花镇咨询：摇摆不定夫妻关系的一些要素是啥

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一、不要说损害另一方自尊的过度狠话

 lianggerenjianyibufuhehuoshichaogejiakendingshinanyibimiande，suiranzhengchaomeihaotingdehua，keshizhengchaohuanshiqianwanbielengyanlengyule，youqishizaiqitoushangyidingyaoliuyiguanhaozishendezuichun，qianwanbuyaosuikoushuochushuoyixiesunhaidaolingyifangzizunhuolingyifanghenbihuidehua，lishidejiaoxunzhengshi，zheileihuatongchangyuyaoxiangzhengzhidehuatitaolunbuxianggan，bingqiehuichuxianpiantinongshangyouliyoubidezhuangkuang，huirangjianyideshieryuelaiyuegengweifuza。

二、千万不要把提出分手当吓唬另一方的武器装备

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三、两个人争吵后别用冷暴力作封禁方式

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四、平常应当随叫随到保证 联络通畅