xuduoneishihou,renmendonglexuduodadaoli,keshixintaiquewomenyiqimeifazuodao。jidahuoerchushiyigeyingduicelve:xintaishizirendaijiugenrentideshizirendaiyiyang,zheishinenggouduanliande。shengxianshuo“wurisanshengwushen。”tashirenshengdadaolide,xialiesangecaozuoliuchengbangniquchulizheiyinanti,bangnizhangwozenyangjunhengxintaiyulizhideguanlian。
一、怎样均衡心态与理智相互关系?
1、察觉
yingyongchangshuodexintaishizirendaiderenli。
congxianzaiqizuoyigejichuxintaidesuibi,meirijiluyixianidexintaishishenme,zheizhongshiqingduinichanshengdeweihai。zheiyixintaisuibilibianzuiguanjiandeyigeguocheng,shininenggoulejiezishendayuedeguilvxingdeweihai,nikeyiduizishenyouchajue。
wonengshuo,zheiyiquanshijiejuedaduoshuderenquanshixintaidenupu。renmenfuyuandaorichangshenghuo,wojuedewen:jinijihuishijuechadaozishenyouxintai?
juedaduoshurenshimeiyou,juedaduoshurenshibeixintaideposhixialaiganleyijianshier,shierdouzuowanhou,haimeijuechadaozheizhongshiqingshishenme,yincirenmenyaoqubazheizhongxintaijixialai,bazheiyixintaibiaoxianchulaideguocheng,jiushishuozhenduixintaideshuligenchajuedeguocheng。
yijianshiduirenmendeweihai,rangtabianchengwuyishixingtaidesixiangyishihua,weihaijiuhuishaoxuduo。jiuhaoxiangrenmenshehuixintaixueshimaodeyijuhua:kandaojiliaoyu。
2、防范
renmenquanbudenaonudoulaiyuanyuyurenmenderuanruowuneng,nikeyijiejuezheiyinantideneishihou,jiuyidiandoubunaopiqi。tongchangrenmenfahuo,youyuduiyuzheizhongshiqingwukenaihe,yinciruguoninenglihuodequshendeneishihou,nidexintaideshineikongjianjiuzengdale。
zenyangjunhengxintaiyulizhi?zaizheiyiguochengzhong,nikeyibiaoshichuququanbudejinishilingdejieduan,baobiaodedianshishenme?huoxunidenenglibuchongzu,keshinizuishaonenggouxianfangzhibaobiao,shiniyugudaojiexiaquzailiaosanjuhuayihou,nikeyigangkaishichaonaole,neimenixianliquzheiyiqingjing,zuishaoxianfangfan。
nijiaruhaimeidongdeyizhi,zanxianfanghuanyuweiran,jiulejiezheiyiqingjingxiayaobenkui,neirenmenjiuzaizheiyiqingjingdaolaiyiqianjiuxianchejiujiuxingle。youyixienvhaizaibaobiaodezhuangkuangxia,jiuchanshengxuduohenrangzishenhouhuimojideshier。yinciyibianfangfanzheiyangdeshiqingchuxian,xunzhaoquanbubaobiaodeqingjingbatamenjixialai。daoshihoukuaidaobaobiaoshi,chechudangchang,fangzhibaobiao。
3、解决
shangbianjiangguo,ruguonidexintaijijianglailinbaokuandeneishihou,yaoxianche。xunzhaoyigerouhedefeibaolideyouyidefangfaqubiaoxianchulai。zongyouyixieshiershizishenbuxiangyaoyudaode。eryidanyudaole,rangzishennenggoubijiaoxunsudejingxiaxinlai,wulunshichouqihuanshihahadaxiao。huanjuhuashuo,zenyangbazishenxingfendeqingxudiaojiedaowendingqingkuang,rangzishendexinanfuxialaishiyizhongnengli。
lirudangnipengdaobuheli,yuanyibaozouyigerenerwoyoulejiebuyingdangneimezuodeneishihou,wohuoxuhuitiaoxuanzhaoyigepenyouxianliao,hetajiangzishendetihui,huoshishitiaoxuantingge,youhuoshishimanpaojianshenyundong,keyishifangshengdaku……
