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　　探索非传统婚姻界线

　　zaiwotichuyigewanrenzhumuqieyinqixuduoyiyidelundianlunjushi，ji“wolaogongtongyiwochugui”，henduorendouhuigandaojingyahedanyou。danshi，zheigexianxiangtongyangcunzai，tatupolerenmenduiyuhunyinhezhongshidejiusixiang。zheier，womenjiangyaoshenrufenxizheiyibupingchangtiaojianxiadehunyindongtaixing，tansuofeichuantonghunyindejiexian。

　　个人自由和婚姻牵制

　　hunyinyizhibeichengzuozhongshi、dandangheyuedingdedaibiao。keshi，dangyigebanlvyunxulingyigebanlvchuguishi，womenjinbuzhusisuo：hunyindegainiandingyixiandingshifougaigengjialinghuo，yishiyingziwodeziyouxinyuan？zheiyangdeguandiangaojiewomenzhongxinsikaoduiyuhunyindeqidaihequanshehuiduihunyinguanshudehelihua。

　　管理权与道德困境

　　yugerensuiyixiangbi，renpinwentiyezhujianluchushuimian。zaizheiyangyigechangjingxia，womenyinggaiwenyixiaziji：banlvguanlianshifounengrenshouzheileixieyishu，huoshizheizhongzuofashibushiweifanleduibanlvchengnuohedaodezhunze？chongfenkaolvduiyumeigerenshehuidaodedelijiegerenduihunyindexuqiu，womenyinggaixixinhengliangguanliquanyudaodezhijiandeguanlian。

　　社会发展接纳与价值观念

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　　工作压力、信任和关联融洽

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　　多样化婚姻方式

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　　结束语

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