有人在花镇情感工作吗？恋爱中的女生应该明白的那些事！

 zhenzhengdeaiqingjiqidexingfu，jianxinzhengchuzailianaizhongdeni，haowuyiwenhuichuanchuneiyangdegantan，yourenzaihuazhenqinggangongzuoma？yinweiaihaoxiangyoumofayiyang，rangnilanmandeqingjie，shouyuniqianxingdequdongli。dantongchanglianaizhongdenvshihuiyuelaiyuemangmugenfeng，suizhezheganqingdetianmei，nvhaimenhuibatanlianaifangdaoshengmingzhongdezhigaodian，rangquanbudeshidoujitanlianaituoxie……

 danqueshiliyingneiyangme?ronghezheileizhuangkuang，jiexiaqudajiajiangxialianaizhongdenvhai，yingdanggaoqingchudezheixieyuaiqingyouguandeshiyushenghuodeshiqing——

第一件事：感情与生活的比例

 xuduonvhaibaganqingdangzuozishenrichangshenghuodesuoyou，zheikanqilaishiduiganqingdejiqiqianjing，danshijishangganghaoshizaishanghaizishendeganqing。yinweiaiyushenghuoshiyoubilide，jinguanshuoganqingjiezhuyurichangshenghuo，lingwaiyouzhuangdianhetianchongledajiarichangshenghuodejingcaifencheng，danwojuedeyiweizheganqingxiangdangyurichangshenghuo。

zhenduiganqingyushenghuo，nishibushimingbaiyouxiaodezhengtiguihuaxianghusuozhandebilini?

 chukaiganqingzheiyierrenrichangshenghuo，niyeyouguishuyuzishenderichangshenghuo，jinigerenaihaosuocaozongdeshijian，niyeyoupenyouyouqinren，zheiquanshinirichangshenghuojiqiguanjiande，shijishangnichedimeibiyaorangzishenbianchengdanchunxingjiganqinghuozhudenvshi，ganqingbukeyicaozongniderichangshenghuo，zhiyougouchengnirichangshenghuodejingcaifencheng，yinci yuaiqingyouguandeshiyushenghuodebiliyidingguihuahao。

第二件事：能够争执，但别随便说提出分手

 pengdaonantishi，chuxianmocashi，tangruowufazhaodaoshihedechulifangshi，neimaqinglvxianghuhaowuyiwenhuichuxianzhengchao，naizhihuichuxianzhengzhi，zaizhengzhishi，tangruonixintaishifenxingfen，nishibushihuijiangchu“tichufenshou”ni?

 zhenduizheileigerenxingweiwohenlejie，jiemeimenwangwangyaoshuotichufenshou，haowuyiwenbingbushidianjizhefenli，zhishiliangrenqueshibuyuanyizaizhengchao，yinci caihuiyong“tichufenshou”laidiyuzhengchao。

 yici2cinikeyidechangsuoyuan，dannishibushitingguo“langlaile”dexiaogushini，yourenzaihuazhenqinggangongzuoma？duizheiyinanhaizieryan，nidetichufenshouhuishitaganjuejinineiyangdezhunbei，neitadangranhuigangkaishiduizheiyiduanganqingyouyidingdeyaobaibuding……yinci biesuibianshuotichufenshou，tashiduidajiadeganqingchengdan。

第三件事：感情中许多 事是沒有缘故的

 lianaizhongdeni，haowuyiwenburongyidanchunxingdexiangyouganqing，bidinghuisikaoyixieshier，yincizainidezuizhongchangchangyaoshuo“weihe”，danniyidingyingdangzhangwo，ganqingzhongdexuduo shi，shimeiyouweihede，aijiushiai，buaijiushibuxihuan，meiyouweihe，yinci congrongdeyingduiganqing，bubibaganqingzuoweishijiedati，yinweiaishimeiyouzhengquedaande。

第四件事：谈恋爱并不是婚姻生活，搞清楚你喜欢什么

 chukaishangbianzheizhongniyinggaizhidaodeshi，tanlianaibingbushihunyinshenghuo，zhenduinilaishuohenyoukenengtanlianaihenzhongyao，nidenanpengyoujinizhenxingfu，yinci nifeichangxiangjiajita，danwojuedeyiweizhecongxianzaiqidajiajiuyibushitanlianaizhishihunyinshenghuo。