男友爱玩冷战 恋爱四年分手10次

　　nanpengyouheqiannvyoushiyinweiyidilianfenshou，zheishiyigepubiandanyourangrenjiuxingushi。julirangerkexiangaixinyuelaiyueshengshu，langmanchengnuobeishenghuodejulifensui。jinguanbicizhijianshenshendixianglian，quewufakefushenghuozai2gebutongchengshidejiedi。tamenyexuyongjinyiqienuli，changshiweichiaiqingdehuomiao，danshizuizhong，shijianqianchehewufawanhuideneixinjuli，shidetamenzhiyoujuedingfenshou。zheiyiduanyidiliandejiejugejinggao，gaojiewomenzhenxiyanqianren，jinliangjianshaoyinjulierpoliedeganqing。

　　nanpengyouheqiannvyoushiyinweiyidilianfenshou

　　qingrenzhijiandejuli，youshihouchengweiwomenaiqingdenanti。zaizheiyangyigekuaijiezoushehuifazhan，yinweizhongzhongyuanyinzaochenglianggerenliangdifenjubutongdifangdezhuangkuangbingbushaojian。danshi，zhenduinanpengyouheqiannvyoulaijiang，tadeyidilianzaoyudaolebeishangdejieshu。zaizheipiangushizhong，womenjiangyaotansuotamenfenshouyuanyin，bingsikaoyidiliandetiaozhanyuhenyoukenengjiejuefangan。

　　探索的逐渐

　　dangnanpengyouheqiannvyouzhujianyidilianshi，tamenduiyucishimanhuaixiwang。tamenrenweixiangaideguangmangnenggouzhanshengjulidezulan。danshi，suizheshijiantuiyi，tamenzhujianfaxian，yidilianbujinshixinlingdekaoyan，gengjiashibixumianduiderichangjiannan。

　　时间与距离

　　yitiantiandiyiwang，nanpengyouheqiannvyouyuelaiyueyuelaiyueyaoyuan。tamenjiejinquanlihuxiangfenxiangshenghuozhongdediandiandidi，meiyitongdianhua、meiyitiaoxinxidouchengweilelianjiebicizhijiandeqiaoliang。danshi，shizhangdechabiehemangliuderichengfenpeizhujianbatamendiaoyuanle。meifagongtongduguozhongyaodeshike，meifajishijiaoliudejiongjing，rangtamenmanmanshiqulebicizhijiancunzaigan。

　　精神上的压力

　　yidilianyehuidailaixinlizhuangtaideyali。nanpengyouheqiannvyouchangchanghaipaguduhejuewang，yinweitamenmeifaqinshenganshoudaolingyifangpeiban。qianquezhitijiechuhemianduimiandejiaoliu，cushitamenkewanglingyifangdehuaibaoyuguanhuai。zheileijingshenshangdekumenhewufamibudexiangwang，zaichijiudeyidilianzhongjianjianqinshilelianggerendeganqing。

　　沟通的窘境

　　jinguanxiandaikexuejishujiyidiliandeqinglvmentigongledaliangdebianjie，dangoutongdanbuyoushineimeliuchang。shijianchahefanmangdegongzuorangtamennanyizhaodaogongtongdeshizhanggoutongjiaoliu。lengmodexinxineirong、tuichihuiyingjiqirichangsuosuiyalirangtamenyuelaiyuenanyixianghulianjie。goutongdejiongjingshitamendegoutongyuelaiyuebingliangerfawei，manmanjianjianshuyuanbicizhijian。

　　人生命运考验

　　zuihou，nanpengyouheqiannvyoukaoyanchixu、renshoubuhuizaidexiachangkaoyan。suirantamenaizhelingyifang，quewufahuibikeguanshishi：yidilianyijingweilianggerendeganqingzengtianlewufawanhuizaochengdeshanghai。fenkaibianchengweiyidechulu，jinguanzheigequedingzengtianlefeichangdadetongchu，danshitamenyishidaolezheiyeshibicizhijianzuiheshidexuanze。

　　结束语

　　nanpengyouheqiannvyoushiyinweiyidilianfenshou，nanpengyouheqiannvyouzuoweiyigeyidiliandeshili，gaojiewomenyidilianshiyichangjianxinlvcheng。zheiyaoqiubiciyouchongzudegoutong、rentongherenshou。danshi，youshihouyunshinengjiwomenwufayuzhidekaoyan。womenyaoyishidaole，ganqingbudanshixindongdeouyu，yeyaozhenshixiangsuiyufuchu。zaiyidilianzhong，keyishizhechuangzaogengdadeyitongshizhang、jiaqianggoutongyijijiaqiangbicizhijianderenke，zheixienuliyexukeyibangzhuwomenbaituojulidezulan，weichiaideqiaoliang。