四个技巧战胜爱情中的自卑心态

　　zaiaiqingdaolushang，dangfenshouchengweilebukebimiandeshishi，keyitiaoxuankuaisuhehaodifenshou，wuyishiyizhongzhihuidexuanze。fenshoudekuchuxingshanghainenggoujinliangbimian，bicikeyigengjialixingdijieshouxianshi，xianghuzhichi，buqushanghai、zhize，gengbuhuiliuxiashenshendiquehan。yiner，zaishunxiwanbiandeganqingshenghuoli，dajiabixuxuehuifenshouxunsuhehao，bianyukeyirangzijigengyouxiaodibaituokunjing，zaicikaiqixindeshenghuo。

　　fenshouzhihoudediaojieyujinkuaihuifu

　　彼此以诚相待，分手张弛有度

　　zaiganqingdelushang，fenshoushiraobukaidejianxin。danshi，shizhongkeyikaolvfenshoudefangshijifenshouzhihoudetaidu。yizhongcongmingdexuanzeshi，jinkenengdekuaisuhehaodifenshou。zheiyiweizhewomenbixuyiyichengxiangdaidetaiduheduifanggoutongjiaoliu，lizhidibiaodazijideganshouhekanfa，tongshiyeweilingyifangzugoudeshijianyuzunzhong。zheizhongfenshoufangfa，burongyirangshuangfangbeishousunhai，yebuhuizaochengchijiudeheiying。

　　降低损害，维护彼此之间自尊

　　fenshoubudandanshilianggerenzhijiandeshier，doushibicizhijianzizunxindejiaocuo。yiner，zaiwomenquedingfenshoushi，suiranxinlichongmanleshiwangyutongku，dajiayinggainulijiangdibicizhijianzaochengdeshanghai，weihubicizhijiandezizun。meiquzhize，meiqujingong，meiquyouyishanghaitaren，ershiyonglizhihewanshandetaidu，jiejuehaofenshouzhihoudeshiwuguanli，bingjiduifangchongzudezhichihelijie。

　　放下过去，把握未来

　　fenshoushiqianxingdejiyu，shiweizijicongtoukaishikongjian。fenshouxunsuhehao，yiweizhewomenyaojinzaofangxiaguoqu，mianduixianshi，erqiejijizhudongmianduitiaozhan。buchenniyucongqiandezhengchaohefenqi，bujiuchanyuyiwangdeqingxuhezenghen，ershiyinggaixunmigenghaodeshenghuohegailv。qinfenzhiyutongku，zhongxinsuzaozijideaiqing，erqieweijinhoudeqingganyugongzuochongfenzhunbei。

　　友善处理，和睦相处

　　fenshouxunsuhehao，doushijiyuyoushanchulihehemuxiangchudejichuzhishang。womenkeyigenjutuodanggoutongyushangyi，chulifenshouhoudeyixiliewenti，rulihuncaichanfenge、fangdichanchuzhideng。yucitongshi，zaifenshouhou，dajiayenengbaochiyoushandeguanlian，xianghufuchiheguanai。zheileiyouhaodetaidu，bujinrangwomenkeyigengchengshutanrandimianduifenshou，yekeyiweirihourenjijiaowangchuangjianjianshidejichu。

　　产生成功经验，追寻心里和睦

　　fenshoushiyicichengzhangdejihui，womenkeyigenjufenshoudezaoyuxuedaohenduodongxi。fenshouxunsuhehao，nenggourangwomennenggougenghaodilejieziji，fanshengzijizailianaizhongdebugou，erqiexunzhaoxinlidehexie。dongdeshifangchulaikunhuo、jienayiwang，maijingengmeihaodeweilai。zheizhongjinglijianghuichengweidajiamizuzhenguidecaifu，jiwomenrenshengdangzhongbiedeguanliantigongcankaoheyindao。

　　结束语：

　　dangmianduifenshoushi，kuaisuhehaodijiejuebudandaijizijibaituo，yebanglingyifangchanshenglijieyuzunzhong。fenshoujinguantongchu，danshitongguoyizhengquetaiduyufangfaquchuli，dajiakeyijianshaosunhai，weihubicizhijiandezizun，rangyiqianbianchengbaoguijingyan，weiweilaidexingfurichangshenghuodaxiajichu。yinci，shiwomenjiandingditiaoxuanfenshouxunsuhehao，chaozhegengmeihaodeweilaimairu。