mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu,nijuedeliangrenzhongjiandezhenzhengdeaiqingzaiyishunjianxiaotuidema?shijishangbingbushide,tashizaiyifanyishu、yiyanyixingzhongmanmanxiaotuide。ninengxihuanyigerenhaojiuhaojiu,dannimeiyidingnenggouhetabaitouxielaoyibeizi,qingganzheidongxizuijingbuqixiazheteng,jianguoyouxierenzaijiangjinjishinianderichangshenghuolijiangqingganyunyingdejiaqingjiushu,yejianguoyouxierendanshisanshierlijiuguobianchengshichou。
語言,是损害内心最利的小刀。
yixiehua,yaoshishuochurukou,bianhuizailingyifangneixinliuyouwaishang,neishiguohoushiduoshaohuayanqiaoyuhechengzhizhiqiandouwufawanhuidesunhai。
zailiangrendeguanlianli,xuehaoshuohuazhidao,queshihenzhongyao。
“嗯”“哦”
liangrenxianliao,zuidanxindebianshihuranjianrangrennankandejianmo。
mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu,zaitapipipapajiangguoyidaduideqingkuangxia,yige“ng”,yige“e”,jiukeyiyishunjianbingfengyigerenquanbudejiqing。
xuduo nanhaizidouxiaixiayishidihuiying“ng”“e”,kenengshiqueshimeiyouhuashuo,ganjueyoudianeryanfanle,yehenyoukenengzhendeshibuqingchugaishuoxienaxie,danzainvhaiyanzhong,zheikendingshiwanbijiaotandedaibiaoxingbiaoji。
chuduixiang,bianshiliangrendoushiyouliaobuwandehua,jiarunilianhuabuxiangshuole,neizheiyiduanqingganjiujingyoumeiyoushenmezouxialaidebixu?
“buzaihu”“suibianba”
zheijijuhuadegongdikendingbuxunyuyikezhongbangxiaoxidingshizhadan,zainvhaiyanzhong,takendingbuxiangdangyusuibian,eryouyizhong“wowusuowei”dehanyi。
-晚饭吃什么呀?
-随便吧。
-看哪一部影片呢?
-不在乎,都可以。
-我穿裙吧?
-随意。
suibianganshouyixia,zheijijuhuakendinghuirangrenqizhidaoxiangfanyan,shundaiqiqiaoshengyan。
huoxunishiqueshimeiyoushenmejianyi,shigehenlvzhensuihederen,danyiju“suiyi”,zongshirangtaganjueniquandoubuzaihu,meiyourenwei,meiyoukanfa,gengmeiyouzishendexintai。
zhangciyiwang,jiuxiuguaitazuoshenmedouburongyixunwennidejianyile。
“别烦我”
youyigenvhaiduiwoshuo,zishenjihuhaipajijilianluonanyou,youyupatazaimang,pazishenhuiyingxiangdaota。
youshiqueshirenbuzhule,faxinxiyiwangdeqingkuangxia,tazongshihuihuineiyangyijuhua,“zaimang,biefanwo。”
jihuiyihou,tajiulianxiangfaxinxijitamendechongdongdoumeile,suihou,tajingrannenggouyilianhaojitianmeiyouyiqiexinxi。
woyebuzhidaotashiqueshidanxinnvyouzhanren,huanshiyounaxieqitayuangu。
yixienanhaizi,queshihenyitahutu,jiguidingnvpengyoudanducongming,youyaotahuoerbuzhanren,buyuanhaohaodichuduixiangzhaoshenmenvyoua,nizhendangtashihuidonghuitiaodeqingqulaoshima?
yaowojiang,zheiyangderen,nalizhuangyounaxienvyou。
“你又怎么啦”
liangrenzaijiaowangdequanguochengzhong,yizhizaisuonanmianyougeshigeyangdexiaowentihexiaofenqi。
ernanhaiziyushengjulaidadalielie、chihuandexinlizhuangtai,douhuiduiyushengjulaibijiaomingandenvhaidexiaopiqihuandehuanshi,dengzhuyidaonvhaifangfoyouxintaideqingkuangxia,bianhuibuyouzizhudiwendao,“niyouzenmela?”
henyoukenengnvhaizaoyibieleyiduzihuole,jinjinaiyumianzimeiyoumashangfabingbale,zheijuhuazhenshixiangdangyudaohuoxian,yishunjianjiunengjuyou“huoshangjiayou”degongxiao。
mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu,shenmeshi“you”,tongguoyudiaochuansongdeyanfan,kendinghuirangnvhaiyishunjianbaofa。
shaoshuoyige“you”zi,queshinenggoufangzhiliangrenzhongjian90%dezhengzhi。
“suanleba,jiangguoniyebumingbai”
meiyiciliaodenvhaibutaizhangwodehuatitaolundeqingkuangxia,nanhaizimenyizhimeiyounaixinbiaoshu,xiayishidibianhuijiangchu,“suanleba,jiangguoniyebumingbai。”
-gongzuoshangpengdaoshenmewentilemeiyou?
-suanleba,jiangguoniyebumingbai。
-shoujiyouxiqueshiyouneimayoushenmehaowan?
-suanleba,jiangguoniyebumingbai。
-weiheyidingyaoheneimeduojiu?
-suanleba,jiangguoniyebumingbai。
zheijuhuajiuhaoxiangshiyiduwuxingzhongdeqiang,shengshengdihuanggezaileliangrendezhengzhongjian,tayaoxiangkaojinni、chupengni、zhangwoni,shubuzhi,niqueyongyijuhua,culudijiangtalakaile。
yixieqingkuangxia,henyoukenengnvhaiqueshibumingbai,yebangbulenaxiemang,keshinizheileixintai,mieshidebuzhishitadegongzuonengli,yeyoutajinideai。
“nixuyaoneiyangxiang,yinweiwomeifa”
tingshuo,zheijuhuashilianrenshenxianzhengzhishichuxianpinlvzuidadeyijuhua,nanhaizihaoxiangfeichangrongyiyanfan,pengdaobuyuanbiaoshudeshiershi,yizhixiayishiyongzheijuhualaitangsailingyifang。
kenvhaizaitingjianzheijuhuayihou,youhuiyuelaiyuegengweibiequ。
shijishangxuduo qingkuangxia,tazaihudebingbingbushimoujianshijideshier,zhishinidexintai。
tawangwanghuizhuazheyijianxiaoshimeifang,danshishiyouyutaiaile,pasangshi,paniyiqingbielian,gengpashiquleni,yinci caihuibuduanqueding。
shizhongdouqinghaijide,yigenvshengzaibuainideqingkuangxiazuitinghua、zuibuzhanren,zhiyinyounimeini,duitaeryan,queshimeineimaguanjian。
fanguolai,jiaruyigenvshengyizhizaihunidexintai、zaihunijuededemeiyijuhua,niyaojinlianghaohaozhenxi。
……
meiyouyigerennenggoumeishenmechengdudirenshounideyiqiequexian,yemeirennenggouyizaikuanrongnidemeiyicimangzhuang。
jiaruyicicidekuanrong、yicicidekuanrong,huandedeshilingyigerenyulaiyulengdanshangxindehuayu、yulaiyubuzaiyidexintai,neimejiuxiuguaitahuizaibeishangguodemouyici,wanquanlinierqu。
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