买了花镇一个月服务，你的强大很有可能成为“婚恋原罪”

 zaiwangshangyouguannanshendezhengzhifenweiliangdazhenying，yipaishiluandaozhuang，shuobaijinzhuyizhongguibukaopu，mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，nanshenshinvrenzuihouguichu;yipaishimaxingzhuang，shuojinguannibuyaoqianle，zheihuanshibianxiangdiqingrenjieshouma，yiranshinvshishiyuqinfendezhuyaobiaoxian。

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 shuoshihuashuo，wogongzuobianshimeirikanjiandalingshengnvmentanduixiang，zaikanguozheimeduoshengnv(dalingshengnv)xiaogushiyihou，yinweiwotinglejietamendui“nanshen”neileizhongxindeyy。jiaruwanqianghedanduyiwai，meiyouyifenzhongyudeganqingguichu，neimawanqianghedandudeshijiyiyiduinvshieryandaizhubuxingyanse，youyutadeqiangjinghenkenengbiancheng“hunlianjiaoyouyuanzui”，yidabufennanshihunlianjiaoyouxinlizhuangtaieryan，keyiyuzhidapeidenanshijiangyuelaiyuedi。zheidaobushishuonanshibuzuchuse，zhishishuoerzhecunyouyaoqiudeyiwei。daozuizhongtazhiyoupiaobozaijiqideganqingkewangzhong，yizhiyu“nanshen”bianchengyijianweineixindezuihaofangzi。dangdalingshengnvgennishuo“nanshen”deyiqie，nilejietashijishangzaiduinishuo，wodesinianqueshiwuchuzhifang，wohuoxuyaozhaodebingbushijieshouwoyunshideren，danwodesinianqueshibixuyouxieren“jieshou”。

nantishi“jieshou”younalijianyi?youduoshaodui“nanshen”dexiwang，jiuyouduoshaodui“bunuan”detongku。

 youyigenvhai，biaozhunfeichanghaodan30lehaidanshen，jinqizongsuanyouyigegudingbudongjianguojidaodenanpengyou，woxunwentaduilingyifangyinxiangzenyang。tashuo，yibanba，woxunwenruhegeyibanfa，tashuo，lingyifangyouyitaofang，kaijiajingjishiyongche，zaiguoyingqiyezuocaiwuhuiji，shengaobugaobuai，waishengren，jiazhongmeiyoushenmecaizhengfudan，jinguanputonghuashuipingyoudianerguxianghuayin，meishenmeyoumofengqu，keshitinglaoshibajiao，manheshiwanhunde。

wojiang，dajialiaodelaima?

他说，就那般吧。

wojiang，dajiayouhuiyibanzuoshenme?

tashuo，yongcan，sanbu，songwohuijiale。

wojiangdajiajiubukeyizhaodianqitashiquzuogema，tafanwendaowo，yibanyouhuiyeyaoganshenme?

 zongzhi，zheijiushisanshisuidanshennvhaide“pingfan”shiji，shulihaozishendeguaiguaideqingxu，zaifanmangdegongzuozhonghou，yaokaohulianwang、tarendexiangxijieshaoquxiangqin;youhuibutanai，tanyitanshijidejingyu，guanlianyuqishuozhunlianren，daoburushuoshitarenyanlidedapeiguanlian;jibian youhuidoubuhenkaixin，haoxiangwanyewanbutaiqilai，yaozaixuanxiaodechengshitoushencunhuohaitingburongyide，keguandeguanxinglizaocheng fangsideqingxunanyixunzhao，zailiaocongqingchunfayuqiqijiumeizawanguo，rujingengweibuqingchuzawanle。

 faweideqingkuang，buduanhenjiule，jiubianchengfama。jiaowoxiangqinyuehuiquba，xingbawo，keshisangezi——“ganjuebuhao”。zainanhaihenvhaixianghuzhijianchanshengdehuangdaoqingkuangzhong，meiyicihuanju，bingbushitigaowendu，zhishishenganliangyi。meiyiciwuganjuedexiangqinyuehuiquanshiduiganqingrewangdeyicibeitongdejujue，xiangweiyueduo，yuepijuan，yuefali，yeyushijiyuejuedemouleidikang。

