结婚九年老公爱上了别人 我还能挽回吗

　　gennvyoufenshouhouhaitiantianliao，fenshouhou，lianggerenhaibaoliuzhepinfandiliaotian，bulunshigongxiangsuoyouxinuailehuoshiqingtuxinsi。zheizhongteshudeguanlianfangshibujinshiduibicizhijianyiwangaiqingdeyanshen，gengshiduifenshousuojuedingdejianqing。zongranzhenshishenfenzaiyebushiqinglv，danxianghujiandeqingganyiranwufageshe。yexu，zheizhonggoutongjiaoliukeyiweiduifangchanshengkuanwei，yerangbicinenggougenghaodiyingduicengjingxiangaiyudaobie。

　　与分手后复建关联的纽带

　　fenshouzhihoudeaiqingjingchangshiyiduanjiujiunanwangdehuiyi，haoxiangshijiandehongliumeifadanhuaxinlineigujingqingyi。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，youderentiaoxuanheqianrenbaochilianluo，tiantiandouyaoliaoshangjiju。zheizhongkansichongtudeqingkuangweirao“gennvyoufenshouhouhaitiantianliao”wentijinxing。

　　难以释怀的情感纽带

　　fenshouhou，lianggerendeguanxiniudaihenyoukenengyirancunzai，tebieshidangfenshouchuyumouleiwaibuyuangu，erfeiaiqingdexiaoqian。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，jiusuanfenshoule，liangrenhuoshiwufageshe。liaotianchengweileyizhongfangshi，jianqingbicizhijianduifenkaidesiliantongku。genjuliaotian，liangrennengweichibicizhijiandeguanzhuheguanzhu，haoxiangyiranyouzheneiyigehaodeguanxi。zheileiniudaibujinshiduiyiwangaiqingdeyanshen，yeshiyizhongqingganjiyu。

　　探寻处理分手不舍之疼的出入口

　　fenshouhou，weichiliaotiannenggouchengweiyizhongqingxudiaojie。dangliangrenmeifafangqibicizhijiandelianxishi，meiriliaotianchengweileyizhonghuanjieneixintongkudexingshi。zaizheiguochengzhong，shuangfangkeyihudongjiaoliu、qingtuxinsi，shizijihuodeqingganlidefaxie。suiranbicimeileqinglvdezhenshishenfen，dantamenrengranshihuxiangzuiqinmideren，bicideyilaixingyulijiebuhuixiaoshi。genjumeiriliaotian，tamenxunzhaodaoleyizhongqingganlidejiyu，yucitongshiyezaichangshijiejuefenshouchanshengdeshangtong。

　　一种不愿面对现实生活的心理状态躲避

　　youshi，fenshouhoushizhongbaochizhemeiriliaotiankenengshiyizhongxinlizhuangtaitaobidezhuyaobiaoxian。yingduifenshoudeshiji，youderenkenengjieshoubule，buyuanmianduizheiyangdegenggai。yiner，yongmeirideliaotiancainengweichiheqianrendeguanlian，haoxiangyiranhuozaiguoquderizili。zheizhongzuofakanqilaikeyihuanjiejingshenshangdechongjixing，danshizeshituolixianshi，wufazhenzhengyingduiqingganchedijieshu。

　　一种友情的演变

　　mouxieqingkuangxia，fenshouhoubaochimeitianliaotiankenengshiyinweitamenzhijianyanhuachuleyizhongxindeyouqing。jinguancengshiqinglv，dansuizheshijiandetuiyi，lianaizhongdelanmanzhujianxiaotui，liuyoudeshiyifenzhenguideyouqing。jibianshiquleaideguanxi，liangrenrengrannenggoushibicirichangshenghuozuiweizhongyaodehaopengyou。meirideliaotianchengweiletamenbaochilianluodeniudai，gongxiangbicizhijiandelequhedanyou，weiduifangjiyulijiehezhichi。

　　另一种从头开始的概率

　　fenshouhouyiranmeiriliaotian，yekenengshiliangrenbingweisheqizhongxinzaiyiqidekenengxing。suiranjieshuleqinglvguanxi，danshitamenbaochizheheqianrendeguanlian，nimenbicidouxiwangyouyitiankeyizhongxinzaiyiqi。meirideliaotianbianchenglefujianaiqingdetupokou，genjugoutongyujiaoliu，tamenshituxunzhaohehaoruchudehaojihui，weijinhoudefuhexingqinfen。

　　针对分手之后还天天聊的观点

　　gennvyoufenshouhouhaitiantianliao，mianduizheizhongqingkuang，dajiadeguandianbujinxiangtong。youxierenrenweimeiriliaotianshiyizhongnanyigeshedeqingganniudai，youzhuyugaishanfenshoudekuchu。erlingyixierenzerenweizheishiyizhongbuyuanmianduixianshiyutaobidegerenxingwei。buguanzenyang，meiriliaotiandejuecezaiyulianggerengerenyixiangheqingganyaoqiu。zuizhuyaodeshi，shuangfangdouyaoquelizijidexiangfaheqiwang，bingqiezaizheigeguanxizhongzhaodaoyizhongjunheng，yibaozhengbicizhijianxingfuyuchengzhang。