shuoshuoxiangqinyuehuizheimashi,yiqiesuiyuandenvhaimenjiangguo,wohaibuzhidaonanzhuzijizenyangni,huazhenqingganzixungongsi,wozhishiyiqiesuiyuanquchouyiyanbale,shihebushihedoumeishier,yidunfandeshi。suiyueranbei,woshizheiyangderendenvhai,nikankandelai,haidewojuededexihuanni,nixuyaoqiaobuqiwo,neizaijianzanjuebuzaijianle。niyiweilaomanianjinsanshijiunengxiangdabaicaiyiyangdijiamaichu。
shuodeyouxiedaoli!keshijiranxiangqinyuehuile,wojianyihuanshibameiyicixiangqinyuehuijinshenduidai。yiqiesuiyuanyiqiesuiyuan,zheishiyigefeichangdadequantao。yuanfen,bingbushisuiyilaide。shuoyuanfenrutongzuoxiangqichengyiyang,guanjianshi,zheixianbingdiaoxiaqu,niyeyaojiedezhu,bingqieyeyaozunzhongta。
(一)不必让相亲约会,止乎相亲约会,它是一场严肃认真的“婚姻生活招聘面试”。
congyigenvhaixiangqinyuehuidexintai,nenggoutoukuitadeshenghuoguannian,yeyougongzuozerenxin、keyexintai。niyongxindian,lingyifanghuishangxinideyongxin。huoxuyilaierqujiubiancheng,zuishaoniwukuiyuzishen,yewukuiyulingyifang。weishenmenigongzuozhongnenggoujinzhijinzedibameiyixianggongzuozhongjinxingdezhishanzhimei,quebukeyijiangyiyangdebiaozhunyongzaixiangqinyuehuishangni?biegenwoshuoqiyegongzuozhongjiushinide“nainiang”,xiangqinyuehuiruopengdaolaogongxiangbini“nainiang”haiguanjian,danshiniyibeizidechengzhanggu、qiandailingjiazhongshenbanlv!
yinci ,qingzhangwolingyifangaihaobanzaixiangqinyuehuiqian,huoxudajiazaoyiyongqqhuoshishoujiweixinlianluoguo,huoxunijindaotadekongjianchakanguo,qing“renrou”ta,batadangzuojiangyaozhaopinmianshinidelaozong。chuaiceyixia,taneiyangxingqingdenanren,gengduiniyouganjuechuanzhedabandewanshanyixiehuanshitianzhenwuxieyixie?biyaotiaojianshi,zheiyifushishiheshizishende。buranzhiyougongkuiyikui。bubiganjueneiyangdezhuangjishibubiyaode,jiarutajiushinidenanren,dajiacanjiaguanjianchangsuo,fushiqichangshangdeyingchen,yijuyidongjiandeliangqingxiangyueyuxinyoulingxi,zheicaisuanshiganqingweichixinxiandeguanjianqiaomen,yeshizuidaqiaomen,ji“hemu”erzi。jilao,nishiqukaizhanhunyinshenghuozhaopinmianshide,bingbushiqujiaoshede,bingbushiqujiebianwanfeizhuliuyouxide。
(二)相亲约会,是一场“手机游戏”。
xiongxingheermengbeihuanqi,shiganqingbuduandejiben。yigeshandonggunianglaizhaowoliao,huazhenqingganzixungongsi,shuoxingzhijie,worenweiwobuhuiheshixiangqinyuehui,jibenshangmeiyicipengmianhoudouyaoliang。taganjuezishenquandoufeichanghao,chukaixiangmaoyiban,yinci nanhaiziwufaqingxinyuta,lingtazaochengshiluogan。congxiangmaoeryan,liandequehenzhongyao,danshijian、dengguangxiaoguohegediao,quanshi“zaolian”dediqu。
yigeshihedefandian,huijinikanqilaijiqixingfu。yuezaiwanshangdelanmanfandian,daxianwuganjuebbshuang,jichukanqilaipifuleixingnenggoufeichanghaode,xiaoquexiandoushihuibeizhegaidiao。dui“yijianzhongqing”sigezieryan,lianbudechengjidequeshidiyiweide。danshibiewangji,dajiapengmiandeshijianbingbushiyifenzhong,zhishiyaonaixindibayicantesemeishixiaohuaxishoujieshu。zaizheiliyicandeshijianli,ninengbumeiguan,danruguonishizhengjiede、shenxinjiankangde、wennuande、qianxinde,zheicijiaotanshinenggoubuduande,erqiebuxiangganzhangxiangdeyoudianhaikeyimanmantuxian。pengmianyiqian,xianglainidouzaoyilejieletade“yingjianpeizhi”,jiranyingjianpeizhifeichanghao,neimaweilingyifangtourudezheiyigexiaoshi,xianglaishifeichangzhidede。
