哈佛大学研究表明：长期单身的人寿命更短

　　dangrenmenzhuiqiugongzuo、aiqinghuolixiangdeguochengdangzhong，zongshihuizaoshoucuozheheshibai。danshi，youderenxuanzejianchi，xunzhaoxindefazhanfangxiang，eryouxierenzefangqi，tiaoxuanfenshou。buchenggongjiufenshou，dangzheihuabianchengshenghuodeyigesuoyingshi，huoxushiyinweishiquxinxinheyongqi，huoxushiyinweimeiyoukanjianxindeqidaihejiyu。danshi，womenhaikeyicongzhongdedaoqifa：zhihuizaiwangjiguoqudefudan，zhanliqilaicongtoukaishi，cainengfaxianchenggongyuxingfukuailedelumian。

　　一个故事的开头

　　buchenggongjiufenshou，cengjingyouyiduinianqingdexiaoqinglv，tamenxiangaidehenshen，qidaibicizhijianxieshoubingjianmaijinchenggongdeweilai。danshi，tamendouyoushuyuzijidemubiaohelixiang，zheiyeshideliangrendeguanximianlinzhejudadeyalihetiaozhan。zaizhuizhugongzuodaolushang，tamenwangwangzaoshoulezhuduokunnanhecuozhe，danshitamenrenweizhiyaoxianghuxinren，jiunenggoukefuyiqie。danshi，yunshiyiranzaitamenxinzuinanguodeshihou，duitamenfachuyiciyankedetiaozhan。

　　不期而遇的不成功

　　tamenyiqizijintouruleyixiangshangyeguihua，chongmanxiwangdirenzhengongzuozhe。danshi，shiyuyuanweidejielunrangtamenyishunjiandierulewujinkunhuohemimangdangzhong。touzikuisun，meihaodemingtianyidubeijidefensui，tadexinchedishiqulexiangqiantuijindeqipo。zaizheigechongchizhekongjuheshangxindeshishikeke，takaishizhiyiziji、caiyibicizhijian，caiyitamenjiandeganqingshifounengjingshoudezhuzheiyicideyanlidaji。

　　离散变量的眼泪

　　tadezhengchaobuxiuhezhengzhizhujianriyizengduo，xinlizhuangtaideyalirangtamenchengshoubuqi，zuihouxuanzelefenshou。zheiyijuedingbingbushitamenzuixiangyaodedongxi，dantamenhuijuedefenshoushiweiyidechulu。yanleizaizheigelengdandeshijielibaochu，tamenshiquleyiqianneiyifenchiredeai。

　　不成功的思考

　　danshi，yezhengshizaibeishangdefenshouyihou，takaishifansiguoqudezhuduobuchenggong。tamenmingbai，buchenggongbingbudengyuyidingyaofenshou，ershiyaoyiqimiandui、baituo。huoxu，shiquyishidequdechenggong，tamennenggouzhongxinshenshizijidelixianghebaofu，shiqigengjiaqingxiyuzhenshi。huoxu，tamenkeyiyiqilijiehezhichi，yiqizaicitashangtongwangchenggongdelvtu。

　　重新开始的勇气

　　zaifenshouyihou，zheixierenzaiyiduanshijiandexuehuisikaozhong，zhongyuzhaodaoxinlingshenchudehuida。taxuanzecongtoukaishi，buhuizairangshibaihebuchenggongduankaitamenderensheng。tamenmingbai，buchenggongzhishiyizhongzanshixingdeqingkuang，meiyicidecuozhequanshichengzhangdejihui。tamenjuedingzhenzuoqilai，zhongshineiyifenchiredereqinghezhuiqiulixiangjuexin。

　　取得成功拼搏奋斗

　　tamenzhidingzijideshenghuoheshiyemubiao，zhuiqiulixiangzaiduchengweitamendexinyangqudongli。tamenfuchuguogengduodeshijianxinqindehanshui，congnijingzhongxuedaolexuduozhenguidejingyanhejiaoxun。meiyicidefazhanhezaojiudoushitamengengjianding，dongderuhelequdechenggongxuyaoshijianhexixin，bixuleguanhebaizhebunaodexinnian。

　　成功和爱情的切合

　　zuihou，tamenzaigegegongzuoshangmianqudeleyidingdequdechenggong，bingqiezaiaiqingdaolushangyezaicizhongfengle。tamenxuehuileruhezaiheaizhijianqudepingheng，mingbailequdechenggongbingbudengyuyaoxuanzelikai，fanershideyongaigenqudechenggonggongtongdazaoxingfukuailedeshenghuo。tamenmingbai，zhenzhengdechenggongbudandanshiwuzhishanghuode，gengjiashineixinshenchudemanzuhebicideshiyong。

　　不成功，仅仅是一个逐渐

　　buchenggongjiufenshou，zaitamendegushizhong，quzhededaoluhebuchenggongjinjinyigexindekaishi，yigerenshiziji、zhuiqiushiyongjiazhidejihui。jiuzheiyangzaicuozheheshibaiderenshenglvxingzhong，buchenggongbingbudengyujieshu，ershiyicixindechufa。womennengcongzhonghuodeqifa，wulunzaoshouduodajiannan，yinweiwomenjianchidaodi，zhongxinshenshizijidemubiaohelixiang，bianhuizhaodaozijidechenggongzhidao。qudechenggongbingbushiweiyidexuanze，dansheqibingbushijiejuewentidebanfa。wulunchenggongyufou，womendouyaojianshouzijidexinyang，yonggandequmianduikaoyan，yongjijidexintaihehengxinxunmiwomenzhenzhenglixiangdeaiqinghechenggong。