测试你在爱情中受伤的原因

　　nanqingrenmalewonantingshiyaofenshouma？zheihuatanxunleyiduanbeizhengyihefenqisuoyingxiangdeganqing。dangnanrenxuanxieqingxuyuelaiyuexiuruxingshi，zheishifouyiweizhetamenzhendexiangwanbiguanlian？zheiyiwentiyinqilezhenduiqingganhudong、zunzhongyujiexiandetansuo。shifounengxiubuzheiduanganqingzaiyudangshirenzhijiandeganqinglilunjichuzhenduiwentigaijindexiangfa。zheizhongqingkuangyefanyingchuzaiganqingzhongyudaokunnanshizenyangzhaodaojunheng、zhongjianxinrenhefenxipanduanqingxushibushihaizhidejiamengdeyidananti。

　　nanrenderumachengleganqingdejieshu

　　言辞其背后的损害

　　nanqingrenmalewonantingshiyaofenshouma，zaiganqingzhong，yanciyoushihoukeyishangguoyigerendexin，tebieshidangnanrenduinvrenyingyongbuhaotingdeyanyushi。zheizhongrumarangnvrenjuedefushang、beiwuru，shenzhiyinqiletamenzhenduiganqingdezhengyi。keshi，zheileirumashifouyiweizhenanrenqueshixianggennvrenfenshouni？

　　讨论身后动机

　　nanrenyingyongbuhaotingdeyanyu，kenengjiushiyinweiqingxubengkui、qifenhuobumanyi。zheizhongrumatongchangshichuziyutamenzishendeqingganyalihexiaochen。keshi，shibushiyiweizhetamenzhenxiangfenshouni？keneng，neizhishitamenbuzhengquedebiaodaxingshi，erbingfeizhenzhengdeyongyi。

　　情感上的多元性

　　ganqingbenjiushiyiduanfanzakunhuodelvtu。zaiyudaokaoyan，rurumashi，quedingshifoufenshoubingburongyi。guanliandeqianti、bicijiandezhangwo、rentonghegoutongjiaoliu，doukeyiweihaiqueding。yexu，qinshenjinglizheizhongcuobainenggouchengweiguanlianfazhanhetigaodejihui。

　　整修损坏的关联

　　fenshoubingbuyidingshiweiyidexuanze。dangnanrenrumanvrenhou，zhongjianxinrenhexiufuguanxishikenengde，danxuyaoshuangfangdenulihexinlishangdezhunbei。zhenduisunhaijuedenanguofennuyeshizhengchangde，danxunzhaoyigegongping、zhongshi、anquangoutongfangshi，shizhongsuguanliandediyibu。

　　重新审视感情使用价值

　　zaodaorumahou，nvrenbixuzhongxinshenshizheiyiduanganqingdejiazhiheshichangqianjing。shibushizheiyangdeguanlianhaizhideweizhinuli？dangaiyuelaiyuetongkuermeiyoubianhuadezhengzhaoshi，yexuxianzaishishihoukaolvdaozijideaiqingheshenxinjiankangle。

　　结束语

　　nanqingrenmalewonantingshiyaofenshouma，nanrenderumajinjinganqingshijielideyigenanti，danbingbuyiweizhefenshoujiushiweiyidejiejuefangfa。zhongxinsikaoganqingjiben、xunqiuzhuanyezhichihekaizhanjiankudehuihua，huoxukeyizhaodaoheshideduice。wulunzainali，baohuhaozijidezunyanxingfukuailezishizhizhongyingshizuiguanjiande。