花镇情感咨询收费16800，择偶五阶段理论

 yingguoqingganzixunshiluobote•kalanboshiyanjiushengmingquetichu，yiduanqudechenggongdetanlianaihuilijingxiabianwugehuanjie：huazhenqingganzixunshoufei16800，xiyinzhu、tiaoxuan、paita、qinmiwujian、dingqin/wanhun。kanjianjiaoweikuzaofawei?biezheji，wonengnahaoduogeshililaijiniqieshentihuizheihaoduogehuanjiedebuyiyang。

•第一阶段：吸引住环节•

 shuangfangdouganshoudaoxianghudeyouhuoli，texiangzaizhangwolingyifang，kanshibushiyoufazhanqushidehenyoukeneng。youhuoliguanjianlaiyuanyubiaomian、yantanjuzhidengwaijiebiaozhun。yaoshiyouhuolibuduanchixu，jiuwubiyoufangfadiweilingyifangchengxianzishen。yiduanxindeguanlianqianqisuozaoyudetiaozhan，bianshibaochiyouhuoli，shiguanlianjianchixiaqu。

 yibanzhuangkuangxia，zaiyikaishichupengdeqingkuangxia，nizuihaozhuyaobiaoxiandepingdanwuqiyixie，jiusuanjinixuduo xiaodewenti，yeqianwanbiezaigangkaishishipuluchuqu(shijidefangfawomenzaixiawenhaishangtandao)。yougenvhaicengmaiyuantahetadediyiciyuehui，qudehuanshiyigezhongdengdefandian，yigongdianlesangecai，shangjidaocaiyihoutadeyouhuimubiaogennvhaiershangyi：“nikankanwomen2gecaijiugouchile，yaobudisangejiubuyaorangtamenshang?”

 qishiwoyizhijiandingbuyidijuedeqinjianjieyueshichuantongmeide，yihandeshizheiyinanhaiernongcuolekeyishuozheiyihuadehuanjie。jiaruwanhunyihounigenfurenjiang：jinrijiuzuo2gecaiba，kaiduoleyechibushang，tingshuofurenhuixinhualufang。danshizaidiyigehuanjie，zheileihuazongshibeinvxinglejiewei：jinjinjijiao、meichengxin、qiongguangdandeng。

zaizheigehuanjiebeilingyifangxiyinzhudexianghudoushihuijiejinquanlizhanxianzishendepiqihao、haoxingqing、haobiaozhun。jugeshili：

 nanxingqidaizaimouyitianjianmiannvxing，danshinvxingchuziyu“jindububitaikuai、gangkaishishizuihaoshiyizhoupengmianyici”dengnanyizhixindeyuanyinwanyanxiejue，nanxinghuidechu“neigairiwozaiyuenizenyang?”jibian youduoshaobuyue，neiyikouqiyebidingyaoduozhenxinshiyiyouduozhenxinshiyi!

•第二阶段：挑选环节•

 hao，jiadingdiyijieduanshuangfangzaicishoulingyifangxiyinzhuerjindulaidaozheiyihuanjie，bicihuilijingyigekeguandesikaoquanguocheng：“woqueshixiaitama?”、“taqueshiaiwoma?”、“woqueshiyaohetazaiyiqima?”tashiqinggandebidinghuanjie，bianshixianghuzhangwo、jiazhongqinggan、bianbieshibushishihedehuanjie。youderenjinguanhuxiangshangxi、huxiangxiai，danlijingzheiyihuanjiehouhuibiancheng“penyou”、“zuihaodepengyou”、“hongyanzhiji”、“zhiji”deng。youderenhuxiangshangxi、huxiangxiaierqiejuedehenshihe，lijingzheiyihuanjiehouhuijindaodisangehuanjie——paitahuanjie，bianchengqinglv，xianghuzhujiu、yunyingyiduanqinggan。

•第三阶段：排他环节•

 zaijinruzheiyihuanjieyihou，bicisuanzuojianliqinglvdeguanlianle，gangkaishijindaotianmeideerrenshijiezhong，langqingqieyi，feinibuai，jibenshanglaidao“yiribujianxi，gesanqiu”dechengdu。zheigeshihoubianshi“congxiaoqumenkoudaodamenkoude50mideluliangrennenggouzousanshifenzhong，yitiannenggouzouqibahui;liangrenjiaotanjichuguishuyudishengxiyu，linglianggerenkaihuaidaxiaodeneirongjibenshangmeifarangsuiyiyigexiaoliaojididerenhahadaxiao;liangrenzaiyiqishimuguangguangliang，liangjiachihong;liangrenfenlishimuguangdaizhi，lvjiaohunmibuxing”dehuanjie。

