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 waishengnvchushideneiyitian，woyiyuanmenzhenkantale。ganggangkandaotadeqingkuangxia，huazhenqingganzixunshoufei16800，tacongyunmalichuquhaibushangyigexiaoshi。

 neishihou，tangzaiyingertuicheshangdetajiqi“jiaoqing”，haipatarenlengdanleta——wubiyouxierenmeishimeikepeizaitashenpang。tajinguanbizheyanjing“shui”，danyidanjuededaoshenpangmeiyourenle，huilikejiukuqilai。gangfajuezheiyidiandeqingkuangxia，wohaiyiweishiouran，zhihou，wokeyiganlegeshiyan，rangwomamayuanquyidian，yinweiwoyuanquyidian，taguozhenzaidutongkuqilai;dengzhewokaojinhoupailetayixia，talikehuanjielexiangsheng。zheiyishiyanfanfuganlesansihui，jieguodouyiyang。

 niyishipei，tabichouqi。laikan，wodexinong，rangta“henquefaanquangan”。laikan，“meiyouanquangan”，bingbuzhishi《feichengwurao》shangbianzheixienvshengde“quanli”，gangchushengdeyingerrengjiuzheiban。

wosuigantandao：“meiyouanquangan，duinvreneryan，bianshigeyonghengbubiandezhutifengge。”

erlaidaochengrenshijiezhong，“meiyouanquangan”，naizhihuanshiquanqiuzuishixingdeyizhong“fukejibing”。

xinrenganyueqiang，bianyuemeiyouanquangan

 “guishugan”zheigecizailianaizhongdechuchanglvhengao，tanenggoushinvhaijienayigerendeyuanyin，haikeyishinvhaihuijueyigerendeyuanyin，tarangnanrenmenwangershengwei，buzhisuoyun。

daodi，nvrenzuizhongde“guishugan”jiujingshishenmehanyi?

 “guishugan，bianshinimingxiandiganjuetayuelaiyueaini;xinrengan，bianshinimingxiandiganjuenilibuleta。”lejiadezheijuhua，jiushiwosuowenguodedui“guishugan”dezuihaoshidejieding。

 dangenjujiaoweizheilianggejieding，dajiahuifajue，guishuganhexinrengan，shijishangshiyoudianermaodunde，nanyijiangu。yibanlaishuo，niyueaiyigeren，jiuyuehuiganjuenilibuleta，yinci，xinrenganyejiuyueqiang;danlingwai，niyueaizheigeren，yuelibuleta，bianyuehuidanyoutabuaini，huoshi，danyoutaburongyiheniaitaneibanzijintourudiaizheni，yiner，nibianyuehaipapanduan“talibulewo”。suoyishuo，xinrenganyueqiang，guishuganbianyueruo。feichangshaoyounanrenkeyilingwaikaolvnvrendezheierzhongyaoqiu。

 youxuduonvren，yifangmianzhuiqiuwanmeipingwen，jixiwangyucongnanrendeshenshangdedao “guishugan”;lingyifangmian，queyouzhuiqiuwanmeicijixing，jixiwangyunanrennengjitashengchanzhizaochuyizhonglanmanjuede。danshi，keyijiyudajiaguishugandenanren，yibanquanshiyixieyouzerengande、benfendenaizhishi“hanhoulaoshi”deren;keyijidajiachanshengcijixingheshenmigandenanren，tongchangshiyixiehenxihuanxiazhetenghenaiwan、jinchaoyoujiujinchaozuideren，naizhishiqianquezerengan、shanyuzhanhuarecaode“huainanren”。

 hunqian，jiarunanrenmeifang，nvrenquefaanquangan;hunhou，jiarunvrenhuranfajuenanrenjuranshenbeitayouhenduotaofangwu，neitagengweiquefaanquangan。yiner，bulunshigediao，huanshizichan，doushiyoukenengshiduiguishugandejudaweixie。

夫妻生活能和睦吗?

 qianbujiu，yigenvyueduzhegenwoshuo：nidui“zhaolaogongbukeyizhaotaishuailetaijunde，buranzhihoufeichangrongyiwaiyuhuoshibeiyinyou”zheiyijianjieruhekan?

 tashigenaxieqinshouburujianjie?zhendeshitooyoungtoonaive。nizijifeideminganduoyi，guanlaogongshashi?weilegenghaodishuobailede“anquanxing”，jiuyouyixuangechoudemeifengcaide，bubeiaima?

