异地恋男友花钱太多 我很担忧未来要分手吗

　　junlianfenshoudejizhongkenengshejidaozhegezhongfuzadeqingganjiujieyuxianshikaolv。kenengjiushiyinweishijianhejulideqianche，jianxingjianyuan；kenengjiushiyinweixunliankemuhuojifashiliangrengekaiwanli；kenengjiushiyinweibicizhijiandejiaoliubiandekunnanyuxiyou；kenengjiushiyinweihuanjingyurenjiguanxizhuanbianzaochengliangrenjianxingjianyuan；kenengjiushiyinweibicixingqinghexiguandebuhedaozhimaodun；kenengjiushiyinweibicirenshengguihuazaochengwufadiaohedechongtu。wulunshinazhonghenyoukeneng，junlianfenshouzhongjiangjiliangrenchanshengbeishanghebugan，danyeweitamenderenshengliuxiameihaodehuiyihechengzhangdejihui。

　　【简述】

　　junlianfenshoudejizhongkeneng，junlianfenshoushizhiyinqizhongyifangbeizhengzhaoruwuhuobushuzaibiededifangerzaochengliangrenfenli，tamenmianlinshijianhejulidekaoyan。zaizheiguochengzhong，youkenengchuxianduozhongduoyangqingkuangjiyuanyinzaochengjunlianfenshou，rangwomenyiyizhongzhenshiyouhenxizhidefangshiqutaolunzaiqizhongzheijizhonggailv。

　　【1. 爱情生疏】

　　渐行渐远：内心间距调远

　　bansuizheshijianhejulideqianche，shuangfangdeganqingmanmanshengshu。zhangshijiandaobiehefenlihuirangbicideneixinjianjudiaoyuan，zhujiansangshigongtongyuyan、xingquheaihaolejie，aiqingwufaweichi。

　　彼此思念：情系彼此之间

　　danshi，zaifenliderilitou，liangrenkenengshishikekesinianlingyifang，suiranjuliyaoyuan，danbicizhijiandeguanhuaihesinianzhixinrengrancunzai。danshi，bicisiniandeqingxuhuoxumeifamibuxianshizhongkongque。

　　【2. 阻拦要素】

　　时间不同步：错过了最佳共处机会

　　yinweiliangrenshijiananpaihegongzuomubiaowufatongbu，cuoguogongchudezuijiashiqi。tongchangyigerenzaixunlianzhonghuochurenwu，erlingyifangzaoyikongxialai；huochuxianshizhangzhangduanbuyidejiari，bunengmanzubicizhijianzhijiandehudongyaoqiu。

　　沟通不畅：没法落实情意

　　buduihuanjingyutongxunshebeixianzhicushibicizhijiandejiaoliuyuelaiyueshifenkunnan。henyoukenengzhinengkaoduanzandedianhuajianduanxinxineirongcainengweichilianluo，wufachuansongsinianheshufaqinggan，daozhijingshenshangdejiedihenanyigoutongjiaoliudejiongjing。

　　【3. bianhuahechongtu】

　　环境改变：融入艰难

　　yinweirenyuandiaozheng、junduipeizhidengyinsu，liangrendehuanjingfashenglebianhua。qizhongyifangshiyinghuanjinghuoxinshenghuodenenglichaoguolingyifang，henyoukenengdaozhishuangfangjianxingjianyuan，naizhibicizhijiandeshenghuoxiguanhejiazhiguannianzaochengchongtu。

　　整体规划：无法调和的冲突

　　zaijunduirichangshenghuo，gerenzhengtiguihuashoudaoxuduoxiandingtiaojiandexianzhi，rufuxianyishixian、jifadeng。lianggerenzaijunlianzhongwufazaizhengtiguihuashangdachengyizhi，zhenduigongzuofazhan、jiatingjihuadengfangmiankenengcunyouwufadiaohedechongtu，jinerdaozhijunlianfenshou。

　　【结束语】

　　junlianfenshoudejizhongkeneng，buguanjunlianfenshoudeyuanyinjigailvzenyang，zheiyiguochengchongmanjiqinghekaoyan，shuangfangdouhuizaoshouzhexinlingshenchudetongkuyupolie。danshi，junlianfenshouyeweitamendakailetongwangchengzhangyuziwotansuodamen，genjuyingduifenshouheshiqu，tamenjiangbiandegengjiajianqianghewanshan。quanguocheng，jinguanjianku，danerqieyeshiliangrentuibiandeyibufen，liuxiabaoguidehuiyiyujingyan，bianchengrenshengdangzhongyiduannanwangdelvcheng。