恋爱宝典：异地恋怎么维持？

　　hepingfenshouhainengwanhuima，zaiganqingzhong，hepingfenshoushiyizhongjiaoweilixiangdefangfa，danxuduorenqueduiqizhongdewanhuiqidaiyongyouyisixiwang。tamenkukusisuo，hepingfenshouhoushifouhaicunzaizhewanhuidejihuini？zheizhongqingkuangshejidaohenduoyaosu，baohanshuangfangdeganqingjiben、fenshouyuanguyijishuangfangduiweilaideqidai。jinguanhepingfenshouweiguanlianbaocunlezunzhongyuyouhao，danwanhuiqidaiquejihuweiling。zhiyouzhenzhenzhengzhengfansiwenti，bingqiezaibicizhijiangongshixianuligaibian，yexucaikeyifujianpoliedeganqingniudai。

　　分手的想法

　　hepingfenshouhainengwanhuima，fenshou，shirenmenzailianaiguanxifashengyihuo、buhemuhuozhengzhibuxiashijingchangdouhuixuanzedeyizhongjietuofangfa。dangyiduanganqingzoudaolejintou，hunyinguanxichuxianliehenshi，hepingfenshousihushiyizhongmeiyoushanghaitiaoxuan。danshi，fenshouhouhaiyoumeiyouwanhuidejihuini？

　　丧失与追忆

　　hepingfenshoudaibiaozhebiciyiyizhongyoushangengjiachengshudexingshijieshulelianaiguanxi。zaizheizhonggezizhong，bicikeyijixubaochilianluoyuzunzhong，huailianguoqudemeihaohuiyi，tongshiyeyaomianduixianshi。danshi，shiqudedongxiaiqingshibushinenggouzhongxinjiqi，zhuiyishifounengzhuanhuachengfujiandezhongyaoqiantidejihuihaicunzaima？

　　挽回的机会

　　jinguanhepingfenshouhaoxiangjiwanhuiqianxingdeyixianxiwang，keshishishang，wanhuidejihuijihuweiling。hepingfenshouhou，bicihenyoukenengqinshenjinglileyiduanshijiandeshuyuanyusikao，zaiqizhonghenyoukenengchanshenglexinderichangshenghuo、xinrenjijiaowangguanxihexinjianshi。zheizhongbianhuahenyoukenengrangrenmenduicongqiandeqingganyuganqingshichanshengzhiyihuoshengshugan，zaochengwanhuifanganbiandegengjiakunnan。

　　自我反省和成长

　　fenshouhou，meigerendouyinggaishijianziwofanshengyuchengzhang。biciyingdangsikaofenshouyuangu，zhaodaodaozhiwentidebenzhi，bingyishidaolebicizhijiandequexian。yikaofenshoudejihui，yigerennengfazhanziwogaibian，congergenghaodimianduiweilaidelianaiguanxi。danzheibingbudaibiaofenshouhoujiuyidinghuiyouwanhuidejihui。

　　新的起点

　　zaifenshouhou，bicichukaiyingduishiqudedongxiaiqing，haixuyaojixuzijiderichangshenghuo。zhenduifenshouhouxuyaowanhuideyifanglaijiang，zuizhongyaodeshiyaoxuehuimianduiheshifangyiwang，bubijueqiangdiyilaiyuguoqudehuiyiyuqinggan。erlingyifang，jiuxuyaozhenqiedisisuoyuanbuyuanyijibicigenzijiyigexindejihui，congtoukaishi。

　　再次建立联系

　　zhiyouzaifenshouzhihoudebiciyejinglileyigerendechengzhangziwogaibian，shifangchucongqiandefudan，bingzhenxinyuanyizaicichangshi，caiyoukenengzaicijianlilianxi。danshi，zheizhongjihuishiweiruoheruanruode，xuyaoshuangfangdenuliheyitongdexiangfa，yexuyaoshuangfangdetaiduheqingxudoukeyiyongyouxiangpipeideqingkuang。

　　hepingfenshouhainengwanhuima，fenshoushiyiduanganqingxiaogushilaidaoxumudexiangzheng，hepingfenshoujiyubicizunzhongyuyouhaodejihui，danshibingbuquebaowanhuidekenengxing。zuihou，chenggongwanhuixuyaoshuangfangyouzhegongtongdenuliyuxinyuan，eryoushihou，yekenenghaixuyaoshifangchulaiduilishidezhizhe，bingxiangqianzou，dakaiguishuyufenbiexindeyiye。