 meiyouanquangandenvshi，tongchangxinyang“nanrenquanshilanqingde”zheiyijiandanzhijiedejiaotiaozhuyi，yinci，duiquanbudenanrendoubuxinren——beiyigehuaidansunhaiguoyihou，jiuyibuxinrenganyiqieshanren，dianxingxingdelansha。

 zaizheizhongnvrenlaikan，nanrendeshenshangdenanshifengcai，bianshiyizhongyuanzui。wulunnishibushiqueshichuguixingwei，tamendoushihuizhuguanyiduandiduinikaizhanyouzuituiding。fanguolai，zaitamendexinzhongzhong，nengdailaitamenguishugande，shiyixiejiaowei“cuo”denanren。(zheiyi“cuo”，bingbushibierenyanlide“cuo”，zhishitamenzishenyanlide“cuo”，youyunanrenjiarucuole，jiumeiyouqitanvrenlaihetaqiangle。hehehe。)nanrenjinyouzhuyaobiaoxiandebuqizuoyonghefaweiyixie，caihuirangtamen“anxin”。yiqiankanleyigegaoxiaoduanzi，younvrenyouyumeiyouanquangan，youyibalaogongchuanzhedabandetuqide。tarenchale，nizijijiuanquanxinglemeiyou?

“youfengcaidenanrenquanshilanqingdehuairen，meiyoufengcaidenanrenshichidanzhongxinde。”tamendeluojixingjiuzheiyangde。

 zuihou，zheizhongmeiyouanquangandenvren，daduoshujiageilejibibushangyuanxiandeyixingpengyou，yexianzhubupeitamenzishende“jiaoweilaoshibajiao”denanren。(zheierde“laoshibajiao”，bingbushizunfazunzhangshoujidehanyi，zhishi“meigediao”、“bulangman”、“burongyigousandasi”。)tamenjuede，neiyangdenanrenhuiduitamenyixinyiyi，tamendehunyinshenghuoyebianhuijiaoweianquanxingle。

 zheiyixiangfa，queshishitooyoungtoonaive。dengtamenzhengenneiyangdesinaojinzaiyiqile，bianhuifajue，richangshenghuodefaweisuochanshengdeyayigan，yuanbiyigehenyoufengcaidanjinihenbuanxindenanrenyitiandaowanredenichaozuigengweirangrenwufarenshou。bingqie，nanrentiaodoudegongzuonengli，shinvrenzuihaoshidecuiqingyao，genyigewuquderenzaiyiqi，dajiadefuqishenghuonenghemuma?zaijinyibu，nihenyoukenenglianxingyuwangyemeiyou。

 genghekuang，nipingshajuede，shizairen，jiuburongyixiagaoni?yidanyouyigejiyu，xinlidezaodongbuanbeijihua，tamendeshenshangneibulaoshideyimian，haowuyiwenhuijizhonghuashifangchulai。zailiao，zheixiehaipa(burongyi)gentongnianlingnvrentiaodouaimeideshizairen，yaobibierengengwei“yaogan”zhaoshengshunvrenpiaochang、gengwei“yaogan”xingqinxiaonvhai。(fanguolai，zheixiehuiyongyiqiezhengchangdefangfagennvrengoutongjiaoliudenanren，jiuburongyineimayayigan，yinciyejiuwuxuqujueyuzheixiezhuoliedefangfalaishifangchulai。)

meiyouanquangandenvren，nibuguanjiageishei，quanshicuode。

nixuyaodedaodishi“anquanxing”，huanshi“gan”?

 shijishang，xuduo nvrensuozhuzhongde“guishugan”，qiguanjianyibufenbingbingbushi“anquanxing”，zhishi“gan”。zheijuhuashayisini?

 jiushi，tamensuoguanxindeguanjian，bingbingbushizenmerangzishenzaiaiqingyuhunyinzhongdejutijingyuyouduoanquanxing，zhishirangzishen“juedeanquanxing”;erzheiyi“gan”，jiranshiyizhongzhuguanxingtihui，neitaziranyebaohanleneilei“shoupianshangdangdejuede”——ziran，tashishangtamenzishendelixingdedang，erbushinanrendedang——liru，benlaishinanrendeshuobailezhongshibingbutaikekao，tabingbukeyibaozheng nvrendeanquanxing，danyiranhuijiyoudenvrenchansheng“guishugan”;benlaishijiajiyouqianrendenvrengengfeichangrongyiyinlaogongdewaiyuersangshianquanxing，danhuanshiyoudenvrenjuedenanrenfuyoucaikeyirangtayou“guishugan”。。。

