianheshishengji，zhishiyijuzishendebixu(liruzongsuanbiebuzhu)huoshikeguanxingxinxineirong(liruzhongtedachuantongjieri、nvhaieryaochuguoliuxuelezheixie)qujueceshengjijihui。erdangnanrengenbingbushiyouqigaoduzhongshidenvhaierxiangchudeqingkuangxia，tamendefanyingcaigengtiejinrendebenneng，fajuehaogandujiumashangshengji，duijieguoyebuhuihusiluanxiang，neiyangtongchanghaihuijixuyouyidingdetongguolv。

 yinci yaoxiangbucuoshiliangji，weiyideshengjibiaoshizhiyouyige——lingyifangdehaogandushujuxinhao，shujuxinhaochuxianjiuxuyaolikeshengji，jibian zhangqixingguishuganbuzuyeyingdangshengji!

youyumashangshengjizongshiyouerzhonghenyoukeneng：

diyi，jiarunishanyuchuangjianjishiguishugan，neimatongguolvkenengshifengao。

 dier，jiarunikendingbuhuichuangjianjishiguishugan，tongguolvjinguanhuijiaoweidi，keshi，keshi，keshi(shuosanbian)zaichayebihuashijianchuangjianzhangqixingguishuganerzaocheng haoganduxiaotuidefengxianxingdi!

 dajiadoutingwenguoganqingzhongxinshouyekeyixunsutanlianaideshierba，shijishangbianshitamenzaihaoganduchuxiandeqingkuangxiajiulijishengjile，huoshi，shiyouyunvxingdezhudongjingong。

 zongeryanzhi，yigenanrenyaoshibiaozhunbingbushiyouqihencha，zaitaderichangshenghuochangchangpengdaojihuinvhaierduitaxincunhaogandudejiyu，yaoshitazhidaoruheshibieyixingpengyoudezheizhongshujuxinhao，bawoxunsuchuangjianguishugandefangshi，bawozhujihuidandashengji，neimatadetanlianaitongguolvjiunengjinyibutigao。

附则：

chuangjianjishiguishugandefangshi——youqianrushendezhengqiu。

 zheiyifangfazuikaishicunyouyumoguidashanxuedejishiyuehuidangzhong，lejiedashanxuedexiaohuobanmendoulejie，zhaoshengshunvhaierjiageweixinshijishangsuanbushanggenanti，danyaoxianglikequyinyongkafeiyebutaifeichangrongyile，erruguoshidangriyiqichifanzhenshibianshinanyizhixindeshier。

 neimajishi(yongcan)yuehuishizenyangwanchengdeni?zai《moguidashanxue》neibenshulideyigeshilizhong，wohaizaiditiezhananquantongdaoliduidahuadenvhaiershineiyangshuode：“zongzhiyinweiwomeishenmeshi，yaobujiupeinizouditiezhantongdaoba?”

 zhidaoleditiezhantongdao，yinweiyilushangxiangtanhaixing，woyeyoushuo：“zongzhiyinweiwomeishenmeshi，yaobujiupeinizouditiezhanchurukouba?”

 jiushizheiyangwogennvhaieryiqijinleditiechexiang，yilushangrengranshixiangtanhaixing，zhidaolaidaoditiezhanchurukou，woyoushuo：“zongzhiyinweiwomeishenmeshi，yaobujiusongnidaolumianshangba?”

 huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?jiexiaqu，zhidaowomenyiqishanglumianwoyoushuo：“jiaruniyemeishenmeshi，yaobujiuyiqiheyibeikafeiting?”

 yinciwomenyiqilaidaokafeiguan，zhidaohelexianmokafeitiansezhujianjianwan，zheishihoudajiazaoyishiwuhuabutan，zuizhongjiushunlichengzhangdizaikafeiguanchiwanoushiwanfan。

 huiwangzheiyidahuaquanguocheng，jiaruwohaizaiditiezhananquantongdaobujiudahuashijiuduinvhaiershuo“womenyiqichiwancanba”，nvhaieryidingburongyidayingwodeguiding。erdangwomenbayigedaguidingfenweilehaoduogexiaoguiding，nvhaierzaimeiyibudoukejinketui，zheishihoubawojienadejiyujiujinyibutigaole。