2018年想要脱单 请先停止说出这6句晦气话

　　dangliangrenzoudaowufajiejuedechengdu，budebukaolvfenshoushi，zenyangtuoshanchuzhifenshoushixiangbianchenglezhongzhongzhizhong。yaofenshouzenmeban，xuyaozhuyidecengmianxuduo：guanjianzaiyugoutongjiaoliu，shuangfangyingpingdengjiaoliu，keguanbiaoshuxinlixiangfa；qicizhongshi，lijieduifangdetiaoxuantihui，bimianercishanghaihezhengzhi；qicishifenshoufangshi，nenggoushangtaohaofenshouweizhiheshizhang，huanjiegangahechongtu；zuihoujiushichulihoushi，rufengecaichanhuogongtongzhaiwuguanlideng。fenshoubingbushiqingsongyukuaidetiaoxuan，danshiruowufamibu，zenyangtuodangfenshou，bianchengleweichibicizunyanyouhaowanglaideguanjiansuozai。

　　寻求冷静分析和情感均衡

　　yaofenshouzenmeban，fenshoushiyijianjianxinerkepadeshiqing，yiner，zaixiajuexinqian，dajiaxuyaoquebaozishenchuzailizhi、lixingdeqingkuang。aiqingchongdongquedingkenenghuizhishihouhuimojiyushanghai，yiner，womenyaoweizijiyiduanshijian，bikaizhengzhiyujuyouqingxuhuaqingjing，yipinghengxinxuhesikaoguanliandezhenshiqingkuang。

　　寻求客观会话与思维的共识

　　zaiquerenfenshouzheiyijuedinghou，womenyinggaiheduifangjinxingyicikeguanhuihua，yibicizhijianlejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou。genjupingdengjiaoliu，womenkeyigenghaodilejiefenshoudeyuanyinjidongyin，fangzhibubiyaodewujiehezhengzhi。yucitongshi，genjuxunqiuluojisiweidegongshi，womenhuiyouhuidadaoyizhongyouyifenshoudefangshi，congerjianshaoxinlishangdesunhai。

　　考虑到时长、地址与方式

　　fenshoufangshiduiyushuangfangeryandoushizhiguanzhongyaode，yinciwomenxuyaoshensishulvshizhang、dizhijiqifangshi。xuanzeyigeshidangdeshijian，rangshuangfangdoushiyouchongfendezhunbeihesiweideshineikongjian，buyaoxuanzaibicixintaizuijidongdeshikekaizhanfenshou。xuanzeyigesimiqieqingjingdidian，fangzhizaigonggongchangsuohuohenrongyiyinqibubiyaohengangadediqufenshou。zuizhuyaodeshi，xuanyongwenheerhenmingquedefangshibiaoshufenshouqueding，yizunzhongduifangdetiyanhejinliangbimiansunhai。

　　解决资产与共同债务

　　fenshouhou，qianshedaohefacaichangongtongzhaiwudechulifangfayeshibixude，zheixuyaoshuangfangwanshantanrandimiandui。yaopingjunfenpeifuqigongtongcaichan，jinliangjianshaozichanchongtudefasheng。zhenduigongtongzhaiwu，shuangfangkeyigoutongjiaoliushangtao，zhidingheshidefanganqujiejue，yihuanjielingyifangdejingjifudan。

　　不再纠缠、保持独立与自我提升

　　fenshouhou，biciyingdangjinliangbimianbubiyaodejiuchanhelianxi。tigongbicizhijianchongzusirenkongjiandulidefazhan，buhuizaichangshiganshetarendeshenghuohequeding，bingzhubujienazheigexindeshiji。ciwai，womenhaixuyaozhaodaoxindexingquyuaihao，zhuyizijidegerentisheng，manmanbaituofenshouyinying，zhongxinxunzhaorenshengdekuaile。

　　接纳情感上的治愈与寻求适用

　　fenshouhou，nikenenghuiqinshenjinglijingshencengmiandeshentitengtongshiwang。zaizheigeshihou，womenyinggaiweizijishijianlaiquanyuhezhishang，zhongjiufenshoushiyizhongsangshihejieshu。xunqiushiyongshibukehuoquede，doukeyizhaodaoqinqipengyouqingtu，huozhexunqiujishuzhuanyexinlizixunshidezhichi，huodeqingganshangdezhidaohezhichi。

　　关心将来，迈向新的起点

　　yaofenshouzenmeban，suiranfenshoukenengjiwomendailaitongkuyushiwang，danwomenbixuxuyaoguanzhujianglai，jijizhudongmianduixindezhujian。womennengzhongxinshenshizijideyaoqiuhejiazhiguannian，tanxunzuiheshideairenheguanxi。buguanjingliduoshaocuozheyutongchu，shijiannengzhiyutongku，womenyinggaijianxinweilaiyiranchongchizhewuxiandekeneng。bawoxindejiyu，jiandingdimaixiangshuyuzijixindexingfu。