分手之后我觉得挽留可是她不愿意该怎么办，冷爱老师靠谱吗

 fenshouzhihouwojuedewanliukeshitabuyuanyigaizenmeban?qinglvtichufenshouxuduo qingkuangxiaquanshinaolefenqibulizhizaocheng ，yizhiyouhenduorenyaoxiangwanliudantaquebuyuanyi，zheiyingdangzenmebanni?shijishang，yingdangyaocongjikaolv，lengailaoshikaopumahaohaodijianchibuxiegaohaozheisangequanguocheng，caiyoukenengwanliuta。

分手之后我觉得挽留可是她不愿意该怎么办

 ziwofansi，zhaodaocunyoudeqingganwenti;zhibizhiji，duofangweizhangwota;buyusheqi，jianchibuxiecaikeyihuosheng，sangewanliudequanguochengbukeyishao。qinglvtichufenshouyibanshierzhongzhuangkuang，yizhongshinvhaizainaoxiaopiqi，tazaidengdainanhaizijijilaihongta，zheileizhuangkuangbingbingbushiqueshiyaoxiangtichufenshou，shijishangbianshixiangyaochongnidejuede。erlingyizhongzhuangkuangbianshinvhaizaoyixinrusihuile，guoduanfenshou，zheileizhuangkuangbianhuicunyoufenshouzhihou，nixiangyaoquwanliukeshitabuyuanyideqingkuang。chanshengdierzhongzhuangkuang，xuduo qingkuangxiadoushiyouyunanhaizichangchangfanfanfudebuzhengque，zaifanfudeshiershangchanshengzhengzhi，yizhiyutaduiniwanquanxinhan，duixianghudeqingganyesangshixinrenganle。yinci ，yaoxiangwanliuta，neimejiuyingdanghaohaodicongzishenxueqi，zhaodaoquanjuxingnanti，yijutadexinggelaiwanliu，qieerbushedirangtalejieniaibuaita，nidechengxinyouduozhen。

自我反思，找到存有的情感问题

 zhongyixuejiuyi，doubixusizhenfa，caikeyilejiefabingyuanyin，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao，ertichufenshouyaoxiangwanhuiganqingbingbingbushixiangguojiajiayouxiyiyangzheimejiandan，tajiuhaosizhongyixuejiuyi，nixuyaohenrenzhenxizhidekaizhanziwofansi，zhaodaotabuyuanyibeiwanliudeyuangu。qianwanbieshenmeyuanyinyebumingque，niyejiuduitabuyiburao，neiyangzongshirangtagengweiyanjuannilengailaoshikaopuma。haohaodikaizhanziwofansi，gangkaishixiangyixiang，zishenzaiyiqiandeqingganlishibushiguoshitaiduole，jiaoda deqingganwentiyoushishenmeni，tajiujingzaizaiyizheshenme?zuishao，congziwofansizhongnihenyoukenengjiuzhidaotabuyuanyideyuangu，yekeyirangtakandechuniyaoxiangwanliudexintai。

知彼知己，多方位掌握她

 fenshouzhihouyaoxiangwanliuyiduanqinggan，dannishibushizhangwotani?duitabuzuzhangwo，buqingchutadexingqing、tadedairenchushi、tadesanguan、tadehaoe、tadexiguanxing，youzenmekenengzailianaizhongjiaowanghemuni?xuduo rendaochuduixiangzhongyizhizhikaolvdaozishendeyaosu，lizaizishendeguandianxiangnanti，zheijiufeichangrongyidaozhiyiduanhunyinpolie。jiranyaoxiangwanliuta，neimejiushizheshenrulejietadeyiqie，weiyouniduofangweizhangwotale，duohuanweisikaoyixia，nicaikeyigengfeichangrongyizourutadexinli，yaoburanniyezhiyouyizhizaitadexinfeiyiwaipanghuangle，jiugengbuyaoshuowanliutanengbeijienale。

不语舍弃，坚持不懈才可以获胜

 xuduo shier，zainichongzuchongfenzhunbeihejindaozishendejiaoda deqinfenshi，yebingbuyidingjiukeyiyuanmanshouguan。wanliuyiduanqingganyeshiyiyangde，fenshouzhihounilaiwanliu，keshitaquebuyuanyi，neimazheishidenichukaiziwofansi，chukaiquzhangwota，niyaoyingdangxixinsisuozishendeshibushiqueshiaita。ruguoshi，neijiuxuyaoquchubaifenzhidexixinhechengxin，lengailaoshikaopumacongzishendeshijiaoxiashou，yongzhenxinshiyi、huamianganquchudongta，bubisuiyisheqi，jianchibuxiecaikeyihuosheng。nvrendoushishuizuode，quanshimianruanxizhide，dangtaganshoudaonidechengxinshi，huoxudajiadeqingganhuanshiyouqidaide。