wuluntiaoxuannayangfangfa,yaoshinenggougenjufangshirangzishendexintaishunxiechulai,douyouyiyuzishendeqingxujinkuaidihuifuningjing,suihouduichanshengdeshierzhenzhenzhengzhengdezuodaolejiena。
renmenhuifajuexintairutongyigeshifenyouyanzhanxingdeqiu,yinci,dangzheiyiqiubeiyadeneishihou,yazaihuoyayigandeneishihou,niyidingyaobatadanchuchuangkou。
youyu,jiaruwobukeyibiaoshunidexintaideneishihou,yaxiaqudewupinjiuhuibianchengnineixinmiandejie,gengdadejiujianghuibianchengbahen,jiushishuoyigeqingxu,jiushishuoyigeqinghuai。yinci,renmenbixuzhaogeyouyifeibaolidefangfabiaodachuqu。
wohenqianglietuijiandefangfashizhengnianyuguanhuxi。liuyibubimishifangxiang,rujinjiaozheizhongrenxuduorenbuzhengtong。
wojidahuoerqianglietuijianyigewoxihuandewupin,apple watchshangdaiyigeweixinxiaochengxu,jiaoxiqi,meirisanfenzhongjiuyongxiqigongjiunenggou。wuxukeyiqubaofudaobanxuexipeixun,zhenshidezhuanyezhishiquanshihenbianyide,zhinengfuwuxiangmushihenzhenguide。xuduorenyaoshuozhengnianyuguanhuxishiyuxintaibuxianggande,danzaizhengniandeguochengzhong,jiushishuohuanjiexintaideguocheng。
dangnidexintaixiangxiangchengyigexiaoshangjiachi,zheiyishangjiachizhong,youxuduoputengdeyu,danzaizhengniandeguochengzhong,jiushishuojianjiandijinidexiaoshangjiachijingxiaxinlaideguocheng。
二、心态与理智:心态不可以被管理方法,只有被融洽!
xintaibushikeyibeiguanlifangfade,renmenkongzhibulenideyoushang,jiuhaosirenmendongxinledejuede,shibukeyicaozongde。youyubengongsishiren,renmenkongzhibulezishendexintai,jiuhaosinixiaodeneishihou,kongzhibulenixiao;dapentideneishihoumeifazhangkaiyanjingyiyangdedadaoli。
bengongsishimeiyoufangfacaozongyuguanlifangfaxintai,renmenzhikeyidiaozhenghuorongqiazishendexintai。( )
guanlifangfagenrongqiazhongjianshiyouchabiede,guanlifangfashinikeyiyingbizishenbunaopiqi,rongqiashifahuo,danjinjinyiyizhongbusunhaidaotarendeqiantitiaojianxia,bafahuoxintaibiaoxianchulai。
renmennenggoujiangxintaishizirendaiderourendubianda,nenggougenjuyitianyidianyididexunlian,zuizhong,congyigeburongyipichadesangshibianweiyigehenmianruandenvhai。
zongshangsuoshu,shijishangjiushishuopengyouguanxidemimijiuqujueyushibushininenggoujunhengxintaiyulizhixianghuguanxi。bawozheileinenglichengzuojiaoyouzhecixiongtongtidenengliang:nijishikeguande,yeshilixingde,nijikeyiqukeguandequsisuo,youkeyilixingdequtihui。nijikeyiqulizhishanglejieruhezuo,youkeyibubeixintaisuoshangxia。ninengbaxintaijiadingshiruoyang,ninengbalizhijiadingshiyangxingde,yinci,chengweicixiongtongtidenengliang。
zaizheiyiguochengzhizhong,xuduoneishihourenmenyingdangweizijiyixieduanliandejiyu。
qidaimeigerenyouzheneiyangdeyizhongnengliang,youyuruguoniyouzheneiyangyizhongjunhenglizhigenxintaideguanliandeqinfendeneishihou,niderenshengdaolujiuhuiyuelaiyuefeichangjiandanhenchunsui,zhenxingfu。
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