老师原创：如何让自愿当第三者的人回归正轨

 huazhennihao，wojiejieyijingyouyigexianglian6niandenanpengyou，danshiquebeiyigeyihundebingqieyijingyouhaizidedashujizhuizoule，bingqieyijingfashengguoguanxi。zheigedashuduiwojiejieshifentitie，yeshifenshedehuaqian，yejingchangmaiyixiedongxilaitaohaowo（qishiwoshihentaoyantade），wojiejiedeneiweixianglian6niandenanyouzhidaozheigeqingkuanghoujiuhewojiejiefenshoule，bingzhaodaowolaiquangaowojiejieyaohuiguizhenggui，buyaodanglebierendedisanzhe。woshitadeqinmeimei，dangranbuxiangjiejiezoushangdangdisanzhezheitiaodaolu，danshiwozaichuliqingganjiugezheifangmianbijingshigewaixing，suoyicaiqiuzhuhuazhennide，suoyiwoxiangqingwenhuazhen，woyaozenmezuocainengrangwodejiejiehuidaozhengguini？

老师的回复：

 woweihenduorenchuliguoganqingdewenti，danbingbushisuoyourendouhuitingcongwodejianyiquzuode，zheixiebutingcongwojianyiderenweiletantuyixieduanqideliyierjixuanzhaotamenzijideyituxingshi，zhiyuzheixierenzuihoudejieguozenmeyang，wobudeerzhi，danwoxiangyaoshuodeshi，jirannimennaodailimianyijingyouyitaoyidingdexingshifanganbingjianjueyaoancizhixingdehua，neiniweihehaiyaozixunwoni？

 haobahuiguizhengti，wojuedenizheigejiejiejiranmeiyouyishidaozijidangdisanzheshiyouwentidehua，neimetajiubuhuiyuanyiqugaibianle，ernidequanzu，daduodouzhihuishitulaowugong。

 tajiranziyuandangledisanzhe，neijiushuomingtafeichangxiangshouyihunnanjizijidailaidewuzhishangdeyuyue，nixiangquangaotashuncongnidexiangfajiushiyaotagaibianzijidedaodepingpanbiaozhun，zheishishifenkunnandeyijianshi。erqieniyaozhidao，dangdisanzheshimeiyoufanfade，suoyigengbuhuiyoufalvlaiposhitazuochugaibian，huanjuhuashuo，taxianzaideqingkuangjibenshangshihennanfashenggaibianle。

 lingwai，zainiyunijiejiedeguanxizhong，nishuodehuabingbujuyouquanweixing，chufeishitadeouxianglaiquangaotahuiguizhengtu，fouzehennanshuodedongtale。

 wojuede，zaiduifangmeiyouxiangnizhudongxunqiubangzhudeqingkuangxia，zhiyaotameiyouchufanfalv，nihaishishaochashouweimiao，fouzedehuahenkenenghuiyingxiangdaonihenijiejiedeganqing。