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 nvrendeyisishishuonibuyuanweiwotaoqian、nibuaiwo，nanrenshishuo，weishaqinfenleniyaobufuhe，niyeyaoruhe。nvhaiergenwoshuo，tayebushijixuyongqianhua，shiyouyujiandaotamuqinzixiaokandaifuqindefangfabianshikanjinnanrendeqian，tayizhiyongshibushinanrenxiangyaobaqianrangnihuojinihua，zuoweishiguanlianzuhechengyitideguanjianbiaoshi。tazhibuguoshizaodongbuan，bixunanrenyizhibuduanzhengshiduitadewomendeaidedao youyuegan。

 henkeling，zaiwomenyagenbukeyiyiqiadangdefangfalaiai，bianhuifandaoliganqingyuezouyueyuan。zheitixianchuwomendeaihanyangshibijiaoyanzhongbuzude。zheilibianziranyouwenhuajiaoyu、wenhuayishudegezhonggeyangnanti，danbunenghushizaiqizhongzuizhongyaodemiulunshi，xianyoujihuanshixianyoudan。dangnvhaieryizhizhuzhongshenai，shishishangyeshitahaipaqutouruai——shitihuishenaidechengxinhoucaiquai，huanshiyingdangquaitarenyidedao shenaidezizhi，tashigenanti。duizheigewentideyihuozishen，gengshidajiaqianqueganqingwendudemingxianzhengshi。

 fuluomuzai《aideyishu》lishifenhaowuyiwendishuo，ganqingbingbushixianlaiwushi，mailehuazhenyigeyuefuwu，queshishiyizhonggongzuonengli。

 bukeyigengyuanyile。aigenconghuiheyingyonglingwaixiangguan，nengshiduzhengqueyindaozishenhetarenlingwaichangkaixinfei，tiaochulaiyoumeideliangxingwubu，caikeyixiangyourentimocachanshengdewennuan。nibutaikenengyibiannazhejisuanqijisuanzhezishendeqingchunnianshaosunhai、cailiqianhefuqicaichan，yibianguidinglingyifangmeiyouliyourangniwennuan。quehandeshi，dajiaguangfanqianqueneiyangdegongzuonengli，zheiyidianshangdalingshengnvzishenyeshiyouyiwude。

 xiangguanxianshiyulixiangdemingxianchabie，woxunwenguoyigegaoling“dalingshengnv”，zaihuiying“nidaodixiangzhaoyigeruhedenanren”denantishi，zhijiangguolianggen，shuoaiwo，zaihuni。

 xingba，woziranburongyixianglaoyibeishuo，“aizhenilejienihenshuaiyouyigepiyonga，zhaoyigeanwenyangjiahukoudenanrenzuikaopu”;yebuhuixiangbujiangqingmiandenvquanzhuyishuo“duinanrendeguoduoganqingyikaoyeshibukeyidandudezhengshi”，wojuedezheilianggenguidingshizuigaojibie、yeshizuiyouxiaode，chedibixuzairuzhaoduixiangzhinanweiye(jiupatamenweiwanhunsheqizheilianggenguiding)。wofeichanglejieniweishenmezheibanlixiang，danwojuedezhuzhong，zheilianggeguidingdemingquetichuzhezishenbizheilianggeguidingzishengengguanjian。

 “nanshen”，ruolingwaikaolvlejieniheaizheni2gebiaozhun(ruguozaizaijiashang“yangni”jiutaibangle!)talanmanyouchunsui，jiejinquanlibuyiyuli，haoxiangzuicuicandechunmeng，neima，nage“fuqian”deren，yinheyinjiushini?yiqiefawei、wuganjue、shierbujianhemeiyouyituorenyunyiyun、fuwuxiangmuculubennengfanyingqianqueziwofansidehunlianjiaoyouzhuyaobiaoxian，douhuijiangnikanyaganqinglixiangqinghenanshenpang。

niailiujialingzhougongzidexiaosa、dantiaoheyiwangwuqian，taaidechuxintai，ernilei?

 “keyubukeqiu。”guanjianshihuiyingweihenifeichangzhide，erbuqujueyushuonixihuanshenme。yong“nanshen”xuanchuankouhaoyaotangchi“maimeng”feichangrongyi，xiulianbenshenyouyuzhixiangfuhedesiweihegongzuonengliquenanyi。keguanshishishi，jiaruoshiwomenzijibianshibeiwuzhixiangshouyihualilundeyibufen，wenduyoucongnalilai?neizhongjiujinjinyichang“maimeng”bale。

shuodaozhei，kezhenbulangman，wochengren。