婚姻破裂的10大征兆

　　dangnanshengshuofenshoushibushizhendejiuxiangfenle，henduorendouhuicaixiangtamendouzaichongdonghuoxuanxieqingxu，erbingbushizhenzhengdequeding。danshi，shijishangyexubingbushizheiyangjianyi。nanshengshuofenshouyoushiqueshishiyinweiyijingkaolvdaolehaojiu，buzaixinrenguanlianweilaidefazhanhuoshitihuidaolewufadiaohedechabie。suiranyoudiannanshenghenyoukenengzhishiyishichongdong，danwomenbunenghulvetamenzhenzhengdeyongyi。yaoqingchutadequeding，womenyinggailingtingbierendexiangfayuqinggan，erbuzhishiyijutamenshuofenshoudefangshiqufenbian。nanshengshuofenshou，tongchangshijingguoshenzhongkaolvchulaidejieguo。

　　nanshengzaiyiduanganqingzhongjiangchufenshouzheiyihuatishi，tongchanghuiyinqidajiadecaiceyuyihuo。tamenzhenxiangwanbizheiduanganqingma？youhuozheshiqingxufaxieyuchongdongzhishini？zaihuidazheigewentizhiqian，womenshouxianxuyaomingqueyidian，meigerendexiangfayuxingweidoushiduyiwuerde，bunengbaquanbunanshengdouguidaoyizhongsiweifangshizhong。

　　情绪与冲动并不是唯一动机

　　nanshengshuofenshoushibushizhendejiuxiangfenle，haowuyiwen，youyixienanshengzaichongdonghuoqingxubengkuideyike，kenengshuochufenshoudeyanyu，danbingbudaibiaotamenzhenxiangfenshou。youshi，zheizhishiyizhongbaofafangfa，yizhongtixianxinlikunhuoyuqifendefangfa。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，nanshenghenyoukenengbingmeiyouwanquankaolvdaofenshoudedaijiahejiazhi，zhixiwangzaochenglingyifangdeguanzhuhesikao。

　　确定经过慎重考虑

　　danshi，womenbunengjiandandijiangnanshengshuofenshouguinaweiqingxufaxie。youxuduonanshengzaiquedingmingquetichufenshouyiqianyijingjinglilezhangshijiansikaohechiyi。tamenjiangmianlinzhezhuduowentihedanyou，zaiyewufajianchidaodi。zheigexuanzetongchangjinglileshenzhongkaolv，kaolvlezijideaiqingheguanxijinhoudefazhan。duiyutamenlaishuo，fenshoukenengshiyizhongbaituohecongtoukaishidexingshi。

　　丧失坚信与无法调和的差别

　　youshi，nanshengquedingmingquetichufenshoujiushiyinweitamenyijingshiquduizheiduanganqingderenkeyuxiwang。gongchushijiandezengjiahenyoukenengjieluchuxianghuzhijiandebutongpinyuwufadiaohedechabie，tamenguanyuweilaikenengchuxiandenantigandaowuzhuhegaibianbule。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fenshouhenyoukenengjiushitamenxunzhaoxindejihuihexingfudebiranqushi。

　　聆听真实用意和情感

　　bulunshiqingxufaxiehuoshishenzhongkaolv，dajiadounanyipingzhenanshengshuofenshouzheihualaifenxipanduantadezhenshiyitu。womenyaogengjiazhongshinanshengsuobiaodadechuangyixiangfaqingxu，erbuzhishipianmianxingkeguankandaiyanyuhebiaoxiang。lingtinglingyifangdexinling，lejietademimangheyaoqiu，huoxukeyixunzhaogenghaodejiejuefangan。

　　差异人会有不一样动因

　　zuizhongyaodejiushiyaoyishidaole，meiyigerendouyouzhezijidedongjiheniantou。youyixienanshengkenenghuishuofenshoujinjinshiweilezaochenglingyifangdeguanzhuhejingti，yiqiugaijinguanlian；erlingyixienanshengkenengqueshiyijingquedingwanbizheiduanganqing。yiner，womenbunengbasuoyounanshengdoutaojintongyigesiweifangshizhongzuochupanduan。

　　nanshengshuofenshoushibushizhendejiuxiangfenle，dangmianduinanshengshuofenshouzheiyihuatishi，womenyinggaibaochilizhihelizhi，buyaotaiguoyuyipiangaiquanhuopianmianxingfenbian。weiyoutongguozhenzhidegoutongyulingting，cainenggenghaodelejieduifangdeyongyiyuqinggan，jinerxunzhaochushihebicijiejuefangan。