失恋后忘不掉前男友 我无法专心考研

　　junlianfenshoudejizhongkeneng，shiyifangmianshiyinweishijianyudidiandexianzhi，daozhilianggerenmeifazhangqixingzaiyiqi；lingyifangmianyekenenghuishoudaoxianghuzhijiandeqingxubianhuaheshuyuandeweihai。youshijunrendegongzuoxingzhiyeyoukenengdaozhigoutongjiaoliudejiannanherenkedeqianque，zuihoudaozhilefenshou。yucitongshi，junrenjingchangmianlinweixianhezhangshijianfenlichulai，zheiyehuichanshengfeichangdaxinliyaliheyali，jiashangzhangjiudewuligan，yincifenshouyeshiyizhongzaisuonanmiangailv。danshi，wulunyuanyouzenyang，bulunshijunrenhuoshilingyiban，douyaoyingyongjieshouxianshibingweiyihoutanxungengqiangfangxiang。

　　防护引起的情绪生疏

　　junlianfenshoudejizhongkeneng，yizhongkeneng，junlianfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinkenengshiyinweishijianhekongjiandexianzhieryinqideqingxushengshu。dangyifangfuxianyiyubudui，xuyaozhangqidaizaijunying，meifayulingyibanjingchangpengmian，genbenwufahuandujiweizhongyaodejierihejinianrishi，shuangfangdeganqingkenengmanmanbianqian。zhangshijianfanghuhuidaozhibicizhijiandesilianqinmiganjiangdi，jinermanmandaozhiqingxushuyuan，zuizhongkenengdaozhifenshoudedaodejieguo。

　　交流障碍导致的争议

　　lingyizhongkeneng，junlianfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinkenengshiyinweijiaoliuzhangaierdaozhidezhengyi。buduigongzuoanpaijingchangjinzhangyoumangliu，bingqiezaijunyingzhongtongxuntiaojianbuyunxu，zheiyexudaozhilianggerengoutongjiaoliubiandekunnan。meifajishifenxiangbicideshenghuohetihui，yebunengyouxiaochuliwentihebuman，zhujianjileidejiaoliujiedikenenghuishilianggerenchanshengwuhuihemaodun，zuihoudaozhibiciquedingwanbizheifenganqing。

　　长期性分开的心理压力

　　junlianfenshoudedisanzhonggailvzhuyaoshiyinweizhangqixingfenlichulaisuochanshengdexinliyali。junrenchangchangxuyaoyuanliguxiang，yuanfutaxiangchurenwu，zheiyeshideliangrenhenyoukenengzhangqifenli。zhangshijianfenlichulaihuiyinfawuliganhemeiyouanquangan，yehuidaozhiqingxubuwending。yucitongshi，junrendegongzuofenweiyejiangmianlinweixianhegongzuoyali，zheileikebianxinghuishilingyibangandaodanxinyubuan，zuizhongkenengdaozhiqingxupijuanfenshoudedaodejieguo。

　　价值观念生活规划的差别

　　junlianfenshoudelingyizhonggailvzhuyaoshiyinweijiazhiguannianshenghuoguihuadechabiesuodaozhi。junrenyufeijunrenhenyoukenengyouzhebutongdeyishiheshenghuoxiguan，biruduidaihunyin、jiazhong、gongzuodengfangmianrenzhiguandiankenengchuxianjiaodadechayi。zheixiechayihenyoukenengdaozhiliangrenchanshengmaodunhezhengyi，meifadachengyizhi，zuihoudaozhifenshoudedaodejieguo。

　　身心状况的改变

　　zuihouyizhonghenyoukeneng，junlianfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinkenengshiyinweibicizhijianxinlizhuangtaidegaibianeryinqide。buduidegongzuofenweiyuyaliwuyiduishentijiankangchanshengleyidingdeweihai，youshijunrenyoukenengchuxianxinqingdiluo、yiyuzhengnaizhichuangshanghouyingjizhangaidengxinlijiankangwenti。gezhongwentihenyoukenengduiyuganqingchanshengbuliyingxiang，bingqieyedailaihenduoxinliyali，lingliangrenwufazaiciweichijiankangzhijiandeguanxi，zuihoudaozhijunlianfenshou。

　　junlianfenshoudejizhongkeneng，junlianfenshoudegailvshiduozhongduoyangde，meiduiqinglvdexianxiangdouhuiyousuobutong。buguanfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinzenyang，liangrendoubixuzhenchengjieshouxianshi，bingxuanzeshihezijidelumian。jinyoutongguogoutong、lijieyuzhichi，caikenengzhanshengkunnan，huoshizhongxinshenshizijideqingxuhezhengtiguihua，jizijigenduifangtanxungengjiahaodefazhanfangxiang。