你有选择恐惧症吗？选择能力其实很重要

“tiaoxuanjuecenenglidequeshi”zaijinriyouyigeshixingdejiaofajiaoxuanzekongjuzheng。rujinhaojinianlianrenchangyouneiyangdewenti，wojuedetiaoxuangongzuonenglishihenguanjiande，xuanzedayunuli，tashixuanzedeyishu。

一、选择恐惧症代表什么意思

xuanzekongjuzheng，yechengzhiweixuanzekongjuzheng。tiaoxuanhaipa，buyaneryushiquefazixinhetuixiezerendexintaizhuangtai，qianqueduliguannian，danxinbuchenggong。

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二、挑选工作能力的必要性

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1、选择的艺术

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2、选择大于努力

xuanzedayunulidaibiaoshenmeyisi？tiaoxuankeyishuochengqinfendeqiantitiaojianba。niyizhizai1gejiekou，qianbianshilianggenmaixiangbutongfangweidelumian。nidexianxuanding，caikeyibashansheshuiba？bashansheshuirutongqinfen，dangnishezaidelubingbushinikeyididadediqu，neimaniyizhizaizheilushangzairuheriyejiancheng，keshizhiyoushiyamiaozhuzhang，linideyaozoudediquyuelaiyueyuan。

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