 meiguoyiduanshijian，jiuhuiyougaoguanxiegeipinfude“baozhengshu”puchu。erzheizhongbaozhengshudeneirongyouqianpianyilvmeishenmekejihanliang，neirongleisiquanshi“likeheqiziliyi，henijiehun”。nantishi，zheileixianeryijianjimeiyoufalvrenkeyoubujuyoushehuidaodezhiyueli(shehuidaodezhiyuelibixudisanfanglaishijiayali)debaozhengshuweishenmehuiyehuoshaobujinchunfengchuiyousheng?nandaoshuo，zheizhongpinfuqueshineimaruozhi，buqingchutabujuyouyiqiejutishiyongjiazhima?zheidayuebianshinvrendui“guishugan”deyaoqiuba——guishugan，tongchangshiyizhongmengmenglonglongdejuede;zheizhongnvrenzhenshiyaoxiangde，bingbushi“anquanxing”，zhishi“gan”。

shenmeshi“gan”?nandaoshuobubianshiyizhongziquqiru、shoupianshangdangdejuedeme?

“youyuwoxiangfashengguanxi，yinci nixuyaoyijianshihao”

shidudimeiyouanquangan，shiyouyuzaiyilingyifang。danjiarutaiguodimeiyouanquangan，jiudabufenbujuyouziwojiazhile。

 “nvrenshimeiyouaiqingde，sheiduitahao，tajiugensheilikaile。”zheijuhuakanqilaipianzhi，queyedaochulexuduozhenzhi。youqishi，zheixiemeiyouanquangandenvren，tamenzaizhaoduixiangshi，zuizhuzhongde，shi“tayijianshizenmeyang”，bingfei“tashibushiyoufengcai，tazhibuzhiwoxihuan”。

 yiban，tangruobukeyiqingtouyihe、wubirangbu，nanrentongchangquxiangyutiaoxuanyige“woxihuande”，ernvrenzegengquxiangyuwukenaihejienayige“shuoaiwode”;zheijiushiweihenanrentongchangjibian mingzhidao“tazhiaizheiqianquebuwoaideren”huanshizeixinbusi，yeshiweishenmenvrentongchangzhuzhongguishuganchaochuxinrenganle。

 zheixiemeiyouanquangandenvshi，tamendezeoubiaozhunzhong，beituxianzhuzhongde，bingbushi“woxiangduinihenganxingqu”，zhishi，“nixuyaoyijianshihao，nixuyaoyijianshihao，nixuyaoyijianshihao，nixuyaoyijianshihao”——ziran，zuixianruguo“woduinihenganxingqu”，suihounicaiyou“yijianshihao”dezizhi;erzainanrendezeoubiaozhunlianaiguanzhong，jibenshangzhaobuzhe“nixuyaoyijianshihao”zheiyitiao，yaoshi“woduinihenganxingqu”jiukeyile——“yaoshiwoduinihenganxingqu，wodangranbianhuixintengni”。

 ruguowomenyongjiandanzhijiedefangfajiang“xingquaihao”guinaweixingyuwangdehua，neichabieshineiyangde:nanrenshi，“youyuwoxiangfashengguanxi，yinci ，woxiangxintengni”;ermeiyouanquangandenvrendeluojixingzeshi“youyuwoxiangfashengguanxi，yinci nixuyaoyijianshihao。”

 shangniandisanjidu，hulianwangshangguaqileyigu“nanshenre”。shuobaile“nanshen”，shijishangbianshiqianliangniannvshengzuizhongde“baoqian，nishigehaoren”，shineileifaweide、meiyougexinghuaderen。zheileinanren，bingbushisulaidoujinyouzuobeiyongtaidefenerma?yuanhezaiyichaneizhongjianbianweiqiangshouhuole?nandaoshuo，woguonvrentuanti“xinyicangsang”，turanjianzhizhididijianshaoleguifan?huoshishi，tuantijuexingle，dongleyuanxianyizhibeidajiajuede“shibuzhiwei”dekeyoukewunancaisuanshi“zuifeichangzhideaixideren”?danshi，zheileijuexing，shijishangtingkebeide。

 nvrenduinanshendezheileijiqingzhaohuan，shijishangbianshi“nixuyaoyijianshihao”dechixu，naizhihuanshiyizhongxinliniuqudeyaoqiu。kezenanshende，shiyoubajiu，bianshimeiyouanquangandenvren。danlingwai，yejinyoubudongaiqingderen，caihuizheibankezenanshen。