jibian bingbushineimaqingxinyulingyifangdeliangren,yehuihenyouhanyangdibazheiyigexiaoshiqinfenguowan。erzheiyigexiaoshi,shijishangbianshiyigechengxianyoudian、niuzhuanjushidejiyu。jiarunitaoyanzhengduimiandenagenanren,yeqinghaijideweichinidehanyang,zheishiniganxinqingyuanweilingyifangtourudeyigexiaoshi。jidenineishihoushixiadejiaosebanyanyouxi。
(三)相亲约会的目地,并非特色美食
meizhiniqianwanbuyaogenwoshuo,jiebumingbaishangneixiongdi,jiudangzhuanleyidunfanba!youyu——xiangqinyuehui,queshibingbushirangnilaiyongcande!yongcan,shijishangshiyigeweixiangqinyuehuiershedingdeqingjing。biebananrenjichipaole。zheigeshihoukanqilaiyouxiaodexiaohao——shijianxiaohao、shicaixiaohao,quanshiweilegenghaodixiayicidefeichangzhide,shiweilegenghaodibaxingmingxiaohaozaizuifeichangzhidexiaohaodemeihaodeshiwushang。
fanhuinageganjuezishenquandouhaodenvhaidehuatitaolunshang,tadexiangqinyuehui,shijishangbingbushibaizailianbuneimejianyi。
1.tameiyouxuehaoqiaruqifendigoutongjiaoliu。:nvhaishigeshenjingdatiaodeshandongshengmei,diyiciyongcan,zhutongdaodouzi,naxiedoushuo。lingyifangwenyijutanengdashiju,shangdongtianwenxuexiazhizirandili。nvhaizaicanzhuoshangdequebuyinggaitaiguohaixiu,keshiyaocongmingyixie,haijidebajianghuadejiyunajinanxing,shitayoubeizhongshibeijingyangdejuede。nanrendouxiaibeiqinpei、beiqinpei,ruotadezhutifenggeyounenghuodeqiaruqifendedafu,neijianzhihuirujianzhezhiyiyiban。
2.zheiyishandongmeizifandediergebuzhengqueshiqianghua。nibunengzongqianghua,jibian jianglainijianzhidajiajiadefayanren,danzuishaozaizheiyike,niyaobingbushi。haijideduozhuyaobiaoxianchulingtingdetexing,buranzishendaoshishuodeshuangle,zheiyidunfandemudiquefahuang。nanhaizidouhaimeijiangwan,tamangbudiedishuo“womingbaiwomingbai”。gangzhaowoliaoyidianshilianxuju,zhayanjingjiantajiubahuatitaolunpaodaochaoxianhehanguoxuanzhanshanglaile。lingyifangcairuguantiqianzhunbeiliaoqilaini,meizhiyougangkaishichehulianwangyingxiao。neiyangdexianliao,kegumingxindirangnanrenganjue“zhaobuzhu”a。
(四)特色美食仅仅情景设定,连附设目地都算不上
zheibushiyicijuhui,zhishiyichangganqingrenjijiaowang。jiusuanlingyifangdecanzhuoliyihenlow,haiyaohaijidexixintingtabahuajiangwan。jiusuanzhupaiguzairuhemeiwei,yebubikendemanzuisuizha,gugemeileyidi。diandaojizhi,tesemeishijinjinqingjingsheding,zaitahaimeiyoubianchengzijiarenyiqian,bubixiangjiatingfunvyiyang,barouchiwan,naizhiyeyaojijibashengyudezhuangbao,jibian yiwangdeniyupengyouquanshineimezuode。ruguoniweichihanyang,huoxubuyidingheshinideta,yeshiyouhenyoukenengbianchengnishejiaoduoyuanxingquanshangguanjiandeyihuan。shangxinideta,youkenenghuirangnichanshengyifenyiwaijingxi。jinguanzheiyifenyiwaijingxi,buyidingshiganqing。
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