传统婚恋观念松动 90后的新婚恋观出炉

　　henvyoufenshouhouzenmequwanhui，zaiyunvpengyoufenshouhou，wanhuiaiqingbianchenghenduorenxinlingshenchudeqipan。zheiyiguochenghenyoukenengchongmanjiqing，queyemanhuaixiwang。zuixian，wanquanzhangwofenshoudeyuanyin，bingshensishulvzishendewenti，zuochujijizhudonggaibian。cizhi，henvyougoutongjiaoliushishifenzhongyaode，tanrandibiaoshuneixinshenchudezhenshitiyan，lingtingbierendexiangfayuganshou。yucitongshi，weichizizunxinqielijieduifangdejueceshifeichangbiyaode。chucizhiwai，zhonglianzixinxin，zhanxianzijidechengzhanghegaibian，zaicixiyinzhunvpengyoudeliuyi。zuizhong，jiyushijianhekongjian，bingjixuzhanxianzijidehaopinzhiduliderenshengtaidu。wanhuinvpengyouxuyaonaixinyunuli，danshizhiyaozhenxinfuchu，yexunengzhongguiyuhao，zaicitaohuixingfukuaileheaiqing。

　　xunmishangxindeaidehuoyan：fujianyuqiannvyouaiqing

　　完全掌握分手的原因

　　henvyoufenshouhouzenmequwanhui，zaifenshouzhihou，zhuyaoderenwushishensishulvzaochengfenshoudeyuanyin。huailianguoqudezhuduo，zhaodaocunzaidewenti，bingchengdanqizijidezeren。zhiyouxianzhangwowentidegenyuan，cainengzuodaojijizhudongdegaibian。

　　积极主动思考与自我提升

　　fenshouhoudefanshengcaishiguanjian，bixushenshizijideyantanjuzhijiqibuliangdexiguan。jienaziwofanshengdailaideshanghai，yonggandemianduizishendebuzu，bingjijixunzhaofazhan。jinyouzouxiangchengshuneixinshenchudegaibiancainengjiwanhuiaiqingdaxiajichu。

　　建立新的沟通的方式

　　yuqianrennvyoufujiangoutongdefangshishizhongyaodeyibu，danshibimianguoyujiqiehechongdong。shidudengdaiyiduanshijian，rangshuangfangdoushishizhanglengjingfenxi，zheiduifujianlianluoshifenzhongyao。chixubaochizhenzhengzhenchengdetaidu，bingzunzhongbierendeganshouhequeding。

　　耐心倾听别人的想法与感受

　　fujiangoutongzhihou，lingyifangkendingyouhenduoxintaihekanfaxiangyaochuanda。zuoweiwanhuiduixiangyifang，yaoyongxinqingtingduifangdexinsheng，bingjinlianglejieduifanglichang。zheiyeshitigaoxianghuzhijianlejieherenkedezhongyaoyibu。

　　营造积极主动的改变与人格魅力

　　tongguojijidegaibianlaizhanxianzijidefazhanshizhongyaodeyihuan。jiangdizishendequedian，zengjiagerenyoudian，zhongxinsuzaozishenxingxiang，zhanshichugengweixiyinyanqiudegerenmeili。zheizhonggaibianbudannengzaicixiyinduifangdeguanzhu，gengrongyiweifujianaiqingzhuruxinxianxueye。

　　给与时间和空间

　　wanhuiaiqingdeguochengxuyaojiyubicishijianhekongjian。lijieduifangdejuece，buyaotaiguoyuzhejidizhuiqiujieguo。genjuzijidexingdonghebiaoda，fujianlingyifangduinidexinrenheyilai。yucitongshi，yexuyaobaochizhuzishiqili，zhanxianchuyigeyouqizhiqiechongshikuailegeren。

　　重构美好的未来

　　buguanwanhuichenggongheshibai，zhonggoumeihaodeweilaidoushizhiguanzhongyaode。xiangxinnizijidejiazhiheshuiping，bieyinsangshierlunluo。buguanjieguoruhe，genjuzheiyiguochengdezaoyu，nihuichengweiyigegengchengshu、jianqiangheyouzixinderen。

　　汇总

　　henvyoufenshouhouzenmequwanhui，wanhuinvpengyoujuefeiyishi，xuyaonaixinyunuli。zaibuduanwanhuideguochengdangzhong，yaoshikebaochizhenzhihezhongshi，yucitongshiyeyaodongdelijieduifangdejuece。buguanzuihoujieguozenmeyang，zheiyiguochengjiangrangnigengchengshuhewanqiang，bingqieyekenengdailaichuhuyiliaodexingfujielun。jilao，wanhuiaiqingxuyaohengxinhejianchibuxie，jianxinziji，jianxinaideliliang。