 jiaruyizhaoganqingyingshizuopindebianji，zheigeshihouyingdangchuxiange“disanzhe”，kenengshiqianren/qianrennvyou，kenengshinanxingdetongshi/penyouhuozhenvxingdeyixingpengyou/penyou，naizhihenyoukenengyanshendaokeliandeyixingpengyouzhiluren，huanjuhuashuo，zaizheigehuanjiejiaruzaiqizhongyifangyuyixingpengyouweichijinmihuazhenqingganzixunshoufei16800，delianluo，lingyifanghuizhuyaobiaoxianchumingxiandedujixinlizhuangtai。

 zaizheigehuanjie，biciyanlidelingyifangzaoyigangkaishiyuelaiyuejibenshangwurennengdi、fannengjieyouxiudechengdule，erlianggerendeguanlianyeshenggaolaidao“yiribujian，rugesanqiu”deshuizhun，jugeshili：

 nanxingqidaizaimouyitianjianmiannvxing，danshinvxingchuziyuzhongzhongyuanyinmeifayingyao，nanxinghuiyijianfankuiyixia：“jiabanjiadian?youyixingpengyouma?neiwozaizheilidengniwanbizainiqiyedamenkoujieni，feitongfanxiang!”

 jiarunanxingyuenvxingyiqiqukanzishendalanqiu，buguannanxingchongfenfahuiruhe，wanbihounvxingdoushihuidishangyinpinhechunmianmaojin，suihouchixinbugaidao：“jinrinidalanqiuzhenshuai，danshibianshangnagerangnijiyoudemmnilejiema?”

huizongchulai，huazhenqingganzixunshoufei16800，zheiyihuanjiezuihenyoukenengchuxiandezhuangkuangbianshi——fapiqi!

•第四阶段：亲密无间环节•

 lijingleqiansangehuanjie，rujin，bicizongsuanyibuyongxindiyangaizishenle，yibanzhuangkuangxia，zheiyihuanjienidabufennengjiandaonijianglaidelingyibanshigeruhederenle。youyudajiabicizaizheigehuanjiedoushihuigangkaishianxindiliuluyixiequexian，erlingyifangyedoushihuizhuyaobiaoxiandejiaoweibaorong，gangkaishixuezhemanmankuanrongzheizhongquexian，wojuedezheiyihuanjieshiganqingzhongyouweizhongyaodehuanjie，youyuwozongjianxin，yigerende“lingyiban”buyidingshigeduomedechenggongderen，zhishinagenengshinizaitayanqianzuozhenshidezijieryiwufanguderen。

 zaizheigehuanjie，bicigangkaishilizhierlixingdiduidailingyifang，lejielingyifangshigeyouyoushiyiyouquexianderen，dahuoeryejiugangkaishiwandekaile，yuanxiandelizhi、miantian、guangjieshanyuandemianzhaogangkaishijiahexiyou：

 nanxinghenvxingyuehaomouyitianyouhui，nvxingjianyiquguangjie，nanxinghuiyijianfankuiyixia：“guangjiegouwu?jinidehaoguimipeizheniba，woyuxxxtamendotaqu!”

 jiarunanxingyuenvxingyiqiqukanzishendalanqiu，nvxinghenyoukenengyaoshuo“wobuyuanyiqu，meiyicisuihoushadaidaikanjian，taiwuliao!”yehenyoukenengshuo：“xingba，wo，danshimingrinixuyaopeizhewoguangyitiandejie!”

•第五环节：定亲/完婚环节•

 dingqinshihunqiandezhuanzheqi，dingqinbiaomingxiangjixianghuyigepingwendejiben，biaomingliangrendexiangchushiyiwanhunweiqiantitiaojiande，biaomingshiyaojixianghuyigezaisandefuwuchengnuo，lingwaidingqinyebiaominglebicibabamamaduizheiyiduanqinggandeshiyong，biciyekeyizaidingqindejibenshanggengshencengcidizhangwoxianghu，weiwanhunchongfenzhunbei。zaizheigehuanjie，dajiadouyijianlilingyifangzaizishenshengmingzhongjiangyaozhanjudeyixizhidi，nanxinghenvxinggangkaishijindaolingyifangdeqinyoutuan，manmanxuezherongjinlingyifangderichangshenghuo。zheishidehuihuadagaihuiyanbianwei：

nv：“mingripeizhewoguangjiegouwuba!”

nan：“guangjiegouwu?rangzanmaheniyiqiquba!”

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nan：“mingriqubuqukanzhewodalanqiu?”

nv：“nidaiwodiquba，wodouxiangwangshangni!”

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