花镇情感官网：如何让男生高度重视自身

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什么叫对TA真实的诱惑力

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学好表述你的情绪价值

qingxujiazhizongtilaishuobaohan2gecengmian，yishishunxiangxintaideshiyongjiazhi，yishifuxiangxintaideshiyongjiazhi。

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举个事例

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教你怎么表述感情的“要”与“不必”

不必：虚伪

要：诚心诚意

 jiaruniqidailaogonglejieniduomedeaita，keyichengxinbingqingchudihetagoutongjiaoliushihenzhongyaode。nixuyaoshiqueshirentongzheigeren，zheigerenshiqueshixiyinzhuni，feichangzhidenilaishuozheizhonghua。jiarunishuodehua90%quanshijiade，neiyebukeyichengweitanlianai，eryingdangjiaoganqingmengpian、ganqingxingpian，nikendingshitutadianqitanaxie。zainibiaoshudezheizhonghuali，zuishaoyingdangyou70%-80%shiqueshi，yeyoushengyudejiushinideganqingfangfajiazailimian。

 liru，nijilitadeqiantitiaojianjiushinishiqueshijianxinta。ninengduitashuotafeichanghao，henyoutianfu，gulitazhuiqiuwanmeizishendelixianghezongtimubiao——danyidingjiushinizhendeshineimexiangde，huazhenqingganguanwangzainixiezhutaqianxingdeqingkuangxia，nixuyaoweichizhenxinshiyi。shitalejieninengweitadenghou，keshijinyouruguoniqueshihuineimezuodeqingkuangxia，cainenggouneimeshuo。

 jiarutajiangzaoyuyixiedashijian，liruyichangsaishi，huozhezhaopinmianshi，zhiqianyitianyelininengbiaoshuyixianihenzaiyizheijianshiqing，zaiyita，lirunenggouweitakaoyixietebiezhizuodebinggan，huozhexieyizhangzhutahaoyunqidetianmeizitiao，shitalejietazainiyanlishiduyiwuerde。jiarutaxinxinbugou，lijuchutadeyoudian，duitashuoweiheyaoshitajiejinquanli，jiuhuiyouyuanyinhuodechenggong。

不必：过多

要：适当

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danbieyitianjitamenfajishitiaoduanxiaoxiduitashuotayouduowanmei，niduomedeqipankandaota——zheihuishitashoubulede。

不必：低贱自身

要：维持自尊心

 yaobaozheng dajiadezhiaizhiqingshishuangzhongde。jiaruniyizhizaizanyangta，ketaquemeishenmedafu，neimenihenyoukenengjiuyoushenmewentiyaojiejuele。

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