女生分手之后如何调整自己的状态

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一、让过去的过去吧，忘掉这个人

 fenshouzhihouruguonifaxianniduizheigerenrengranyouganjue，neinikeyichangshijixuquzhengquta，quwanhuita，danruguotahaishibudayingdehua，niyemeiyoubiyaojiuchantaijiule，yinweishijieshangdehaonanrenyoubuzhishitayige，jiurangguoqudeguoquba，jizijidedianshijianquwangjizheiyigeren，jiranaiqingliubuzhu，jiuyinggaixuehuishihuai。ruguoniyiqianaidetaishen，yishijianhennandiaozhengguolai，qulvyoushiyigehenhaodewangquebeishangdefangfa。

二、自信起来，告诉自己你是最棒的

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三、从失败的恋爱中思考，总结

 womenjiujingshiweileshenmeerfenshouni？shibushiwoyoushenmezuodebuduidedifangni？zheixiedoushinishilianhouyinggaimanmansikaodedongxi。dangran，fenshoujueduibuzhishiyifangdecuo，danzuiqimaniyaobanizijizuodebuzudedifanghaohaozongjieyixia，ranhoujiayigaizheng，cainengrangnidexiayiduanlianqinggengzhangjiu，gengjiangu。

四、可以的话，跟他成为朋友

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