花镇情感咨询是诈骗吗？适当若即若离

 jiaoshi，ninhao。qianjitianwogennanpengyouzhengchaole，yuanyinshineiyangde，jinqiwojitamenfaxinxi，tahaozhangshijiancaihuiyingwo，woyoudianerfahuo，wenqiqueshineimamangma，nandaoshuoliankanxinxideshijianyemeiyouma，huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？tajiushuo：shijianyou，danwohaiyouzishendeshi，bukeyiyimenxinsifangdaoganqingshang，bayiqieshijiandoujini。

 shijishang，worenweizishenbingmeiyousipilailian，tagongzuozhongdoubumang，juedaduoshushijiandouhenxian，kanshoujilidexinxiyingdangmeishenmewenti。xiwangtanengmiaohuiwodexiaoxi，danshitaganjuemiaohuibingbudashiji。danxuduo weixingongzhonghaolishuodequanshi，jinyoumiaohuidenanhaizi，caisuanshizhenshiguanzhunide。

 wochengren，woqueshishijiaoweinianrendeneileizhonglei，dajiazuitanlianaideqiansangeyue，shiyiguolian，yikaishiwoqueshijienabushang，yinci wojingchanglaizhaota(dajiadachengshijulidayue2zhongtoudelucheng)，yizhoudayueliangsanci，youshijianyelijiangemian，diertianyiwoyehenzaolikai。

 worenweiwotourulexuduo，zhihouworenweineiyanghuanshibuhao，jiuguoduanlizhigandaotadedachengshi，zaiaijintadediquzhaodegongzuozhong。jinguanwogongzuozhongmang，danyechangchangchoushijianjitamendagedianhua，falexinxi，kezuichutahainengmiaohui，danrujinzongguoyiduanshijiancaihui，youyiciwoyouyuzheijianshiqinggentazhengchao，tahenjingya，danhuanshihongwo，danshihongwanyihouhuanshilaoyangzi。

 libaitiandeqingkuangxiawohaitiaoxuangentazaiyiqi，dabufenjuedaduoshushijiandajiadounengzaiyiqi，youshitadayouxi，yinweiwopeita，worenweizishenshigehaonvyou，dantaruhejiuyijianshiyulaiyulengmoni?

老师回应：

 miaobumiaohui，hegaoduzhongshishuipingbuxianggan。henyoukenengtanlianaiqianqi，quanbusixudoufangdaoganqingshang，tahuimiaohui，zhongjiureliancujintameishimeikexiangqini，douhuibuduankanyixiashoujishang，guanxinxianizuixindongtai。

 kerelianheshenmiganyiguo，lveweichengshuderen，xinlidouhemingjingyiyang，sheidouhenqingxi：ganqingbingbushirichangshenghuodesuoyou，baquanbudesixudoufangdaoganqingshangzhongjiushibuchenggongde。

 queshi，nideyishihuanshixinzhibuchengshu。liangzhezhijianchimidasixuanyang“miaohui”deguandian，bibushangduoyueduwenzhangyixieganqingyunying、tanlianaijiqiaodewenzhangneirong。

 xiangxiyinzhuyigenansheng，xiangshitayulaiyuchimini，bingbushidanchunxingdejiezhu“buzhengquedehexinlinian”，laibatasisidibangzhu，zhishiyaobawolianaizhongjiezougan，yunyongtanlianaijiqiaolaibaituokunjing。

 ziran，shuo“jingyinghunyin”zheigeci，queshiyixieda，yehuilingrenhuanghuanghuhu，neinenggoulijiduinishuodeshi，zuixianyaocongyishishanggenggaiduiganqingderenzhinengli。

 duinilaishuo，yiguolianlianxudezhaota，zhihouyibuwaidizongzhandaoyiqi，bingqieguidingmiaohui，libaitianyehuasuoyoushijianzaiyiqi，naizhiliantadayouxibixucanjia，bianshiyizhongganqingdebiaodaxingshi，queshishiyixieqianbole。

 xiangrangyigenanshengyulaiyuchimini，zhenshidefangfabingbushizhanju，zhishijitamenshidudeshineikongjianhejianju，xuehaohujinhuyuan。

 huazhenqingganzixunshizhapianma？queshi，gangzaiyiqidelianren，zhengtiandoushihuizhandaoyiqi，henbuneng24xiaoshidouzhanzhexianghu，danzheileibiaoshuganqingdefangfa，fandaohuirangdajiadeshenmiganxunsuxiaosan，lijikuajudaopingdanqi，meiyoulijingshidudemoheqi，ertaizaodejindaopingdanqi，zhenduiganqingeryan，shiyizhongshifenkepadeshi。

 weiheshanlianshanhunzongbukeyichijiu?yuangujiuqujueyu，zhikandaolexianghudeyibufen，wufaxunguidaojudexiangqian，meinenglijingmeigehuanjiededamopaoguang，feichangrongyizaipengdaonantishouzuwucuo，zeguaixianghudelingwai，chengshoubuzhu，cihouxiaochutanlianaidezhudongxing。

 meibiyaofangbushengfangdejindaotaderichangshenghuo。woqingxinihenaita，danbiaoshuganqingdefangfayouhenduozhongduoyang，bingbushishizhanjusuoyoudeshijian，yongzigaozidadefangfa“shouhou”，huandedaliangdeqingyi。

xiangshouhouta，xiangbiaoshuzishenqingyi，hebuhetagaohaoyaoqiu，guoduanlagejihuashu，zhijieledangdeduitashuoyekeyi：

 liruzhouerdexdianzhixdian，tiyiwoliangnenggouxx，zhousanrangnifangtianjia，neibanniyejiunenggoupeizhenidexiaohuobanmenzuduidayouxila，danxiwangnikeyixingqiriduopeibanwo，youyuzheixingqirizhongwuwojuedeguangjiegouwu，jiwomenmaiyitaoqinglvfuzhuang。