nozuonodie

 nanrenjiaruzaiqingganzhong“meiyouanquangan”，tamenzuixianhuijuedeshizishenhaibugouhao，yinci，gengweiquanmiantigaozishendemeilizhishu，tigao“qinglvnianxing”，jieguo，tamenzijiyulaiyuyouyi;ernvrenjiaru“meiyouanquangan”，tamenhuijuedeguanjianshiyouyunanrenbuzuhao，shinanrendenanti，yinci，tamenbuduangenjumanbujianglilaiquedingnanrenshibushichongzushandaiziji，naizhishisuoyaoguodu，youqi“nanfushi”;jieguoshi，nanrenbingweibeibifeng，tamendaoxianbazijijibifengle!!!

 youhenduonvhaieryougongzhubing，zhangkongyuyouqiqiang，tamenduinanyoudeguiding，dounenggouguinaweiyigeci：congming。shijishang，tashimeiyouanquangandaozhide。dabufen，tamenyitanlianai，jiugangkaishirichangshenghuobukeyizilile，liru，lianfeishuiyebuhuishaole，lianyinliaopingyebuhuikaiguo。。。

 zheizhongshier，rangnanyouzuogeziranyeshinenggoude，danzheizhongnvshengdetaiguozhichuqujueyu，jiarunanyoulveweiyouyigeshuhu，tamenhuilikejiangnantishenggaodao“niyaobugouaiwo”defazhanzhanlvegaokuanbi。duizheileideliburaoren，nanpengyouyaojinggantichuzhiyi，tamenhuigengweiyibucaiyi“tajiujingaiwoma”，suihou，bianna“tarenjiananyou”dexiaogushixiangzishendenanyoushijiayali。

tamenzaigennanrenjiaowangdeqingkuangxia，bingchiyigeyonghengbubiandeluojixing：youyuwoshinvren，suoyiwoshiduide。

 tamendeziwojiazhiganhendi，buzixin、bijiaomingan、jiaoqing，youqifeichangrongyijiangtarenduitadexintaigenzishendeshiyongjiazhiguagou。jiarujuedetarendaitadefangfabuzuhao，“guigexinghao”buzugao，taburongyijuedeneishilingyifangbanshishejifenggedenanti，zhishijiangqipandingwei“daiwobutaihao”、“buzhongshiwo”;conger，youdedao“tarenwangwangdaiwobutaihao，henyoukenengshiyouyuzijibuzuhao”dejieguo，zishencuican。naizhi，tamenhaijingchangbixugenjuzhigaoqianglairenzhengyixia“niaiwodaodiduoshen”。erjiarutarenduitadeyoushanshuipingchaoguotazijideyugu，tayouju“wohedeheneng”、“wobupei”dehuangkongbuan。

 tamenyineineixinxiwangyigeyinyuandechuxian，keshi，huazhenqingganzixunshoufei16800，dangzheigerenqueshichuxiandeqingkuangxia，tamenhuiyouqidanxin，haipatiejin。wojuedebianshiyegonghaolongma?tamenjuede，yaoshibutiejin，jiushizhongyebuhuisangshi;danshishishang，zheileihaipamianduishijidexintai，zhiyouzaocheng xunsudesangshi。

先下手

meiyouanquangandenvren，nanyiduiyigerenweichizhangqidereqing。

 jiarushuonanrenzaiqingganchouchunantishiaimuxuronghuoxixinbuyanjiudehua，neima，zheizhongmeiyouanquangandenvren，zejingchangshijiusuanshirengweixixin，yerengjiuyanjiu——meireqing。

yuanguqishibushihennan，tamengenjubuduan“dalian”，zaojiubazijijixiazhetengtaileile。

 zaireqingqueshiyihou，weifangzhibeiyiqideyunshi，tamentongchanghuijuece“xianxiashou”，yixunleibujiyanerzhishizhishishuaikailingyifang。huoshi，jiusuanbushitichufenshou，weilegenghaodibaozheng zishenyouyigehoulu，tamenyehuigangkaishizhaobeiyongtai。dajiaguangfanrenwei，youzhexuduo beiyongtaide，tongchangshi“ziyuanfenpeigongzuonengli”jiaoweiqiangderen，danzheihaoxiangshiyigewuhui。shijishang，henduorenjijizhudongfazhanqushibeiyongtai，bianshiyouyumeiyouanquangan——danyoubeizhutaishuaikai。

jiaruoshi2gemeiyouanquanganderenzaiyiqi，bianhuishenxian“qiutukunjing”。