男友得知我不是处女变脸

　　nanshengyinweijujuefashengguanxifenshouyoubiyaowanhuima，nanshengyouyujujuefashengguanxierfenshou，duiyushifouyoubiyaowanhui，shiyigefuzaerjiujiedewenti。zheibingfeidanchunshiguanzuorendedixianhuogerenyiyuan，erqianshedaobicideqingxu、jiazhiguannianjiqiguanlianfazhandequshi。wanhuisuoyilaishizhiduifangshibushizhenxinshiyigenggaiyijiduiweilaigongshihenuli。jinxingyichangshencengcideduitanyusikao，lejieduifangdexuqiuheqiwang，caikeyizuochumingzhidexuanze。danshi，renshengkuduan，ruowanhuichengweiyizhongcuicanhejushu，yeyinggaiyoudanliangfangkaishou，tanxunshuyuzijidexingfu。

　　拒绝发生关系分手：考虑挽回的重要性

　　nanshengyinweijujuefashengguanxifenshouyoubiyaowanhuima，lianaiwentitongchangfuzaqiefanza，tebieshidangnanshengyouyujujuefashengguanxierfenshoushi，shibushiyoubiyaowanhuibianchenglerangrenyouyubujuedetiaoxuan。yixiashiyixiezhuyaoyinsu，bangwomengengqingxidisisuowanhuiqijiazhiyuyiyi。

　　1. 完备的沟通与理解

　　ganqingzhongdejujuefashengguanxikenengshiyigelinshidezhengyi，bingfeimeifaxiaomidehonggou。tongguozhenchengdejiaoliu，lejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou，keyidapowujiehecaixiang，xunzhaodegongshihejiejuefangan。zhiyouzaishuangfangnenggouquanmianlejieduifangdexiangfahequeding，caikeyigengyouxiaodipingdingshibushiyoubiyaowanhui。

　　2. 重构信任和重视

　　nanshengjujuefashengguanxikenengshichuyuyingerenyuanyin，ruzhongshi、minzuzongjiao、renshengjiazhiguandeng。zaiwanhuideguochengdangzhong，zhonggourentonghezhongshishishifenzhongyaode。lijieduifangdetiaoxuan，lejieduifanglichang，erqiezhanxianchuzijizhidexinrendeyimian，caikeyimanmanxiufuguanxilideliefeng。

　　3. 对未来的共识和努力

　　wanhuibingbushidanchunweilebaochiyiyoudeguanlian，gengweiguanjiandeshiduiweilaidegongshiyunuli。zaizhongxinjianlilianxideguochengdangzhong，shuangfangbixuduiweilaidefazhanqushidachengyizhi，bingweizhifuchuqinfen。jiarunanyixingchenggongtongmubiaohesixiang，wanhuijiuhuibiandehaowuyiyi，yehuiyingxiangbicidefazhanyuxingfu。

　　4. 重视个人幸福和自由

　　wanhuibingbushiyigewujinyanxudequanguocheng，womenyeyinggaiyishidaolezhongshigerenxingfuhesuiyi。jiaruwanhuiyijingchengweiyizhongcuicanhejushu，rangshuangfangchuzaitongkuyubuyuezhong，neiyangyexuzuijiadexuanzeshifangkaishou。renrendouyouzhipeiquanzhuixunzhenzhenzhengzhengshuyuzijidexingfu，youshifangshouyeshiyizhongshifangchulai，rangshuangfangdoukeyizhaodaogengshihederenyuguanlian。

　　nanshengyinweijujuefashengguanxifenshouyoubiyaowanhuima，zongeryanzhi，nanshengyouyujujuefashengguanxierfenshou，shibushiyoubiyaowanhuixuyaozonghekaolvhaojigeyaosu。tongguogoutong、lejie、zhonggouxinlai、xunzhaodegongshiyunuli，nenggouweiwanhuidiandingjichu。danshi，womenyeyinggaiyishidaolegerenxingfuyuziyoudebiyaoxing，fangshouyeshiyizhongyilihebaituo。buguanxuanzehezhonglumian，zuizhuyaodeshigenjuzhenshiqingganyubicizhijiandezhongshi，jizijigenduifangzaojiugengmeihaodeweilai。