冷眼观爱：男友要出国，女生是否应该跟他一起

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冷爱的回复：

 tanbaideshuo，ruguoyigenanshengzaizijidenvpengyoumianqiannengshuochu：“neigemeizituihaozhanghaoxiangshangletazhilei”dehua，wojuedetayijingbujinjinshi“huaxin”defanchoule，tawanquanjiushibugunideganshou，xiangzheiyangdeshiqingzaizhengchangdeqinglvxiangchuzhongshibuhuichuxiande，zheishiyizhongbuzhengchangdexianxiang。

dangranruguonixianghetazhangqichuxiaquzheiyeshinideziyou，dantahuibuhuizaiwaimianluangaoneijiuhennanshuole，

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