爱情就是个执念，我为了爱他花了二十年

　　fenshoushinanshengxinruanshiyinweihaiaima？zheizhongqingkuangchudonghenduorendexin。fenshouzhenduirenheyifanglaishuodoushiyizhongtongkudezaoyu，tebieshidangnanshengzaifenshoushizhanshichuxintaishandebiaoxianshi，huibudeburangrensisuotashifouhaiaiduifang。nanshengdexintaishanbujindaibiaolewangbudiao，yexushiduiyiqianzuimeihaodehuiyihezhenzhidehuailian，jiqibicizhijianjiandeganqingyiranyouyidingdelianlianbushe。yexu，nanshengzaifenshoushihoudexintaishanyeshiyizhongxunzhaodiaojiedexingshi，tamenbunengwanquanyingduifenshoudetongku，suoyixuanzeweichirouheyuzhencheng。buguanzenyang，fenshouhounanshengdexintaishanwulunshichuyuaihaishiqitadeyuangu，douyaoliangrengongtongsikaoyuyingdui，congergenghaodibaituofenshouyinying。

　　男生的优柔寡断与分手的痛苦

　　fenshoushinanshengxinruanshiyinweihaiaima，zaiaiqingdeshijieli，fenshoujingchangshiyiduanwufabimiandeqinshenjingli。dangnanshengzaifenshoushibiaoxianchuxintaishan，zheileiweiwanditaidujingchangjirendailaiyihuo：nanshengxintaishanshiyouyuhaiaima？zaiyanjiuzheigewentizhiqian，womenshouxianxuyaozhangwonanshengxintaishandebiaoxianjiqifenshoudetongku。

　　男生心太善的表现

　　dangnanshengyingduifenshoushi，takenenghuibiaoxianchuyizhongxintaishandetaidu。zheileixintaishankeyitixianzaiyixiajifangmian：takenenghuiyunxuhuorangbulingyifangdejuece，jibianxinlikenengbingburenke；zaifenshouqinei，takenenghuijiduifanggengduoguanaiyuzhichi，changshijianqingduifangtongku；tamenkenengyehuibiaoxianchuyizhongpinghedetaidu，jinliangjianshaoshanghaitarendezizunxin。

　　分手的痛苦

　　bulunshinanshenghaishinvsheng，fenshoudoushiyizhongtongkudezaoyu。fenshoudaibiaozhejieshucongqiandehunyinguanxi，zeyiweizhebiciyaomianlinshiqudedongxitongkuhezhongxinshiyingdeguocheng。fenshouyehuidaozhijingshencengmiandewaishanghetongku，jingchanghuirangrengandaowunai、guduyuxiaochen。danduiyunanshengeryan，fenshouhaihuibansuibingbushihebeichengzuo“bunansheng”defumianfankui，zheishitamengengjiaqingxiangyubiaoxianchuxintaishandetaiduyibaozhangzishenxingxiang。

　　男生心太善的主要原因

　　nanshengzaifenshoushibiaoxianchuxintaishan，buyidingdaibiaozhetahaiaiduifang，danyebunengpaichucunzaidekenengxing。nanshengxintaishandezhuyaoyuanyingezhonggeyang，kenengjiushiyinweitamenduiyuyiqianzuimeihaodehuiyiheyiqijinglijuedehuailian，wufaqingyisheqi；yekenengshichuyubicizhijiandeshebudeyuduifenkaizhihoudebuminghaipakongju；yeyoukenengshixiwangkeyiyirouhedefangshijiejuefenshou，fangzhijinyibudeshanghaijiufenanjian。

　　应对男生心太善的态度

　　dangnanshengzaifenshoushibiaoxianchuxintaishandetaidu，dajiayinggairuheyingduini？diyi，dajiabixumingquenanshengxintaishandezhuyaoyuanyin，yifangzhiwujiehecuowudepanduan。cizhi，womenyaobaochilixinghepingjing，qianwanbuyaobeitadexintaishansuozuoyouhuozheliyong。zuizhuyaodeshi，womenyinggaitanchengdigoutongjiaoliu，huxiangzunzhongbierendeganshou，bianyushuangfangnenggouzaoribaituofenshouyinying。

　　结束语

　　fenshoushinanshengxinruanshiyinweihaiaima，fenshoushinanshengdexintaishankenengjiushiyinweihaiaima？yexuhuidameiyouyigejielun。nanshengzaifenshoushizhanshichuxintaishandetaidu，jiushitamengerenqingxuxinggeqizhidebiaodafangshi，gengshiduifenshoudeyizhongyingjiguanlijizhi。buguannanshengxintaishandeyuanyinshiyinweichuziyuaihaishiqitayuanyin，womendouyinggaiyizunzhonghelijiedetaiduyingdui，zunzhongduifangdetiaoxuantihui，bianyuzaicikaishizijiderenshengzhilv。