挽回男友之断联后复联的技巧与方法

　　fenshounvpengyoubutongyizenmeban，dangmianlinfenshoukunjingshi，jiarunvpengyoubutongyifenshou，womenyinggailizhiyingduibingxunzhaojiejuefangan。zuixian，lingtingbierendeganshouhexuqiu，changshilejiebicizhijiandefenqihedanyou。cizhi，zhenchenghuihua，yongxinbiaodaguandianhebuman。shizhezhaodaowentidebenzhi，tantaoruhegaijinqinggan，xiufuguanxi。yucitongshi，xunqiudisanfangdexiezhu，ruzixunguwenhuopengyoudeyijianjianyi。weichigoutonghechuliwentidetaidu，lijieduifangdejuece,ruojingchongzugoutongrengbunengdiaojie，neimeyexufenshoushixianjieduanbijiaohaodejiejuefangfa。buguanzenyang，fenshoushirenshengdeqinshenjingli，aixiguochengdechengzhangyushouhuo。

　　处理复杂的分手情况和不同意

　　fenshounvpengyoubutongyizenmeban，qingganenyuanlidefenshounantishichanghuifuzahuaqiejiannan，youqishidangbiciguandianbuyizhi，nvpengyouguoduanbutongyifenshoushi。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，womenyinggailengjingfenxibingxunzhaojiejuefangan，yizuishaodesunhaijiejuezheileifuzaqingkuang。

　　1. 深层次沟通，了解对方

　　dangmianduinvpengyoubutongyifenshoudefannaoshi，shencengcigoutongcaishiguanjian。jiduifangchongzudelingtingyulijieshineikongjian，zixilingtingduifangdeganshouhexuqiu，changshicongtadejiaodulailejiebicizhijiandefenqihedanyou。yikaokaifangshidehuihua，taolunwentidebenzhi，bingshituxunzhaogaijinqingganyuxiufuguanxidegailv。

　　2. 寻求第三方咨询与帮助

　　mianduifuzazhuangkuang，youshiwomenxuyaoyidingdexiezhu。xunqiuzixunguwenhuoxinlizhuanjiadejianyinenggoutigonggengkeguandelichanghejiejuefangan，bingxiezhubicinenggougenghaodigoutongheguanliqingxu。chucizhiwai，hexinrendehuobanmengoutongjiaoliu，zhengqiutamendeyijianyujingyanyekeyijiwomendailaixindesiluheqifa。

　　3. 客观表达观点和体会

　　zaihenvpengyoujiaotanshi，tanchengdibiaodaguandianhetihuishishifenzhongyaode。fangzhizeguaibaoyuanhe，yikeguanyouyihedexintaibiaodazijimimanghebumanyi。genjuqingchudegoutong，chuangjianyitongdelijiezongtimubiao，nenggouweichuliwentijieshuixingzhou。

　　4. 理解对方的决策

　　buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang，dajiadouyinggailijieduifangdejuece。jiarujingguochongfengoutongyunulirengbunengdiaojie，womenyinggaijieshouzheigeshishi，bingqieweifenshouchongfenzhunbei。fenshoushiyizhongkanqilaitongchudanyoushihouzaisuonanmianjiejuefangfa，lijieduifangdexiangfa，weiduifangtanxungenghaodemingtian。

　　5. 爱惜成长和亲身经历的一个过程

　　buguanfenshoujieguozenmeyang，womennenggoucongzheidangzhongxuedaohenduodongxi。qingganenyuanlideqinshenjinglinengbangzhuwomengenghaodelejiezijiyuyurenxiangchudexingshi。aixizaizheigeguochengzhongdechengzhangyushouhuo，tongshihaiyaodiaozhenghaozijidexintai，weiweilaidexingfuhejihuiduiwaikaifangxinxian。

　　fenshounvpengyoubutongyizenmeban，zaichulifuzafenshouwentideshihou，nvpengyoubutongyifenshouyoukenengshiyidakaoyan。danshi，tongguoshenrugoutong、xunqiuzixunfuwu、keguanbiaoshu、lijieduifangdejuecejiqiaixichengzhangheqinshenjinglideyigeguocheng，dajiahaiyoujihuiyiyizhongjinlianghemudefangshichulizheiyijiannanjushi。buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang，shiwomenlianglierxing，yingduiqingganenyuanlidejiannan，zhuiqiuzijidexingfuyuneixinshenchudejunheng。