huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma?zhenduichuzaitichufenshouqingkuangdeni,zhenduixirilianrenyiyibushe,xinliyidingjiqiewanliu,danyoufanraobumingbaiwanliufangfa,qinglvqianwang,jieguopengyibizihui,ganshoudaolingyifangdedichu,xinsuanhewukenaihepumianerlai,dianjizheshifoumeifawanliu,congciwufuhexingjiyuleni?
qishibushi,xiangyunzhuanqiankun,genggaidangjindexingshi,bingmeiyouxiangxiangzhongdeneimanan,wangwangninengzaigentou,yuangubianshinongcuolefangwei,yongbuduifangfa,yinci zheierjiaodaonisangewanliuquanguochengzhongdefangfa,xunguidaoju,zaicizhaodaocengjingxiangai,bingbingbushixiangxiang!
1.心理建设
wanliu,xinlizhuangtaijibenjianshefangmianlijijuecechenggongyushibai。
xinlizhuangtaijibenjianshediyibu,zuixianrenketichufenshoudekeguanshishi。juedaduoshunvhaibuyuanyirenke,yizhijuedelianggerenjinjinlinshide,hepingshizhengchaolengbaoliyiyang,tazaowanhaihuijixuhuijiade。danneiyangziquqiruyouyoushenmezuoyongni?keguanshishibaifangzaiyanxia,renkeyouneimenanma?
yeyixienvhai,zaiwanliuzheijianshiqingshang,yituozaituoxiajuexinbushangxinxin,zongzaichiyi,danyouzishenwanliushibai,zaoshoudesunhaigenggao。
jinirenketichufenshoudekeguanshishi,mudishigaohaozuihuaidedasuan——rujinzaoyishizuihuaidejieguole,jibian niqianwangwanliu,zuihouhaowujieguo,danyemeiyoushenmeweihaia,jieguohuanshiyiyangde,burongyizaihuaidiao。
yinci ,xinxinyidian,zuishaoyaoyingyongdimaichudiyibu。jiranlianlianbushe,buyuanyisheqita,meiquwanliubujizishenliuquehanma?
2.按耐住心态
jibian xiajuexinwanliu,danyeyidingyaokongzhuxintai,wanliuzheijianshiqingshang,jinjizhuyidian:fangzhangxiandiaodayu。
juedaduoshunvhaizaibeifenshouhou,qingxubengkui,shenxiancaogaodexintaijiri,naozilixiangdeyizhishi“weihewoyefenshouleni?”
guojitian,xintailveweihaoyidian,huranjuewuhuilai:weihewobuquwanliuni?
yincibuduandejitamentongdianhua、faxinxi,shuozishenbudui,zaiyebunengshitaxinhanle,quebaohuibian,qidainengkuanrongzishen。
ruowanliuqueshineimejianyi,haiyousheihaihuijixuchouganqingwufaliuzhuni?
yixinji,bianhuizuochubuzhengdangxingdefanying,genghekuangqidainikeyilizaitadeshijiaoxiangyixiang,tarujindexintaihencaogao,duinidexintaiyejiweilengdan,duinixinrengandoubugao。zaizheileiqingkuangxia,tazenmekenengjianxinnishuodehua,chedixinrengannitiaoxuanhehuni?
wanliubiezheji,yaoyongxindenghou,dengtadeqingxuhuifuchulai,buranyiqiedouwujiyushi。
3.轻轻松松挽留
huazhenjuedemeixiaoguokeyituikuanma?“wanliuhaokule,woqueshichibuxiaobulianxita,yemeifajienatayijianshidelengmo!”
fenshou,shizhenxingfenshouzhuangkuangxiadewanliu,bukehuoquedeyigeguanjianliucheng。danjuedaduoshunvxingtongchangdoushihuizaizheigejieduan“guale”,bulianxitajirihaihao,dangangchaochushitianshijitian,neixinjiuhuangle:
“taruguozhaoxindenvyougaizenmeban?”“tashifouhuiwanquanwangjiwo?”
meibiyaozonghuaizheneiyangdeniantou,zaizenyangxiang,yejinjinnideyoulv,keguanshishibingbuyidinghuichansheng。
jirantiaoxuanwanliu,hekurangzishenkanshangquneimakuni,weishenmebushizheqingsongyidianni?rujinhebujilaoyigebiaozhun:qingqingsongsonghekaixinzuizhongyao,zaikailangzhongtishengziwodiyi,wanliucaisuanshizhucide。
neimexiangqilai,shifoujiuqingqingsongsonglexuduo ni?erruguonizhenshideqingqingsongsongqilai,jingshenmianmaoyehuiyuelaiyuebuyiyang,ruguonigenggaidegengchuse,duitadeyouhuolidangranyelaila。
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